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Sunday at a Glance: April 26, 2026

Fri, 24 Apr 2026 16:30:17 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 26, 2026

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:30 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point - 11:15 am in Room 001

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Positive Psychology Covenant Group - 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal - 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 26Apr26

Fri, 24 Apr 2026 00:36:35 GMT

Events & Meetings, April 26 – May 2

Sunday, April 26

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:30 am in Room 006
Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point - 11:15 am in Room 001
Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Positive Psychology Covenant Group - 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal - 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, April 27

A Course in Miracles - 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

So You Think You Can Preach! - 5:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Tuesday, April 28

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Immigration Justice Team Meeting - 7:00 pm in Adams Hall
Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, April 29

Finance Committee - 6:30 pm in Room 006

Choir Rehearsal - 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Thursday, April 30

Dip into Eliot! - 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Friday, May 1

Men's Advance - Bergfried

Friday Freethinkers - 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, May 2

Men's Advance - All Day at Bergfried

Covenant Group for Newcomers - 9:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Joanne Prats Memorial Service - 2:00 pm in Sanctuary

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Planning a meeting or event? Check the calendar and then start with our Meeting Space Reservation Form! Group leaders, have you set up an area for your group in Realm? Contact Debby Lovell to set up your group.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 26

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 23:52:22 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, April 26

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 26 during the 9:45 service.

Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in Our Whole Lives (OWL) should go to Room 006 at 9:30.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

SPARC

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 16:21:22 GMT

SPARC (Spiritual and Progressive Adults’ Recreational Collective)

Coming Next

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: April 19, 2026

Sat, 18 Apr 2026 19:42:14 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 19, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Med Squad - 10:45 am in the Library

Invitation to Membership - 10:50 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support – 11:15 am in Room 004

Starting Point - 11:15 am in Room 001
Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Covenant Group Facilitators - 12:30 pm in Room 004
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert - 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 19Apr26

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 02:14:58 GMT

Events & Meetings, April 19–25

Sunday, April 19

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Med Squad - 10:45 am in the Library

Invitation to Membership - 10:50 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support – 11:15 am in Room 004

Starting Point - 11:15 am in Room 001
Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Covenant Group Facilitators - 12:30 pm in Room 004
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert - 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, April 20

Soul Matters Covenant Group - 7:00 pm in Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, April 21

Women's Alliance - 9:45 am in Adams Hall
Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group - 7:00 pm on Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Friday, April 24

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, April 25

Attitudinal Healing - 10:00 am in Adams Hall

SJA Spring Book Read - 10:00am in Room 006

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 19

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 01:59:16 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, April 19

This Sunday, April 19 features an intergenerational worship service celebrating Earth Day. Children & youth of all ages are encouraged to attend with their family. ��

The nursery is OPEN during both services for young children needing freedom of movement and playtime. All other classes and activities for children and youth are OFF this Sunday, with the exception of the youth Our Whole Lives program which gathers from 9:45-11:45.

Sunday, April 19 – 9:45 & 11:15 am

“For the Love of Trees!” – Rev. Krista Taves & Scott Stewart

Trees are amazing! They give us shade, nuts and fruit. They hold water. They clean the air and they sound wonderful when the wind whooshes through them. But the trees are in trouble. Who is going to save them?

Featured musicians: Kristi Nigh, vocals; Melinda Monroe, vocal & guitar; Beth Curtiss, songleader; David Nalesnik, piano.

This service includes a multi-generational play titled "The Tree Museum." Following the 9:45 service, there will be a tree planting in front of the building. Kids and families are invited to join. ��

March 2026 Board Bits

Wed, 15 Apr 2026 21:10:52 GMT

March 2026 Board Bits

THOUGHTFUL QUESTION OF THE MONTH:

Bob asks “What are some specific, special memories - from your travels - that left lasting impressions on you?”

REV. BARBARA GADON, OUR MINISTER EMERITA:

March 22, 2026: Rev. Barbara will join the service remotely. Bob and Jennifer will share words of appreciation for her service to Eliot.
April 1, 2026: Rev. Barbara will attend in person for a reception in her honor in Adam’s Hall.

NEW MEMBERS:

Nine new members signed the book in March! More new member book signings are planned soon (April 26 and May 17). All are encouraged to attend.
Prior to participating in the Annual Meeting, members must both (1) sign the book and (2) be approved by the Board. Because there is a book signing the morning of this year’s Annual Meeting (May 17th) the Board plans to approve these new members prior, contingent on signing the book that morning, to enable their participation.

BOARD APPOINTMENT TO THE NOMINATING COMMITTEE:

Rebecca Taylor

NOMINEES FOR BOARD OF TRUSTEES:

Susan Myers, Adam Bockhorst, and Steven Bain

2026–27 BUDGET:

The board reviewed the draft budget for next year. Expenses are up but so is attendance. We want to increase hours for assistant minister and RE, but we need to know we have the funds. The draft budget has very conservative increases and not much to cut if we don’t meet pledge goals. So we are keeping a close eye on pledges.

PLEDGE DRIVES:

2025-26 pledges: We have had a slower than usual payment of pledges in 25-26 with several deficit months. This improved when Rev. Krista spoke to this in a Sunday service in February. We are getting back on track but there is still some room for improvement.
2026-27 pledges: Membership is up so we have more pledging units, yet fewer pledge returns than usual. Pledges are still coming in and we hope to reach our goal so we do not have to make cuts to the budget.

MID-YEAR BOARD RETREAT:

Saturday, March 28, 2026: the board will meet at Eliot from 8:30 – 12:30. Our goal is to spend quality time together, have some in depth discussions of congregational feedback from our 2025-26 Open Questions series, and leave with a new draft Rolling Roadmap goal.

compassion-in-action

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 18:50:26 GMT

Compassion in Action

We are looking for:

Balls and other outdoor activity toys
Pool toys
A sandbox with a lid
Helmets for 5–6-year-old boys and a 10-year-old girl
A storage container for toys
Lawn chairs for parents
Large pots for flowers and vegetables
Size 7 diapers

Please leave your gifts in the box at Adams Hall or contact us at immigration@eliotchapel.org for coordinating the delivery of the larger items. Thank you!

Sunday at a Glance: April 12, 2026

Sat, 11 Apr 2026 20:59:29 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 12, 2026

6th & 7th Grade Field Trip – 9:15 am offsite

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 12Apr26

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 18:06:25 GMT

Events & Meetings, April 12–18

Sunday, April 12

6th & 7th Grade Field Trip – 9:15 am offsite

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

OWL for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, April 13

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

So You Think You Can Preach! – 5:00 pm in Room 006

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Tuesday, April 14

RUUMS – 9:30 am in Room 001

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

IJT Steering Committee – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, April 15

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, April 16

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, April 17

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Eliot Chapel Trivia Night – 6:30 pm offsite

Saturday, April 18

Julie Triplett Celebration of Life – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 12

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 17:16:19 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, April 12

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 12 during the 9:45 service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

6th & 7th grade youth participating in the Islam field trip should gather in Adams Hall at 9:15.

Youth participating in Our Whole Lives (OWL) should go to Room 006 at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: April 5, 2026

Sat, 04 Apr 2026 18:21:15 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 5, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – after each service in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 5Apr26

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 04:16:53 GMT

Events & Meetings, April 5–11

Sunday, April 5

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, April 6

Gayer Covenant Group – 10:00 am in the Library

Parents as Spiritual Guides (Caregivers) Covenant Group – 7:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, April 7

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Social Justice Steering Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, April 8

Creative Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

UUSC Action Hour: #LetAsylumSeekersWork – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Worship Associates – 7:3 0 pm in Room 006

Thursday, April 9

IntrovUUrts Covenant Group – 6:30 pm in the Triplett Room

Humanist Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Friday, April 10

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Bergfried Family Practice Campout – 5:00 pm in Adams Hall and outdoors

Saturday, April 11

SJA Spring Book Read – 10:00 am in Room 006

Adult OWL Class – 10:30 am in Room 001

Springer Memorial Service – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary

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Volunteer Spotlight: Tim Gardner and Ann Lemon

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 03:22:01 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight April 2026: Tim Gardner and Ann Lemon

Ann has attended Eliot for 23 years and remembers that, in 2013, the first service she attended was when Reverend Bonnie introduced Covenant Groups!

Ann serves as the Treasurer on The Board of Trustees, is an active member of The Welcome Team, manages the Women’s Weekend website, and has led several sessions of Wellspring. She jumps in to help out for many outreach events such as Eliot’s booth at The Greentree Festival.

Tim has been at Eliot Chapel for over 50 years! In the past he has sung in the choir as well as a soloist for Worship services, served on

the Board of Trustees (Tim was chair the year we raised and borrowed money, to contract for our new steeple and finial. The day of installation Tim remembers sitting with Kay Boyd, Rev John Robison, and others, observing from the safety of a table at the Farmers Market! Tim has also taught in our R.E. Program, taught OWL for many years, co-chaired our annual pledge drive, has been an active member of our Social Justice program including our Vigil for Hope and Healing as an act of public witness. Most recently he has loved serving as a Liturgist for our Worship Services.

When asked “What do you gain from your volunteer work at Eliot Chapel?”

Ann’s response:

“I love facilitating Starting Point with Tim! We tell classes that Starting Point is our Covenant Group. I love the opportunity to get to know people before they become members. I am always thrilled to be there when they sign the membership book. There is so much going on in the world right now. Volunteering at Eliot is my way to do something to help people. Eliot provides a great community, and community is so important.

There are a few common things Starting Point Participants share:

they feel at home at Eliot
they know they can be themselves and not be afraid to ask questions
they like that Eliot doesn’t just talk about what is happening, we are actively doing things

I volunteer as my contribution to help keep Eliot thriving for all who need it.”

Tim’s response:

“Some may find this a bizarre association, but serving Starting Point as a co-facilitator with Ann reminds me of raising my children. Starting Point allows me the opportunity to help shepherd Eliot Chapel’s newbies into our community. When I witness participants’ signing our Membership Book, I am the proud parent. What a privilege! Throughout the years, my volunteering has been a love affair with Eliot Chapel. Just as I have given freely, I have been embraced and loved by the Eliot Chapel community. I am so blessed.”

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 5

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 02:55:48 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, April 5

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 5 during the 9:45 service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth in grades 6-12 should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate: Midtown Community Services

Wed, 01 Apr 2026 22:42:26 GMT

Shared Plate: Midtown Community Services , April 2026

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Midtown" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: Mar 29, 2026

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 08:35:57 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: March 22, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – after each service in Adams Hall

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – after each service in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 29Mar26

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 05:59:43 GMT

Events & Meetings, March 29–April 4

Sunday, March 29

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:45 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, March 30

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, March 31

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn ( New time! )

Immigration Justice Team Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, April 1

Barbara Gadon Reception – 5:00 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, April 2

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, April 3

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Racial Justice Film Series – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Saturday, April 4

Covenant Group For Newcomers – 9:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Gene Hutchins Memorial Service – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

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Front Office Volunteers Needed

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 04:38:56 GMT

Front Office Volunteers Needed

The Front Office Volunteers are integral in assuring things run smoothly for the staff. They answer the phone, take messages, welcome visitors, collect mail and packages, and do various jobs the staff assigns.

Having reliable people in the office Monday through Friday is a huge help to the ministers and staff of Eliot Chapel! Computer skills are helpful for some of the tasks of an Office Volunteer but not required. This is a great way to serve our congregation and gives staff time to do their important jobs without the interruptions associated with reception in the office, and the more mundane tasks such as addressing envelopes.

We have 2 immediate openings to fill:

The first and third Thursday morning shift, from 10:00 AM-12:30 PM
The Wednesday afternoon shift every week from 12:30-3:00 PM

We're also looking for more Sunday Office Volunteers!

Please respond to volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org if you are interested in one of these positions or want to know more about the job!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 29

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 04:04:58 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, March 29

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 29 during the 9:45 service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in Our Whole Lives (OWL) should go directly to Room 006 at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: Mar 22, 2026

Sun, 22 Mar 2026 02:04:51 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: March 22, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Italian Club of St Louis presents A Musical Journey through Italian Opera – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 22Mar26

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 01:27:42 GMT

Events & Meetings, March 22–28

Sunday, March 22

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Italian Club of St Louis presents A Musical Journey through Italian Opera – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, March 23

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

So You Think You Can Preach! – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Tuesday, March 24

Women's Alliance Field Trip – 9:30 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn ( New time! )

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Thursday, March 26

Bergfried Stewardship Team – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Friday, March 27

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, March 28

Board Retreat – All Day in Room 006

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The End of Effort

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 00:21:55 GMT

The End of Effort—and Overwhelm:

Setting Down the Stone & Remembering What We Are

So many of us are carrying heavy stones right now. You are not alone. Sometimes it helps simply to set them down together for a while.

Many of us genuinely feel overwhelmed right now, by events in the world, by responsibilities in our lives, and by uncertainty about the future. That feeling is real and understandable. At our next Attitudinal Healing gathering, we will explore whether there might be another way of meeting these times.

Attitudinal Healing Saturday Gathering | March 21 | 10:00 am to Noon | RSVP

Together we’ll reflect on how the meanings we give events shape our experience. Through conversation, journaling, and a short, guided practice, we’ll gently examine the cultural stories and inner beliefs that keep us pushing the stone uphill—and consider the possibility that some of the effort we’re making may not actually be necessary. What if part of our exhaustion comes not only from what is happening in the outer world, but also from the fearful inner narrative within our minds about what is happening? When we begin to question those interpretations to ask if that’s really true, we may find freedom and ease in discovering a different way of responding to life’s challenges.

If this theme resonates with you, we would love for you to join us. Please RSVP to attitudinalhealing@eliotchapel.org to let us know you are coming so we can prepare the space and materials and send you the door code to get in the building. We look forward to sharing a thoughtful and supportive morning reflection with shared insight.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 22

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 23:37:58 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, March 22

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 22 during the 9:45 service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth activities for 6th-12th grade youth are OFF this Sunday for spring break. 6th-12th grade youth should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

February 2026 Board Bits

Wed, 18 Mar 2026 16:32:11 GMT

February 2026 Board Bits

THOUGHTFUL QUESTION:

Matthew asked us to consider, “If a friend of yours talked to you the way you talk to yourself, would you stay friends with yourself?”

FINANCES:

The Board discussed the overall financial health of our church.

2025-26 Pledges: Incoming pledges are on target. We are halfway through the church year and have received 53% of pledges made for 2025-26.
2026-27 Pledges: Pledge drive starts March 1st and runs through the 29th, with our goal being a conservative (5%) increase over last year.

BOARD CHAIR-ELECT:

Matthew Hull was unanimously confirmed to serve as Chair for the 2026-27 church year.

UPCOMING EVENT:

March 24, 6:30 pm – “SO…WHO DECIDES THAT? A Conversation About How Eliot Works (And Why It Matters to You)“

Nom Com and the Board are planning a fun event with a practical purpose, to explain how decisions get made at Eliot, and how YOU (yes, you) can get involved!

OPEN QUESTIONS SERIES:

Question #3 – “What resources shall we commit to center and expand love?”

The Board spent some time brainstorming Q#3 in our OPEN QUESTIONS series, about what resources we have at & how we might wish to commit them in the future.

Sunday at a Glance: Mar 15, 2026

Sat, 14 Mar 2026 19:47:57 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: March 15, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group – 11:15 am in Room 004

Invitation to Membership – 12:20 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 15Mar26

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 02:00:08 GMT

Events & Meetings, March 15–21

Sunday, March 15

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group – 11:15 am in Room 004

Invitation to Membership – 12:20 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, March 16

Soul Matters Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, March 17

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn ( New time! )

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm on Zoom
Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, March 18

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, March 19

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, March 20

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, March 21

Attitudinal Healing Saturday Gathering – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

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Copy of Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 15

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 00:05:55 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, March 15

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 15 during the 9:45 service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth activities for 6th-12th grade youth are OFF this Sunday for spring break. 6th-12th grade youth should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Leadership Circles

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 19:47:03 GMT

Passion in Action: The Eliot Leadership Circles

Because you don't need a title to make a difference.

Do you care deeply about a project at Eliot? Are you passionate about a social justice initiative, a community program, or simply making our Chapel a warmer place to be?

Sometimes, the word "Leadership" feels intimidating. It sounds like more meetings, more emails, and having all the answers. At Eliot, we see it differently. Leadership is simply the act of moving a passion forward. Whether you’re a long-time committee chair or someone who is just "curious" about how to get things done, we invite you to join a Leadership Circle.

What is a Leadership Circle?

It’s not a class or a lecture. It’s a confidential "brain trust" of six peers and one facilitator. We meet for three 90-minute sessions this spring to help each other navigate the "stuck" parts of our passion.

The "Coach Approach" (No Experts Required)

We use a specific format designed to take the pressure off:

The Deep Dive: In each session, two participants share a challenge they are facing (45 minutes each).
The Power of the Question: Instead of jumping in with "You should do X," the group practices asking powerful, open-ended questions.
The Outcome: This helps the person sharing find their own best path forward while everyone else practices the art of truly deep listening.

Why Join?

Solve a Real Problem: Bring a challenge you're actually facing and get the collective wisdom of the group.
Learn a New Language: Discover how to "coach" rather than "fix" – a skill that works wonders in volunteer work, your career, and even at the dinner table.
Safe Space: These circles are bound by strict confidentiality. It’s a place to be honest about what’s hard.

We are recruiting for round 2, after a successful pilot. If you have a passion for Eliot’s mission and are ready to grow alongside others, we want you in the circle.

An example of how Leadership Circles works.

Explore Facilitators & Sign Up Here

(Commitment: 3 sessions in April/May. Limited to 6 participants per group.)

Claire Wyneken: April 18, April 25, & May 1; 9:00 to 10:30 am , at Eliot or on Zoom
Steve Mennerick: May 4, 11, & 14; 6:30 pm via Zoom

Sign Up for a Leadership Circle Now!

SJA Spring Read

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 15:44:44 GMT

SJA Spring Book Read: My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa Menakem

Join us for a group discussion series of My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa Menakem on April 11 and 25 at 10:00 am. The book is a call to action for all of us to recognize that racism is not only about the head, but about the body, and introduces an alternative view of what we can do to grow beyond our entrenched racialized divide. Join Nancy Spargo, your racial justice team, and your Eliot community to explore the impact of institutional racism on ourselves and our society after reading the book.

RSVP to racialjustice@eliotchapel.org .

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: Mar 8, 2026

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 03:23:34 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: March 8, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

6th & 7th Grade Field Trip (Hindu Temple) – gather in Adams Hall at 9:15 am

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Open Questions Session – 11:00 am in Room 001

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

SPARC: What If God's A Midwife – 1:00 pm in Room 005

New Jerusalem play rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 6Mar26

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 03:20:00 GMT

Events & Meetings, March 8–14

Sunday, March 8

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

6th & 7th Grade Field Trip (Hindu Temple) – gather in Adams Hall at 9:15 am

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Open Questions Session – 11:00 am in Room 001

E xploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

SPARC: What If God's A Midwife – 1:00 pm in Room 005

New Jerusalem play rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, March 9

So You Think You Can Preach! – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Tuesday, March 10

RUUMS – 9:30 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

IJT Steering Committee Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, March 11

Kirkwood Ministerial Alliance – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Creative Spirituality Covenant group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Associates – 7:30 pm in Room 006

Thursday, March 12

IntrovUUrts Covenant Group – 6:30 pm in the Triplett Room

Humanist Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Friday, March 13

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, March 14

Adult OWL Class – 10:30 am in Room 001

Bergfeld Memorial Service – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 8

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 00:13:31 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, March 8

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 8 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

6th & 7th grade youth participating in the Hindu Temple field trip should gather in Adams Hall at 9:15.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Second Open Questions Summary

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 17:34:40 GMT

Summary of the Second Open Question Listening Sessions:

With Whom in the Community Shall We Engage in Loving Relationship?

On March 8, Reverend Krista will be introducing the third Open Question for this year, and afterwards we will again host in-person listening sessions immediately following each service, and again via Zoom in the days that follow. Be on the lookout for the official details to come in the next few weeks!

For Open Question #2, see below for a summary of the feedback we received about whom we might engage with (or increase engagement with) in our local community:

Summary of Second Open Question forums:

• Partner with local Kirkwood/area churches (U.C.C as well as A.M.E were mentioned)

• Engage with Aging Ahead – who support seniors & the elderly

• Engage more with the local community/neighborhood

• Host open house events

• Host community discussion forums

• Do more lobbying with local politicians and local canvassing about social justice issues

• Engage with Conservatives to foster conversations

• Engage with area Rotary Club and Chamber of Commerce

• Advertise or do events at local community colleges (to engage the younger crowd)

• Use music as a tool to foster collaboration and visibility with local organizations (e.g. choir exchanges, or open mic nights, etc)

• Do more with the UUA

• Partner with the Ethical Society on events

• Partner with local libraries for reading/story-time events

• Engage with the Equal Justice Initiative and/or Immigration Rights organizations

• Build relationships with the Black and other non-white communities (e.g. Meacham Park STEM outreach)

• Engage our allies, so we should partner with local artists on events

• Engage with local schools, like we used to do with Southside Development Center

• Engage more with Meacham Park

– Summary created by Board Member Matthew Hull

Sunday at a Glance: Mar 1, 2026

Thu, 26 Feb 2026 04:00:38 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: March 1, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend planning meeting – 12:30 pm in the Library

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 1Mar26

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 01:37:50 GMT

Events & Meetings, March 1–7

Sunday, March 1

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend planning meeting – 12:30 pm in the Library

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, March 2

Gayer Covenant Group – 10:00 am in the Library

So You Think You Can Preach! – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Parents as Spiritual Guides – 7:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, March 3

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Social Justice Steering Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, March 5

Wisdom Legacy – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, March 6

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, March 7

Covenant Group For Newcomers – 9:30 am in th e Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Our Whole Lives Gathering for 8th/9th Grade – 10:00 am in Adam s Hall

Eliot Talent Show and Art Exhibition – 6 :00 pm in the Sanctuary and Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 1

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 01:16:04 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, March 1

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 1 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for MCU

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 19:57:52 GMT

Shared Plate: Metropolitan Congregations United, March 2026

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MCU" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: Feb 22, 2026

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 22:15:43 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: February 22, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in Room 005
Current State of Immigration in St. Louis – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 22Feb26

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 17:44:23 GMT

Events & Meetings, February 22–28

Sunday, February 22

Our Whole Lives for 8th–9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in Room 005
Current State of Immigration in St. Louis – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

New Jerusalem Play Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, February 23

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Raising Anti-Racist Children – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Tuesday, February 24

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Immigration Justice Team Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Thursday, February 26

Wisdom Legacy – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Friday, February 27

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

6th & 7th Grade Field Trip – 5:00 pm offsite

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 22

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 16:30:24 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, February 22

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 22 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Child Dedication Ceremony

Wed, 18 Feb 2026 22:52:32 GMT

Child Dedication Ceremony – Sunday, May 3

A much-loved ritual in Unitarian Universalist congregations is the welcoming and dedication of infants and young children as part of a Sunday worship service. We are currently planning to include this ritual on Sunday, May 3.

Families where one or both parents or caregivers are actively participating as members of Eliot Chapel are invited to consider participation and to talk with Rev. Krista Taves about the meaning of the ceremony.

For more information about the ceremony, Eliot membership, or to set up a meeting with Rev. Krista, please send an email to Scott Stewart no later than April 1.

Attitudinal Healing Saturday Gathering

Wed, 18 Feb 2026 22:21:55 GMT

ATTITUDINAL HEALING SATURDAY GATHERING

The Choice to Rise: Beyond Fear, Beyond Reactivity

February 21, 10:00 am to Noon in Adams Hall

The practice of shifting into higher consciousness—again and again and again.

In our world right now, it’s easy to get pulled into cycles of worry, anger, and discouragement, leaving us emotionally exhausted and overwhelmed. In this state, our reactivity disconnects us from accessibility and receptivity to Higher Guidance, inspiration, and clarity.

We’ll explore grounding our nervous system’s energy into a coherent state of awareness for when our reactivity pulls us into the darkness. A state of higher consciousness is not about bypassing feelings or denying what is happening—it is about remaining open-hearted within it.

Our superpower is in our ability to choose again and again, to return to a calm, clear state with space to respond to life’s adversities with wisdom and love rather than judgment and fear.

Come reconnect with your calm, your clarity, and the deeper guidance always available to you.

Been "checking out" or feeling reactive and weary lately? This gathering is for you and so deeply needed right now. We hope you join us! RSVP to attitudinalhealing@eliotchapel.org.

January 2026 Board Bits

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 18:46:22 GMT

January 2026 Board Bits

Thoughtful Question: Rebecca asked: How can we bring our UU faith to bear on the questionable actions of this administration ? The Board could have spent the entire meeting discussing this question!

Our Eliot: The Board discussed our policy of living with one another in right relation, known as Our Eliot, which supports congregational conflict resolution and healthy communication. The Board is looking for volunteers with experience in conflict management to form a committee to revamp this process.

Data Dashboards: Brian has created new and improved dashboards to provide historical and current data about our church. Current dashboards include: Membership, Worship and RE Attendance, Pledge Campaigns, Communications, Financial Summary, and UU Common Endowment Fund. These are all available for Eliot members to explore in the membership section of the website.

Open Question Conversations: Matthew and Bob summarized what was heard during our 2nd Open Question discussions and will send a summary communication out to the congregation soon. The Board will dig into these summaries during our Winter Retreat (March 28, 2026) as we plan for the new Rolling Roadmap goal.

Board of Trustees meetings are fun! Come visit and find out what we do!

Sunday at a Glance: Feb 15, 2026

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 20:25:05 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: February 15, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Invitation to Membership – 10:50 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group – 11:15 am in Room 004

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend planning meeting – 12:30 pm in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Immigration Justice Movie Night a Resounding Success

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 16:41:31 GMT

Eliot Immigration Justice Movie Night a Resounding Success

On January 30, the Eliot Immigration Justice Team welcomed more than 60 people to view “Seeking Asylum." The film is a powerful documentary by Rae Ceretto and Kelly Scott that bears witness to the endless deterrents that migrants experience when seeking US asylum. Crossing the border to escape violence is not the final hurdle of the migration journey: it only begins there. The film follows Kensy, a Honduran mother, and her children from their crossing and through the arduous obstacle course of pursuing legal status. “Seeking Asylum” reveals the struggles, resilience, and hope of those seeking refuge before and after border crossing, and why asylum remains an essential part of the American Dream that we can’t afford to lose.

A panel discussion followed the screening, featuring Nicolle (last name withheld), Ben Zeno, and Marilly Lorenz , who addressed the social, political, and economic realities of Honduras; what it is like to grow up there; and the history of U.S. interventions and factors that compel people to leave their country. After the presentations, the enthusiastic audience enjoyed deep conversation with the speakers. The viewing is one of a series of events presented by the Immigration Justice Team roughly once a month to educate the community about the flaws, expense, and human cost of a thoroughly broken “system” that desperately needs reinvention, and provide ideas about how each of us can make it better.

Events and Meetings 15Feb26

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 02:22:26 GMT

Events & Meetings, February 15–21

Sunday, February 15

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Invitation to Membership – 10:50 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group – 11:15 am in Room 004

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend planning meeting – 12:30 pm in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, February 16

Office Closed for Presidents Day.

Raising Anti-Racist Children – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Soul Matters Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, February 17

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, February 18

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, February 19

Wisdom Legacy – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, February 20

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, February 21

Attitudinal Healing Saturday Gathering – 10:0 am in Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 15

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 00:12:49 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, February 15

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 15 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

All youth programs for grades 6-12 are OFF this morning. Youth in 6th-12th grade should attend the service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: Feb 8, 2026

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 15:56:38 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: February 8, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings8Feb26

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 01:24:50 GMT

Events & Meetings, February 8–14

Sunday, February 8

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, February 9

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Raising Anti-Racist Children – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Tuesday, February 10

RUUMS – 9:30 am in Room 001

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

IJT Steering Committee – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, February 11

Creative Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Associates – 7:30 pm via Zoom

Thursday, February 12

Bergfried Forestry Sub-Team – 2:00 pm in Adams Hall

IntrovUUrts Covenant Group – 6:30 pm in the Triplett Room

Wisdom Legacy – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Humanist Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Friday, February 13

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, February 14

Adult OWL Class – 10:30 am in Room 001

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 8

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 00:51:34 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, February 8

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 8 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Keller House Sale

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 20:04:20 GMT

Dr. Chad Keller’s House Sale

We are pleased to share that Eliot Chapel successfully sold Dr. Chad Keller’s house in December 2025 for $270,000. Many thanks to Teri Nicely for representing Eliot Chapel throughout this transaction.

The net proceeds from the sale totaled $230,674. While this amount was slightly lower than originally anticipated due to inspection findings that required sewer infrastructure repairs and mold mitigation, the final result came close to our initial estimates.

The proceeds have been allocated as follows:

Static Allocations:

Chad’s 2025–2026 Pledge: $5,500
Scholarship Fund: $5,000

Remaining Proceeds:

Endowment (82%): $180,543
Capital Improvement Fund (13%): $28,623
Religious Education Staffing (5%): $11,009

We are deeply grateful for Chad’s generosity and for the meaningful support this gift provides to our congregation and its mission. His kindness strengthens Eliot Chapel’s ability to serve, grow, and continue its work of compassion and community engagement. We are truly thankful for his commitment to our shared values.

Shared Plate for MICA

Sun, 01 Feb 2026 05:28:02 GMT

Shared Plate: MICA Project, February 2026

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MICA" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: Feb 1, 2026

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 18:22:17 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: February 1, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Chili, Soup, and Games with the Fun Team – 11:15 am in Rooms 001/002
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend Planning – 12:45 pm in the Library

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings1Feb26

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 07:13:48 GMT

Events & Meetings, February 1 – 7

Sunday, February 1

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Chili, Soup, and Games with the Fun Team – 11:15 am in Rooms 001/002
Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Women's Weekend Planning – 12: 45 pm in the Library

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in th e Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, February 2

Parents as Spiritual Guides (Caregivers Cov Grp) – 7:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, February 3

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Social Justice Steering Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, February 5

Wisdom Legacy – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Transitions Support Group – 5:00 pm in Adams Hall

Friday, February 6

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, February 7

Covenant Group For Newcomers – 9:30 am in Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 1

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 06:37:42 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, February 1

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 1 during the 9:45 service.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group

Wed, 28 Jan 2026 22:53:15 GMT

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group

Alzheimer's and Dementia Support Group is a facilitated group discussion for congregants and friends with Alzheimer’s and other dementias to process emotions and changes related to their condition.

This is a support group for those living with Alzheimer's or other forms of dementia. We will explore our individual journeys with our disease; how and where we have found support; and where we struggle. This group is not meant for caregivers, although caregivers may be invited to attend one or more sessions. The group is organized by Peter Wilson and facilitated by Steve Mennerick.

CONTACT: adsupport@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Third Sunday of each month at 11:15 am in Room 004

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

LGBTQIA+ Team

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 17:51:47 GMT

LGBTQIA+ Team

Friends: This year has started off with more deeply troubling acts of oppression and violence against many groups, including the LGBTQIA+ community, especially toward our Trans siblings. But take heart. Eliot UU Chapel is showing up in bold, loving, and effective ways. It means so much to have many allies participating and fighting alongside us.

On January 10, 15 Eliot and other community members participated in a training by PROMO (Missouri’s LGBTQIA Advocacy organization) in “Deep Canvassing." Deep Canvassing is an engagement and advocacy approach that involves listening to the person’s perspective, sharing your story, and asking questions to help the person reflect on the issue and to explore shared values. It is a research-tested approach that has proven very effective in moving hearts and minds . . . and votes.

Eliot Chapel has a newly launched LGBTQIA+ Advocacy Team and we are making good trouble! Email lgbtqjustice@eliotchapel.org if you are interested in being a part of the team.

Our primary partners in this good trouble are PROMO, The LGBTQIA+ Interfaith Faith Alliance, Metropolitan Trans Umbrella Group (MTUG), and Metropolitan Community Church. Our team seeks to build on the momentum of organizations and groups that are already in motion. We add our labor, our ideas, our energy, and our connections. Here are a few examples:

Several team members attend a monthly community meeting at PROMO where we strategize and collaborate with allies throughout the region.
On January 20, the LGBTQIA+ Faith Alliance and some of our team were part of a letter and card writing event.
Eight members of Eliot advocated in Jefferson City on January 21 as part of PROMO’s team, but also as part of a larger social justice lobby day.
Eliot has been collecting food for MTUG’s pantry and food delivery.
We intend to staff tables at St. Louis Pride, Tower Grove Pride, and Black Pride.
We will be participating in Deep Canvassing in the Kirkwood and Webster Groves areas.
Members of the broader community are hearing about our work and are now participating alongside Eliot members.

Clergy and members of Eliot Chapel lobbied at the Missouri State Capitol in Jefferson City on January 21.

There are so many ways to be engaged, from building community, sharing support, communicating with our representatives, advocating and protesting – all are necessary, and all are rewarding in their own ways. Many thanks to all the volunteers on the team and to Rev. Krista for her support and encouragement. Email lgbtqjustice@eliotchapel.org to be connected to our team for questions, to join the team, or to get more information.

Sunday at a Glance: January 25, 2026

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 06:43:03 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: January 25, 2026

The Eliot Chapel building will be closed on Sunday due to the Winter Storm Warning.

Worship Service – 10:00 am online at eliotchapel.org

Starting Point: Winter – 11:15 am via Zoom

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 2:00 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 25Jan26

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 06:38:48 GMT

Events & Meetings, January 25 – 31

Sunday, January 25

The Eliot Chapel building is closed due to the Winter Storm Warning.

Worship Service – 10:00 am online at eliotchapel.org

Starting Point: Winter – 11:15 am via Zoom

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 2:00 pm via Zoom

Monday, January 26

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Property Development Team – 5:00 pm in Room 006

Tuesday, January 27

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Immigration Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Friday, January 30

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

"Seeking Asylum" Viewing and Panel Discussion – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Saturday, January 31

Attitudinal Healing January Gathering – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

Bergfried Winter Warm-Up – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Click the green links for more Information!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 25

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 05:42:00 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, January 25

ELIOT CHAPEL WILL BE CLOSED ON SUNDAY, JANUARY 25 DUE TO THE WINTER STORM WARNING

Chili, Soup, and Games Extravaganza

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 21:58:56 GMT

Let's Do Lunch!

Sunday, February 1

Herald the New Year with delicious dishes and games galore at Eliot's Chili, Soup, and Games Extravaganza on Sunday, February 1, brought to you by the FUN team. Last year’s fundraising culinary competition proved to be a hit but this year we are making things even more freewheeling and fun as sampling bowls and official voting ballots will now be free.

Official bragging rights will be awarded for best chili – both meat and vegetarian – and supreme soup. (Those planning to participate have until January 29 to grab a slot via SignUpGenius .) Mac and cheese and drinks will also be made available. The intergenerational fun kicks off with board and card games in the Eliot lower level following the first service (feel free to bring a personal favorite!) with dining officially commencing at the end of the second service.

December 2025 Board Bits

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 19:40:12 GMT

December 2025 Board Bits

Thoughtful Question: Brian asked: What aspect of our Unitarian Universalist identity feels most vital right now, and how is the board helping it flourish? The discussion that followed was a good reminder of the importance of board service.

Property updates: The board toured meeting rooms 004, 005, and 006, which were recently updated (special thanks to Jan Erdman and Mary Quinn). They are gorgeous and welcoming! We look forward to using them for future BOT Meetings.

Proposals for UUA General Assembly Discussion: The board voted unanimously to support a request from First Parish Brewster to include three proposals related to ministerial review processes on the 2026 UUA General Assembly discussion agenda. The proposals are (1) Ministerial Fellowship Committee (MFC) Policy Review, (2) Fair Compensation During Suspension, Presumption of Innocence, and (3) Clarify Suspension Authority.

Rolling Roadmap progress: The board checked in on the Rolling Roadmap, noting that the monthly Lead Minister’s report is an excellent source for details about progress towards our goals. We would like to make sure all our members know how to find these reports (and more!) on the membership section of the website.

Open Question Conversations: Matthew and Bob summarized what was heard during our 1st Open Question discussions, noting a consistent theme of desiring more community here at Eliot. We look forward to continuing to dig into our Open Questions and to deciding on our next Rolling Roadmap goal, based on these conversations.

Reminder - Board of Trustees meetings are open to all! We would love to have you join in our discussions.

Sunday at a Glance: January 18, 2026

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 19:36:42 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: January 18, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point Winter Session – 11:15 am in Room 001

Invitation to Membership – 12:20 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 18Jan26

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 03:27:54 GMT

Events & Meetings, January 18 – 14

Sunday, January 18

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point Winter Session – 11:15 am in Room 001

Invitation to Membership – 12:20 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, January 19

Office Closed for Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day

Raising Anti-Racist Children – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Soul Matters Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, January 20

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Covenant Group Co-Chairs Meeting – 2:00 pm in the Library

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, January 21

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, January 22

Death Cafe – 9:30 am in Room 001

Bergfried Stewardship Team Quarterly Meeting – 5:00 pm in Adams Hall

Friday, January 23

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, January 24

Attitudinal Healing January Gathering – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

Bergfried Winter Warm-Up – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Click the green links for more Information!

Annual Talent and Art Show

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 02:09:41 GMT

SAVE THE DATE

Eliot's Annual Talent and Art Show

Calling all artists, musicians, comedians and performers! Eliot's Annual Talent and Art Show will be Saturday, March 7 from 6:00-8:00 pm. We will again welcome submissions of visual art and will enjoy paintings, sculptures, photography and more at a dessert reception in Adams Hall following the talent portion of the show.

If you would like to submit a piece of art or be considered for a spot in the Talent Show, please stop by the table after coffee hour on January 25, February 1 or 8, or send an email to talentshow@eliotchapel.org . Preference will be given to performers who did not participate last year.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 18

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 01:14:32 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, January 18

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, January 18 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Eliot Alzheimer’s and Dementia Support Group

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 16:49:28 GMT

Eliot Alzheimer’s and Dementia Support Group

Do you have Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia? Would you like to connect with others who have Alzheimer’s or dementia? This is a group for people with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia rather than caregivers or family members. If you are interested, please contact Peter Wilson at ADsupport@eliotchapel.org for more information.

Sunday at a Glance: January 11, 2026

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 06:09:26 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: January 11, 2026

Our Whole Lives for 8th-9th Grade – 9:15 am in Room 006

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

6th & 7th grade field trip – 10:00 am meeting in Adams Hall

Open Question Listening Session – 10:45 am in the Youth Room

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point Winter Session – 11:15 am in Room 001

Open Question Listening Session – 12:15 pm in the Youth Room

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

2026 Women's Weekend planning – 12:30 pm in Room 003

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 12:30 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Stand Up, Fight Back

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 03:13:40 GMT

Stand Up, Fight Back!

We are partnering with Abortion Action MO and PROMO to join the Stand Up, Fight Back Day of Action at the Missouri State Capitol in Jefferson City. We will focus on LGBTQIA+ and Reproductive Justice advocacy. The goal is to have 1000+ participate in the event.

Wednesday, January 21

11:00 am – 2:30 pm

Missouri State Capitol Rotunda

This is a chance to show up together, be visible, and make our voices heard during the legislative session. We will hold a rally in the rotunda at noon, eat lunch together (provided by AAM), then break into small groups to visit our representatives and senators.

Important:

There are FREE buses available for transportation, making it much easier to attend without worrying about the drive or parking.

Get more information and registration here!

Seeking Asylum: Movie & Panel Discussion

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 02:09:59 GMT

Seeking Asylum

A Movie Night and Panel Discussion at Eliot UU Chapel

Adams Hall on Friday, January 30 at 6:30 pm

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 11

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 00:14:11 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, January 11

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, January 11 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:15.

6th & 7th grade youth participating in the field trip should be in Adams Hall at 10:00.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

First Open Questions Summary

Wed, 07 Jan 2026 17:37:12 GMT

The First Open Question:

How Shall We Center Love in Our Care of One Another?

The Open Questions created by the Board are designed to help us learn what is important to the congregation so that we can continue to update the Rolling Roadmap for the coming years. On September 21, Reverend Krista’s service focused on the first of these Open Questions: “How shall we center love in our care of one another?” Afterwards, the Board of Trustees hosted discussion forums with Eliot members, both in person and online, to discuss this question. Participation in the discussions was robust, with nearly 75 members taking part! Attendees shared their thoughts, and vibrant discussions took place. Below is a summary of the excellent conversations and thoughts that came from these sessions.

Summary of First Open Question forums:
You shared many thoughts on what “love” looks like, and how we feel ‘loved’:

• Love is a verb
• Love is unconditional acceptance
• Love is sharing yourself
• Love is listening and simply being present, not fixing
• Love is having empathy
• Love is proactive caretaking
• Love is giving of your time
• Love is accepting each other as we are instead of pushing someone to be something else
• Love is learning to accept oneself as we are, because we must love ourselves in order to love others

You shared a consistent theme of wanting to increase the feeling of Community and the sense of belonging and had suggestions for various activities at Eliot. Here are some insights and suggestions shared by participants:

• Encourage more people to get involved in the Social Justice programs.
• Create a culture where it is ok to ask for help.
• There is a desire for Pastoral Care to extend beyond resolution of the immediate problem by maintaining an ongoing PC connection.
• Those who are widowed or live alone would feel loved and taken care of if folks called them occasionally to check in.
• You urged everyone to try to break out of our normal social silos during coffee hour and engage with folks we may not know well, to create new relationships.
• You expressed a desire for more intergenerational activities to foster relationships and understanding between the generations of our congregants.
• You asked for more fun social events like the s'mores bonfire in the fall.
• You urged getting to know the RE kids by name. It’s great when an adult that isn’t in a child’s immediate circle asks them to participate in something.
• Bring back monthly “Circle Suppers” or something similar.
• Create a more easily findable listing of all current covenant groups and their meeting times. This info is currently hard to obtain.
• Ensure that fundraising events stress that donations are “suggested” and/ or “optional”. Because some folks feel that if they cannot afford to donate, then they are not allowed to participate.

– Summary created by Board Member Matthew Hull

Sunday at a Glance: January 4, 2026

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 22:09:44 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: January 4, 2026

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Geek Squad Support – 10:45 am in the Library

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point Winter Session – 11:15 am in Room 001

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 4

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 21:16:13 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, January 4

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, January 4 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2025-26 RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

So You Think You Can Preach

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 18:38:55 GMT

So You Think You Can Preach!

If you’ve ever dreamt of standing at the pulpit offering an inspirational message, this is your chance! In this class you will:

Develop a deeper understanding of Unitarian Universalism and UU worship theology and practice
Understand the thinking behind each segment of the worship service
Build beloved community by listening deeply and supporting each other
Learn basic easy-to-apply sermon writing strategies
Build a worship service to offer to the most appreciative and forgiving audience you’ll ever meet
Work closely with Rev. Krista, who will support you every step of the way

To get the most out of the experience, you’ll need to attend all 5 sessions, commit to completing the assigned homework, and be prepared to offer your service in Summer 2026. You’ll get the richest experience in person, but zoom is available if you can’t make a session in person. Preference will be given to first-time participants. The class will have a capacity of 10 participants.

March 2, 2026 – Session 1: Unitarian Universalist Theology, A UU Theology of Preaching, and Choosing a Topic

March 9, 2026 – Session 2: The Order of Service: Mapping a Collective Spiritual Journey; Structuring Your Message

March 23, 2026 – Session 3: Exploring your topic

April 13, 2026 – Session 4: Present Draft 1, Give and Receive Feedback

April 27, 2026 – Session 5: Present Draft 2, Give and Receive Feedback

May 11, 2026 – Your final draft and full order of service will be due to Rev. Krista on May 11.

Times:
Sessions 1 - 3, 6:30 - 8:45 pm

Sessions 4 and 5, participants will divide into two groups and meet either 5:00 - 7:00 or 7:15 - 9:15 pm

CONTACT: ktaves@eliotchapel.org

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Raising Antiracist Children

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 16:59:25 GMT

NEW! Raising Anti-Racist Children

Raising anti-racist children is an important goal for parents, caregivers and educators. We want our children to be agents of change, able to understand and act on the vision of a just world for all. This class is for anyone with children in their life and offers an interactive roadmap to incorporating the tools of inclusivity and activism in everyday living for you and the children you love.

The class is offered via Zoom, with 4 sessions in January and February. It is based on the book, Raising Antiracist Children: A Practical Parenting Guide by Britt Hawthorne with Natasha Yglesias. It can be purchased here: bookshop.org . If the cost is prohibitive, please reach out to Rev. Krista ( ktaves@eliotchapel.org ) who will ensure you have a copy.

January 12 - Deepening our Understandings

January 19 - Healthy Bodies

February 9 - Radical Minds

February 23 - Thriving Communities

CONTACT: ktaves@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Mondays 6:30 – 8:15 pm January 12 and 19 and February 9 and 23, 2026

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Shared Plate for MPNIA

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 02:31:37 GMT

Shared Plate: Meacham Park Neighborhood Improvement Association, January 2026

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form . Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MPNIA" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 28

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 16:25:41 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, December 28

The 2025-26 Religious Education program is OFF on December 28. All RE staff members – Scott, Anna, Tim, and LaTosha – have the day off. The nursery is closed on December 28.

Families and children of all ages are welcome to attend the New Year Potluck Brunch at 10:00 am in Adams Hall.

The RE and youth program will resume on January 4, 2026.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year's RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: December 28, 2025

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 19:36:57 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: December 28, 2025

New Year's Potluck – 10:00 am in Adams Hall
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: December 21, 2025

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 20:47:01 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: December 21, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Invitation to Membership – 10:50 am in the Library

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 21

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 02:57:32 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, December 21

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, December 21 during the 9:45 service.

Children and youth aged four through 5th grade should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service for children in 5th grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Youth programs for 6th-12th grade youth are OFF this Sunday. Youth should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Deep Canvassing Training

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 17:42:43 GMT

NEW! Deep Canvassing Training

Start the year off powerfully! Eliot is pleased to offer Deep Canvassing Training to help you develop the skills and confidence to engage neighbors, friends, and colleagues in storytelling and empathy building around key social justice issues. By leading with stories, you will be able to move hearts and minds with your lived experience and create conversations that foster empathy, not debate. This approach works because people change through emotion and stories, not facts alone.

Deep Canvassing Training is appropriate for anyone seeking to engage others in matters of great importance, whether that be social justice, political action, or improving human relations in a neighborhood, organization or even your family. As an example, it will prepare you to engage with people on important local and national political issues, such as Missouri’s new Amendment 3 proposition, which seeks to overturn abortion access and deny Trans youth life-saving gender affirming care.

Please register and join us January 10 from 1:00– 3:30 pm in Adams Hall for this powerful program offered by Missouri’s LGBTQ+ Advocacy organization, PROMO. We, the people of Eliot Chapel, are storytellers, connectors and bridge-builders dedicated to advancing social justice with LOVE, community, and consistent engagement in the democratic process.

CONTACT: lgbtqjustice@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: January 10 from 1:00– 3:30 pm in Adams Hall

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

November 2025 Board Bits

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 19:25:00 GMT

November 2025 Board Bits

This month’s thoughtful question came from David Cox: What is a belief you hold now that you did not a few years ago?

The Board is grateful to all who attended the November 16 Special Meeting. It was an engaging discussion and all proposals passed. Thank you! Minutes will be available in the 2026 Annual Meeting Package for congregational approval.

The Chalice Keepers Fundraiser is going strong. Board members will provide an update on progress towards our goal ($10K) from the pulpit each Sunday (with or without the candle costume!).

Calling any Eliot members with HR experience! The Board is forming a Personnel Committee to ensure that we are following Eliot policies and applicable labor laws. Please let us know if you are interested ( board@eliotchapel.org ).

Matthew and Bob are planning to continue Open Question discussions (in person and on Zoom) to align with the following sermons:
January 11 Sermon on Question 2: “With whom in the broader community shall we grow in loving relationships?”
March 8 Sermon on Question 3: “What resources shall we commit to center and expand love?”

Stay tuned to This Week at Eliot for more details! Thank you, Matthew and Bob!

Rebecca Taylor and Jennifer Stauber

October 2025 Board Bits

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 19:12:36 GMT

October 2025 Board Bits

The Board affirmed the memberships of Brent and Cassie Youngblood. Welcome to the Youngblood family!
This month’s thoughtful question came from Jennifer: What’s the hardest lesson you’ve ever had to learn?
Membership is looking awesome: At the end of September in Realm, there were 230 “Pathway Guests” investigating membership at Eliot.
The Board will call a Special Meeting on November 16 to vote on the following:

Sale of the house gifted to Eliot by beloved member Chad Keller.
Bylaws revisions: 1) changes to our Endowment Fund policy, 2) adding the Director of Business Administration onto the Board as a non-voting member; 3) adding a new Board officer position for Prior Chair; and 4) updating pronouns throughout our bylaws to be non-gendered.
You can read about all five proposals on the Member Resources page.
Eliot's current policies and by-laws are on the website.

The Board reviewed the Open Questions discussion sessions led by Bob and Matthew. The congregation’s overall desire seemed to be the need to emphasize community. The Board looks forward to continuing engagement with our 2025-2026 Three Open Questions . (Find out more about the Three Open Questions process here .)

How shall we center love in our care of one another?
With whom in the broader community shall we grow in loving relationships?
What resources shall we commit to center and expand love?

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

singing bowls

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 19:08:59 GMT

Holiday Solstice Singing Bowls at Eliot Chapel

On December 18 from 6:00-7:15 pm, downstairs in Room 001, in celebration of the Winter Solstice and the Holiday Season, we invite you to our special Singing Bowls Class. Winter is the dormant time for plants, animals, and people. With more darkness, stillness naturally nurtures peace.

Our class honors the darkness and stillness as a time for rest, inner reflection, and energy conservation. We release what no longer serves us, creating space to set intentions for new growth so we may embrace the fresh light. The vibrations of the bowls release the old and welcome the new. Breathwork and gentle relaxation positions will help internalize our rest and renewal.

Previous yoga experience isn't necessary. A yoga mat or blanket will be needed. The practice may be done seated on a chair. Layers of comfortable, stretchable clothing are suggested. Comfortable props are available. The cost is $20.

REGISTER HERE .

Hoping this class will help you rest, restore, and renew! If interested, join us at Amigos afterward for time with friends.

Namaste, Deb Gambill, Instructor

Sunday at a Glance: December 14, 2025

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 05:46:42 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: December 14, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 12:15 pm in the Library
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 14

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 02:22:43 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, December 14

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, December 14 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:45.

Youth Group for 8th-12th grade youth is OFF this Sunday. Youth should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: December 7, 2025

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 20:49:13 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: December 7, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Crossing Paths Field Trip (6&7 Grades) – 9:30 am in Adams Hall
4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 10:45 pm in the Library

Holiday Bazaar – 10:45 am in Adams Hall
Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Holiday Bazaar – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Volunteer Spotlight: Toni Saunders

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 06:30:43 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Toni Saunders

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 7

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 04:14:41 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, December 7

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, December 7 during the 9:45 service.

Children and youth aged four through fifth grade should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service for children in 3rd grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to Room 006 at 9:45.

6th & 7th grade youth participating in the field trip to The Gathering should meet in Adams Hall at 9:30 am.

Youth Group members (8th-12th grade) should go directly to the youth room at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Death Cafe

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 21:16:43 GMT

NEW! Death Cafe

Death Cafe is an opportunity to discuss ideas, thoughts, concerns, or feelings about death. It is not a grief group, but rather a chance to increase awareness of death so we can live more fully. This can give us a sense of relief, as death is not something people tend to talk about. Death Cafe is led by Nancy Williger, a clinical psychologist and social worker.

CONTACT: deathcafe@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Wednesday, May 20 at 10:00 am in Room 001

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Events Reception Team and Event Coordinators Sought

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 17:20:05 GMT

Church Events Reception Team Members and Event Coordinators Sought

Do you like to entertain and host events or know someone who does? Eliot has a job (or two!) for you!

We are creating a new team of people who are interested in helping at ”special" church events. It is called the Church Events Reception Team at Eliot Chapel. This team may be asked to layout food and drinks for events we occasionally have at the chapel, such as the Ingathering potluck, Bread Service Sunday, and other special occasions where the ministers may ask us to help out.

These special occasions require layout and cleanup above and beyond the duties of our coffee hour volunteers. We need two coordinators who would share the responsibilities of gathering the team members when a need arises, purchasing food items (if not a potluck) and directing the preparation, presentation, set up, and cleanup of the event.

Please let volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org know if you are able to help out with this team and if you are willing to be one of the coordinators. It is an important job that helps us build community and support one another within this community. Eliot loves to party, but somebody has to host!

We are also in need of more people to serve as Event Coordinators for external rental events held at the chapel. If you are looking for a side job, this is actually a paid position! Coordinators work with the staff to meet the needs and wants of the group renting our space.

Interested? Please respond to admin@eliotchapel.org or volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org

Event Coordinator Job Summary: Event coordinators are the onsite hosts for external rental events (concerts, recitals, memorials, weddings, etc.) and would also serve as a point of contact for member memorial services and member weddings. These coordinators would be onsite to supervise the renters during their setup and clean-up, as well as staying onsite for the duration of the event. This

is a non-staff paid position whose services are paid by Eliot Chapel. In the case of member memorials and weddings, the Event Coordinator is onsite to assure the family has everything they need. Our Eliot memorial reception volunteers would set up, serve and clean up a food and beverage offering for the family and their guests. This buffet is managed by the Reception Team Leader, not the Event Coordinator.

Mary Meihaus

EUUC Volunteer Coordinator

Shared Plate for Room at the Inn

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 16:37:01 GMT

Shared Plate: Room at the Inn

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “RATI" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Gift Tree 2025

Sun, 30 Nov 2025 16:54:44 GMT

The Gift-Giving Tree

December 2025

The annual Gift-Giving Tree is available in Founders Hall. Youth In Action (YIA) is once again sponsoring gift outreach to local children and youth in need of gifts this holiday season. There are several ways to participate in this holiday outreach.

Here’s how the Gift Giving Tree works in 2025:

• For individuals wishing to donate gift items :

Thanks to Eliot youth group members , the Gift Tree is set up in Founders Hall, through the glass doors to the parking lot. Eliot members and friends can select ornaments.
Select a ginger person ornament(s) from the tree, which will indicate the age and gender of a local child.
Purchase a gift for the child and return the gift, wrapped or unwrapped, along with the ornament and place the gift under the tree OR in the gift box outside the building. Youth In Action will pick up the gifts for distribution via local charities that serve families in need. We recommend gifts in the $5-$10 range. Below are some examples of possible gifts:

NEW stuffed animals

NEW Children’s puzzles

Children’s books (NEW is best)

NEW crayons or other art supplies and coloring books

Gifts can be dropped off through Sunday, December 21 .

Questions? Contact Scott Stewart at eliotchapelre@gmail.com .

Chalice Keepers 2025

Wed, 26 Nov 2025 20:54:46 GMT

2025 Chalice Keepers

Dear Friends,

As the year comes to a close, we are launching our 2025 Eliot Chapel Chalice Keepers Fundraiser, anchored in gratitude and love for our congregation and all we serve.

Our Chalice is sacred space . . . filled with the light of truth, warmth of community, and fire of commitment . . . continually renewed through our presence.

Our Chalice is a beacon of hope in troubling times, guiding newcomers, friends, and members through our flashy red doors to find strength in community.

Our Chalice is eternal love, honoring those who have passed, affirming that the shadow of their absence is felt because their light lives on in our hearts.

Our Chalice guides us forward, as our mission calls us to love courageously, grow in spirit, and inspire compassionate action.

Here are just a few of the ways I have seen Our Chalice shine bright in 2025:

We have more people coming to Sunday worship. You know how full it’s been!
Our Religious Education Program has grown by over 20% from last year.
We are enjoying a strong and vibrant adult enrichment program.
We invested in our facilities – a new electric sign was installed on the front lawn, we have a brand new grand piano in our sanctuary, and we re-dedicated our renovated Memorial Garden.
We are always finding new and better ways to center love in our care of one another.
We show up for Social Justice in Action – to marches and demonstrations, to meetings for Solidarity Strategies which includes immigration reform, reproductive justice, voting rights, environmental justice, LGBTQIA+ rights, racial justice, and economic justice.
We support our community partners – including launching a weekly food drive for three food pantries.
We continue Bergfried stewardship – our “Peace in the Hills” – putting love of and learning from nature into action on over 500 acres of woodlands.
We give of ourselves – through countless volunteer hours – committing our time and hearts to the many teams and roles that keep our church going.

May we continue to love, grow, and inspire together.

We started the end-of-year Chalice Keepers Fundraiser during the pandemic when our finances were not enough without a “2nd ask.” Our finances are in better shape than ever, yet the need for this community is also stronger than ever. So we are still including this campaign in our budget process, to continue investing in each other and in our community. This is how we live our mission.

Our 2025 goal is $10,000, which is easily doable in a congregation like ours that is growing and filled with joy.

Anyone who contributes $100 or more will receive an Eliot Chapel mission-themed t-shirt, in your choice of a rainbow of colors. Additional t-shirts are also offered for $30 per shirt. These shirts are the perfect attire to wear when we show up for community action. If your resources are currently limited, please know that no gift is too small.

This year’s Chalice Keepers Fundraiser will end on December 31, 2025. Please note, t-shirt orders will be processed after the campaign ends.

Options for making your gift are below.

Online - Submit your gift online and, if applicable, select your t-shirt(s) with your gift.
Check via Mail: Please make your check out to Eliot Chapel, and in the memo of your check please note “2025 Chalice Keepers.” Mail your check to Eliot Chapel, ℅ Brian Franklin, 100 South Taylor Avenue, Kirkwood MO 63122. If you are making a donation of $100 or more, please also include this t-shirt order form .
Bring check to Front Office: You may also bring your check to the front office during business hours or during Sunday services. Please make your check out to Eliot Chapel, and in the memo of your check please note “2025 Chalice Keepers.” If you are making a donation of $100 or more, please also include this t-shirt order form .

Sunday at a Glance: November 30, 2025

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 18:23:58 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: November 30, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service with Q & A after the service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 11:30 am in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

All Church Pizza and Potluck Farewell Party – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Events and Meetings 30Nov25

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:32:04 GMT

Events & Meetings, November 30 – December 6

Sunday, November 30
Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service with Q & A after the service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 11:30 am in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

All Church Pizza and Potluck Farewell Party – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Monday, December 1

All Levels Yoga – 6:00 pm in Room 001

Tuesday, December 2

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Madrigal Rehearsals – 6:30 pm in throughout the building

Social Justice Steering Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, December 3

Madrigal Preparations – all day throughout the building

Thursday, December 4

Madrigal Preparations – all day throughout the building

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Handbells – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Madrigal – doors open at 7:00, event begins at 7:30 pm

Friday, December 5

Madrigal Preparations – all day throughout the building

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001
Madrigal – doors open at 7:00, event begins at 7:30 pm

Saturday, December 6

Madrigal Preparations – all day throughout the building

Madrigal – doors open at 7:00, event begins at 7:30 pm

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BOT Personnel Committee

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:06:43 GMT

Board of Trustees Recruiting Members for Personnel Committee

The Eliot Chapel Board of Trustees is forming a new Personnel Committee and is seeking members of the congregation — preferably individuals with human resources experience — to serve on the committee. This group will report to the Board, and its primary role is to help ensure that Eliot Chapel complies with applicable labor laws and follows its internal personnel policies.

Committee Responsibilities

The Committee does not have staff management authority and does not participate in supervision or personnel decision-making.

When the Personnel Manual is updated, the Lead Minister will ask the Committee to review proposed amendments to ensure consistency with Chapel policies and relevant labor laws.

The Lead Minister and the Personnel Committee will conduct periodic reviews of the Personnel Manual to confirm it reflects current labor laws, Chapel policies, and updated UUA staffing recommendations.

In partnership with the Lead Minister, the Committee will help develop updates to the Personnel Manual based on UUA guidance, industry best practices, and Eliot Chapel’s mission and vision.

Committee members can expect quarterly meetings, an annual review of the Personnel Manual, occasional research on HR policies and laws, and periodic communication with staff via email.

If you are interested in serving on the Personnel Committee, please email the Board at board@eliotchapel.org with a brief description of your interest and any relevant HR experience. Thank you!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 30

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 16:55:54 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, November 30

There are no Religious Education (RE) classes or youth group activities on November 30. Children aged four and older are encouraged to attend the service with their family at 10:00.

The nursery is open for childcare during the service for our youngest UUs (4 and younger) who need freedom of movement.

RE classes, Our Whole Lives (4th & 5th grade), and youth activities resume on Sunday, December 7 .

To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Monthly Community Collection

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 01:49:50 GMT

Compassion in Action: Monthly Community Collection

In this time of much division and strife, let's reach out to our neighbors with compassion. We, the members of Eliot Chapel Immigration Justice Team, are beginning a monthly collection to gather goods for those in need in our community. Each month there will be a new list of items for donation.

You can bring an item on the list or a gift card and place it in the box in Adams Hall anytime throughout the month. Our goal is to help make the lives of our less privileged neighbors a little easier.

In December, the Immigration Justice Team is collecting essential items for local families with young children. Please consider donating diapers (sizes 5, 6, & 7), diaper wipes, children’s toothpaste, baby shampoo, baby body wash, or bubble bath. Your generosity brings comfort and dignity to our neighbors.

Thank you! Your kindness makes a real difference in the lives of our neighbors.

Sunday at a Glance: November 23, 2025

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 20:09:16 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: November 23, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 23Nov25

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 07:29:15 GMT

Events & Meetings, November 23 – 29

Sunday, November 23
Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, November 24

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Fre derick-Gray Room

All Levels Yoga – 6:00 pm in Room 001

Tuesday, November 25

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 4:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in Room 001

Madrigal Greenleaf Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in the Sanctuary
Eliot Recorder Consort Rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Thursday, November 27

Church Offices Closed for Thanksgiving

Friday, November 28

Church Offices Closed

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 23

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 06:09:08 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, November 23

There are no Religious Education (RE) classes or youth group activities on November 23. Children aged four and older are encouraged to attend the Bread Service with their family at 9:45 or 11:15.

The nursery is open for childcare during each service for our youngest UUs (4 and younger) who need freedom of movement.

RE classes, Our Whole Lives (4th & 5th grade), and youth activities resume on Sunday, December 7 .

To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

September 2025 Board Bits

Wed, 19 Nov 2025 21:25:28 GMT

September 2025 Board Bits

The Board’s Conflict of Interest policy was read and discussed. No conflicts were identified. Members were asked to inform BOT should any arise.
Eliot Chapel has been gifted a house in Tower Grove Park. This is a substantial, unrestricted gift from Chad Keller, a beloved member who recently passed away.
The Open Questions Committee (Matthew Hull, Bob Becker, and Steve Jarrett) has begun its work. Two congregational discussions were held Sunday, September 26. The first Open Question is: How shall we center love in our care of one another?
This month’s thoughtful question directed to the Board came from Rev. Krista: How do you access your courage? What would prompt you to access your courage and how would you do so? Find out more about the Three Open Questions process here .

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Sunday at a Glance: November 16, 2025

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 06:15:19 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: November 16, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Book Swap – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Book Swap – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Invitation to Membership – 12:20 pm in the Library

Congregational Special Meeting – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 2:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 16

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 02:09:22 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, November 16

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, November 16 during the 9:45 service. November 16 is Youth Sunday at Eliot Chapel. The services will be led by Eliot youth (8th-12th grade) and Rev. Krista Taves.

Children and youth aged four through 3rd grade should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service for children in 3rd grade and younger.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program do not have class this Sunday and are encouraged to attend the service with their family. They also have the option of joining the multiage elementary group.

6th & 7th grade youth should attend the worship service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Property Development Team Update

Sat, 08 Nov 2025 17:57:54 GMT

Property Development Team Update

The Property Development Team meetings this Fall have concentrated around the use of our undeveloped property on our east side. Our meetings last spring determined that the congregation needs both a dedicated outdoor space for Religious Education and outdoor events AND more parking availability. In particular we need true handicapped spaces that accommodate vehicles with an extruding ramp. We will keep the congregation informed of our progress, as we work through the re-design of our greenspace. If you have any questions or concerns as we work through this, feel free to contact the team members, whose contact information is avaiable in the directory: Jeff Zove, Terry Jones, Elisa Voss, and Bob Meihaus.

Sunday at a Glance: November 9, 2025

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 21:39:49 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: November 9, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Crossing Paths Field Trip (6&7 Grades) – 9:30 am in Adams Hall
4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

OWL Parent Orientation (8th/9th Grade) – 11:00 am in the Senior High Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 005

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 12:15 pm in the Library

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 9

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 00:33:21 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, November 9

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, November 9 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four through 3rd grade should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45 this Sunday.

Youth Group members in 8th-12th grade should go directly to youth group at 9:45 this Sunday.

6th & 7th grade youth participating in the College Church field trip should be in Adams Hall at 9:30.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Bergfried Photos

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 17:56:49 GMT

Bergfried Photo Gallery

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Eliot Chapel Book Swap for All Ages

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 20:10:04 GMT

Eliot Chapel Book Swap for All Ages

Sunday, November 16 in Adams Hall After Both Services

Eager to delight another Eliot community member by sharing a favorite read and simultaneously discover a new page-turning treasure for yourself? Participate in the upcoming book swap!

How it will work:

Bring 1-2 (used) books per person of any genre that you really loved, and that you are willing to part with. Books can be deposited in bins by either Eliot entrance between November 9 and 15 or brought to Adams Hall the day of the event.

Before the service, drop the book with our worker bees who will be located next to the greeters outside of the sanctuary.

After the service, peruse the tables for a new-to-you book to take home and swing by our make-your-own-bookmark crafting table to keep your place in style!

Remember this is a book swap, not a book dump, so please only give books in good condition. No magazines/sticker books/activity books. No media like DVDs/CDs.

Participants are encouraged, but not required, to write down their name, what they liked about the book, or the type of reader it might appeal to, on a small index card/post-it note to stick inside the front cover of the book.

Leave a goodwill offering for the Fundraising Team on your way out.

Family Pageant Service & Potluck Dessert Reception

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 19:42:44 GMT

Family Pageant Service & Potluck Dessert Reception

Friday, December 19 at 6:00 pm

We are excited to share that the annual Christmas Pageant Service is coming on Friday evening, December 19 at 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary. We anticipate this service will run about 30 minutes followed by a potluck dessert reception in Adams Hall. This festive gathering is open to Eliot families, children, youth, and adult members and friends of all ages. Don’t hesitate to invite your family and friends both within and beyond Eliot.

The service is based on a no-rehearsal worship script used by other UU professionals and congregations. Children and youth wishing to wear a costume should arrive beginning at 5:30 and select their outfit in Adams Hall (costumes are definitely not required). There will be an opportunity for children and families to gather, in costume, on the chancel at the concussion of the service for a photo opportunity.

Youth in 6th-12th grade are encouraged to participate with scripted speaking roles, as well as a few select music roles. Please contact Scott for more information if you’re interested or would like more details about the roles.

How to sign up: No advance preparation is needed or required, though it’s helpful to have an idea of who plans to attend. Those planning to attend may RSVP HERE and are encouraged to bring a potluck dessert item to share (store-bought is fine).

Questions? Contact Scott Stewart by email at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for Kirk Care

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 17:20:08 GMT

Shared Plate: Kirk Care, November 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Kirk Care" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: November 2, 2025

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 10:14:49 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: November 2, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 10:45 am in the Library

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 005

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfuln ess Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Irmgard Voss Memorial – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Christmas Eve Nursery Volunteers Needed

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 08:52:12 GMT

Christmas Eve Nursery Volunteers Needed

When possible, Eliot strives to offer nursery care for the youngest UUs who need freedom of movement during the EARLY Christmas Eve service (which is at 5:00 pm in 2025). The Safe Congregation Policy requires that AT LEAST two adults (18+) be present for any activity involving children, regardless of the number of kids present.

Volunteer caregivers should open the nursery 30 minutes prior to the 5:00 pm service and prepare to care for young children, MOST of whom will be aged 4 and younger. The number of children present can vary considerably from year to year (some years it’s only 1 or 2, other years it’s much more). Caregivers should plan to stay until all children are picked up after the service, which is usually no more than 15 minutes after the service ends.

Adult caregivers will need to complete a Missouri background check prior to participating, or have a prior check verified. The D.R.E., Scott Stewart, can easily facilitate this process.

Interested individuals should contact Scott Stewart at eliotchapelre@gmail.com NO LATER than Monday, December 1.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 2

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 08:07:24 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, November 2

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, November 2 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Congregational Meeting - November 16, 2025

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 20:52:02 GMT

Invitation to a Special Congregational Meeting

at Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel

on November 16, 2025

Join the Board of Trustees on Sunday, November 16, for a special congregational meeting at 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary.

Following the 11:15 am service, sandwiches, chips, and drinks will be served in Adams Hall before the start of the meeting. Childcare will not be available during the meeting.

Meeting agenda:

Members will vote on five ballot measures. A majority of the votes cast shall be sufficient to approve each of these measures:

Ballot 1: Keller House Sale Proposal
Ballot 2: By-Laws Proposal A: Revise Endowment Fund for Growth
Ballot 3: By-Laws Proposal B: Update Gender Pronouns to align with our values
Ballot 4: By-Laws Proposal C: Add Prior Chair position to Board Officers
Ballot 5: By-Laws Proposal D: Add DBA as ex officio non-voting Board member

Informational Package:

We aim to be as paperless as possible, so details for the five ballot measures can be found:

On Eliot’s Member Resources page
Posted on the bulletin board at Eliot Chapel
Projected on the screen in the sanctuary during the meeting

Please contact the front office prior to the meeting if you require a hard copy.

How to Participate

All members and friends are invited to attend, and all verified members have 3 ways to vote:

In Person: you can attend the meeting on Sunday, November 16.
By Proxy: you can appoint a proxy to cast a vote on your behalf (see information below).
On Zoom: you can attend via Zoom on Sunday, November 16, where, as a confirmed member, you can cast your vote virtually. You must check in by 12:45 PM, before the 1:00 PM start time of the meeting to be verified and to receive instructions on how to cast your vote. The link to join the meeting was sent in an email to members. If you are a member and did not receive it, please check your spam folder. If you still cannot find it, contact the front office before Friday, November 14 at 3:00 pm.

Appointing a Proxy

A proxy form must be submitted to the Board Secretary, Rebecca Taylor, no later than noon on Thursday, November 13 . Proxy cards are available as a download in the email sent to members. Paper copies are also available on the table outside the front office. Please check the email sent to members for the proxy procedure.

Confirm Your Membership

Only members of record will be allowed to vote. The term “Member" is defined in our bylaws, a copy of which is available at eliotchapel.org . An online list of current members in good standing was linked in the email to members; a list is also posted in the hallway outside Adams Hall, so that congregants may check to make sure they are listed as members.

If you are a member and you do not find your name on the list , please contact the Director of Business Administration at admin@eliotchapel.org no later than 72 hours before the meeting begins, by Thursday, November 13 at Noon.

We hope to see you there!

Yours in faith, The Board of Trustees

Jennifer Stauber (Chair), Matthew Hull (Chair-Elect), Ann Lemon (Treasurer), Rebecca Taylor (Secretary), Rev. Krista Taves (Ex-Officio), Kathy Brunts, Bob Becker and David T. Cox (Members at Large)

Sunday at a Glance: October 26, 2025

Sun, 26 Oct 2025 08:34:46 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: October 26, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Halloween Field Frolic – 10:45 am on the Meadow

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 005

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Transylvania Travelogue – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfuln ess Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 26Oct25

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 02:09:15 GMT

Events & Meetings, October 26 – November 1

Sunday, October 26
Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Halloween Field Frolic – 10:45 am on the Meadow

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 005

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Transylvania Travelogue – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfuln ess Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 2:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, October 27

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Authentic Selves – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Tuesday, October 28

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Immigration Justice Team Meeting - 7:00 pm in Adams Hall and via Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort Rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Madrigal Greenleaf Rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Thursday, October 30

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Attitudinal Healing – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, October 31

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, November 1

Covenant Group for Newcomers – 9:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Living Legends: The Red and Black Brass Band – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

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IJT Meeting

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 01:14:46 GMT

We Are in This Together

No Kings Day was exhilarating. Let us use that momentum in concrete ways to improve the lives in our community. Come to the Immigration Justice Team meeting on Tuesday, October 28 , at 7:00 pm in Adams Hall. Listen to IJT plans for this year and the many ways in which we will partner with local organizations to multiply good outcomes. Whether you take on a specific task, like offering a ride to the doctor, or engaging elected officials to humanize legislation and draconian enforcement methods, or participating in education opportunities like book read, movie night, panel discussions, and webinars, your help matters. So beloved UUers, lend us your ears, your hands, and your heart on Tuesday in Adams Hall, or via Zoom. (Check out “Eliot on Zoom“ email for details). WE NEED YOU!!

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Chalice Chimes Handbell Choir

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 01:01:37 GMT

Ring with Us on Christmas Eve!

Calling all handbell players and those who want to learn—the Chalice Chimes Handbell Choir is recruiting! We are a team percussion ensemble, and we work together to play melody & harmony on Eliot’s beautiful set of handbells every year during the Christmas Eve services.

The Chalice Chimes is proud to be an intergenerational ensemble, open to adults, youth, and children in 4th grade or older. We’re looking for up to three more people—and we’d love for one of those three to be you! There is no audition. Ability to read music is helpful but not required; as long as you can keep a steady beat, count to four, and follow directions, we will teach you what you need to know. We will rehearse on Thursdays from November 6 through December 18 (except Thanksgiving Day) from 7:00-8:30 pm, and we’ll play the 5:00 pm and 6:30 pm Christmas Eve services.

If you’re interested, please contact Beth Curtiss at handbells@eliotchapel.org .

Quilts Bread Sunday

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 00:53:34 GMT

Quilts for Bread Service

As part of our preparation for the annual bread service, we invite you to share quilts for decoration in the Sanctuary. Baby quilts, quilted wall hangings, throws, and table runners are welcome, too. Quilts should be clearly marked with your name and be delivered to the church office from November 2 to 16. If your quilt has a story, please feel welcome to print or type it on a small card, and affix the card to the front of your quilt so the story can be shared with members and friends. You should pick up your quilts after the November 30 service. Questions? Contact Rebecca Schuder at quilts@eliotchapel.org .

LGBTQIA+ Advocacy Group

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 00:34:39 GMT

LGBTQIA+ Advocacy Group

Wednesday November 5 at 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

The LGBTQIA+ Advocacy Group invites you to an evening of good food, good company, and good trouble! The LGBTQIA+ community, especially trans and non-binary people, are under attack. We can draw from Unitarian Universalism’s rich history and use our moral authority to advocate for the protection, respect, and embrace of the spectrum of ways to love and be human. Feel free to bring something to share or just bring yourself. Please RSVP to lgbtq@eliotchapel.org . The zoom link to attend virtually will be shared in Eliot on Zoom which is released Sunday, November 2.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, October 26

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 00:25:12 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, October 26

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, October 26 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

August 2025 Board Bits

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 19:41:55 GMT

August 2025 Board Bits

The Board affirmed five new members: Daniel Kynaston, Barbara Labitska, Linsey Smith, Liz Sondhaus, and Wendy Tyree. Welcome!!! We are so happy that you are joining us!!!

This month’s thoughtful question came from Ann Lemon: How do you reconnect with yourself after a loss? All Board members contributed to the discussion.

The Board extended the work done at its August retreat by settling on the 2025-26 Three Open Questions below:

1. How shall we center love in our care of one another?

2. With whom in the broader community shall we grow in loving relationships?

3. What resources shall we commit to center and expand love?

Bob Becker, Matthew Hull, and Steve Jarrett will lead a committee to coordinate congregational conversations around these questions.

Find out more about the Three Open Questions process here .

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Events and Meetings 19Oct25

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 17:32:58 GMT

Events & Meetings, October 19 – 25

Sunday, October 19
Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 005

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfuln ess Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Spiritual Book Club – 7:00 pm in Susan Frederick Gray Room

Monday, October 20

Authentic Selves – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Tuesday, October 21

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall
Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group - 7:00 pm via Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Madrigal Greenleaf Rehearsals – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, October 22

Bergfried Stewardship Quarterly Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Survivors And Families Empowered - 7:00 pm in Room 005

Thursday, October 23

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Attitudinal Healing – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Friday, October 24

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, October 25

Attitudinal Healing Monthly Gathering – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, October 19

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 15:03:16 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, October 19

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, October 19 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Sunday at a Glance: October 12, 2025

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 15:41:30 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: October 12, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, a nd Conn ections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Events and Meetings 12Oct25

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 03:27:17 GMT

Events & Meetings, October 12 – 18

Sunday, October 12

Family Campout – All Day at Bergfried
Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Du Bois Library

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 1:00 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, October 13

A Course in Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Tuesday, October 14

RUUMS – 9:30 am in Room 001
Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Madrigal Greenleaf Rehearsals – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

IJT Steering Committee Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, October 15

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, October 16

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Attitudinal Healing – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in the Library

Friday, October 17

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Racial Justice Film Series – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Saturday, October 18

Silver Saturday II – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, October 12

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 02:52:24 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, October 12

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, October 12 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Couples Communication Workshop

Mon, 06 Oct 2025 19:52:51 GMT

NEW! Couples Communication Workshop

Couples Communication Workshop is a fun participatory workshop to enrich and deepen your relationship by improving communication skills. Designed to make good relationships better, the workshop is suitable for all married and committed unmarried couples in healthy relationships, and couples of every gender are welcome.

Come join us for the day to learn and practice reflective listening, expression of feelings and appreciation for your partner, and conflict resolution techniques to move toward a deeper level of emotional intimacy.

Take an in-depth look at your relationship, with focus on the positive.
Learn how to speak and listen to improve emotional intimacy.
Develop enduring skills for creative use of conflict.
Practice a communication model that enhances your goals for growth as a couple.

This workshop will be led by Eliot UU Chapel members Cindy and Dick Haynes and Linda Techner. They each have over 30 years of experience using and teaching these techniques. This program is educational and not intended as therapy or counseling.

Class will be held at Eliot UU Chapel on Saturday, November 8 from 8:30 am to 4:30 pm. $50 fee to Eliot UU Chapel. Minimum 4 couples, maximum 6 couples.

CONTACT: couples@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Saturday, November 8 from 8:30-4:30 at Eliot Chapel

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: October 5, 2025

Sat, 04 Oct 2025 22:48:29 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: October 5, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Crossing Paths Field Trip – 10:10 am offsite

Co ffee Ho ur – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to M indful ness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, a nd Conn ections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Mu sic Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Events and Meetings 5Oct25

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 18:40:52 GMT

Events & Meetings, October 5 – 11

Sunday, October 5

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Crossing Paths Field Trip – 10:10 am offsite

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 001

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Monday, October 6

Authentic Selves – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Tuesday, October 7

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Music Room

Madrigal Greenleaf Rehearsals – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Social Justice Steering Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Caregivers Covenant Group – 7:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Wednesday, October 8

Abortion Action Missouri West County Base Meeting – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

Creative Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Associates – 7:30 pm in Room 006

Thursday, October 9

IntrovUUrts Covenant Group – 6:30 pm offsite

Madrigal Actors Rehearsal – 6:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Attitudinal Healing – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Humanist Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Friday, October 10

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Family Campout – All Day at Bergfried

Saturday, October 11

Family Campout – All Day at Bergfried
Adult OWL Class – 10:30 am in Room 001

Welcome Neighbor Dinner – 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

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Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, October 5

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 17:47:25 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, October 5

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, October 5 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

The 6th & 7th grade group is on a field trip to the Ethical Society of St. Louis this morning and should gather at 10:10 in Adams Hall.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Shared Plate: Criminal Justice Ministry

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 19:37:28 GMT

Shared Plate: Criminal Justice Ministry, October 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “CJM" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Dunlap-Nutt Fund

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 14:37:38 GMT

Dunlap-Nutt

Sunday at a Glance: September 28, 2025

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 20:27:06 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 28, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:00 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Remembering Mill Creek

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 07:14:50 GMT

Remembering Mill Creek: When We Were There

In 1959, nearly 20,000 African American St. Louisans were displaced with the demolition of the Mill Creek Valley by federal urban renewal policies. Join Eliot UU Chapel and Women's Voices Raised for Social Justice for the showing of this new documentary and conversation with author Vivian Gibson.

Located in the central corridor of downtown St. Louis, Mill Creek was considered a slum but, in fact, it was a vital area with hundreds of thriving businesses and institutions that served the neighboring community. Nearly 70 years later, the residents who once lived in the segregated community share their stories and reflect on their lives within the once vibrant, close-knit Black community revealing their resilience as children who witnessed the decline and eventual erasure of their neighborhood.

Join us on Friday, October 17 at 7:00 pm in Adams Hall. RSVP below.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, September 28

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 06:02:37 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, September 28

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, September 28 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

NOTE: 4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:45.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Events and Meetings 26Sept25

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 05:54:08 GMT

Events & Meetings, September 28 – October 4

Sunday, September 28

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:45 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, September 29

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Authentic Selves – 6:30 pm in Room 006

Tuesday, September 30

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Thursday, October 2

Attitudinal Healing – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Love at the Center – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in the Library

Friday, October 3

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Respect MO Voters Citizen Initiative Campaign – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Saturday, October 4

Jigsaw Puzzle Contest – 8:30 am in Adams Hall

Covenant Group For Newcomers – 9:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

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Fall Family Campout

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 04:36:11 GMT

Family Campout at Bergfried

Come see what all the talk is about! Here's a chance to enjoy the great outdoors at Bergfried with Eliot community members.

We will begin congregating Friday afternoon/evening, October 10 for camping and fellowship around the campfire or a short hike, and potluck dinner.

Saturday’s lineup of activities (all optional) include:

Field games: sack race, obstacle course, and watermelon seed spitting contest

Tour of the USS Aries, a hydroplane docked just across the Gasconade River

Guess how old this tree is? A venerable tree, adjacent to the shelter in the main camping meadow, has been there for many years before the area was settled – see if you can guess its age!

Search for a Christmas giving tree – to bring to Eliot in December

Possibility of canoeing/kayaking on the Gasconade River

Hanging out at the shelter

Hiking – and building the bonfire

An evening of singing and storytelling around the bonfire

On Sunday, most people break camp after an outdoor service.

Come for any day, or plan to stay the night; overnight options include limited cottage space available to members with needs, two rustic bunkhouses with cots, and campsites suitable for tents or car camping.

For more info and to register for cottage or bunkhouse beds, email bergfriedinfo@eliotchapel.org .

CONTACT: bergfriedinfo@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: October 10-12, 2025

REGISTER BY EMAILING bergfriedinfo@eliotchapel.org

Madrigal 2025

Thu, 25 Sep 2025 18:45:45 GMT

Events and Meetings 19Sept25

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 16:43:01 GMT

Events & Meetings, September 21 – 27

Sunday, September 21

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried – All Day at Bergfried

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

6th & 7th grade field trip – 9:10 am off site

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:30 am in Room 006
First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Open Question Congregational Session 1 – 11:00 am in Room 001

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Open Question Congregational Session 2 – 12:30 pm in Room 001

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Tuesday, September 23

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Worship Associate Training – 5:00 pm in the Sanctuary

LGBTQIA+ Group Meeting – 6:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Open Question Congregational Session – 6:30 pm via Zoom

Immigration Justice Team Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Thursday, September 25

Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group – 6:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Attitudinal Healing Series – 7:00 pm in Room 006

Friday, September 26

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, September 27

Living Legends: David Roth and Harold Payne – 2:30 pm in the Sanctuary

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Parking Spot Raffle

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 15:58:05 GMT

Parking Spot Raffle

Each month, the winner of the raffle will have a reserved parking spot on Sundays next to the Lead Minister's parking spot. Raffle tickets are just $5 each and are available to purchase online. Congregants may also sign up for a recurring purchase of raffle tickets each month. Alternatively, congregants may bring a check or cash to the church on Sundays to enter the raffle. The next winner will be selected on the 15th of the month. All proceeds will be used to support the mission of Eliot Chapel.

LGBTQIA+ Ministries at Eliot

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 15:45:19 GMT

LGBTQIA+ Ministries at Eliot

Tuesday, September 23 | 6:30 - 8:00 pm

In January, our congregation held a solidarity strategies congregational conversation focused on the most vulnerable in our current time. One group focused on LGBTQIA+ issues. All are welcome to join the conversation hosted by Rev. Krista Taves (Lead Minister) to explore the potential launch of a support/social group for LGBTQIA+ identified persons and an LGBTQIA+ advocacy group. All identities are welcome. Food and beverages are provided. We encourage registering to ensure there's enough for everyone! For more information email ktaves@eliotchapel.org .

IJT monthly meeting

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 15:23:07 GMT

FALL IS NOT THE TIME TO FALL APART!

September 23 is the first day of Fall, bringing flannel shirts, flaming red trees, and crisp, energizing weather. BUT Fall is NOT the time we lessen our efforts to obtain justice for our immigrant neighbors. It is NOT the time to attend cookouts instead of protests; read novels instead of the news; or create TikToks about puppies instead of letters to elected officials. Fall IS the time to become disciplined about those activities. It IS time that we act on our UU values of pluralism and justice. It is time to be bold.

And it is time for the next Immigration Justice Team meeting. Meet your fellow justice warriors at 7:00 pm on Tuesday, September 23 in Adams Hall and claim your piece of the fight. You can also attend via Zoom – check out Sunday's "Eliot on Zoom" email. Y’all come!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, September 21

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 06:13:50 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, September 21

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, September 21 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

4th & 5th graders who are participating in the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program should go directly to class at 9:30 this Sunday.

The 6th & 7th grade group is on a field trip to First Unitarian Church-St. Louis this morning and should gather at 9:10 in Adams Hall.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

Sunday at a Glance: September 21, 2025

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 06:01:56 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 21, 2025

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried – All Day at Bergfried

4th/5th Grade OWL – 9:00 am in Room 006

6th & 7th grade field trip – 9:00 am off site
Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Open Question Congregational Session 1 – 11:00 am in Room 001
Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Open Question Congregational Session 2 – 12:30 pm in Room 001

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: September 14, 2025

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 20:09:55 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 14, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

OWL Family Orientation – 11:00 am in the Senior High Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Madrigal Auditions – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

puzzle contest

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 18:43:58 GMT

Calling All Puzzlers!

Eliot FUN Team Back in Action with Puzzle Competition (and a Short Survey)!

Join the Eliot FUN Team for a puzzle competition Saturday, October 4 from 9:30 - 11:30 am in Adams Hall! Gather a team of up to 4 people and compete to finish a 500-piece puzzle. Donuts, fruit, popcorn, and coffee provided. Feel free to bring other brunch snacks! Winners of the best team name and fastest finisher win prizes. All teams will get to keep their puzzle. The cost is $60 for a team of 4 people. Sign up here .

Survey: While we've got your attention, help shape the future of fun at Eliot Chapel by filling out the short survey linked here which will inform our future plans.

Respect MO Voters

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 18:36:52 GMT

Respect MO Voters Informational Event

What can you do to protect the initiative petition process in Missouri and prevent politicians from overturning initiatives that voters have already passed? On October 3, come learn about the Respect Missouri Voters Campaign to make our government work for everyday Missourians.

On Friday, October 3 at 7:00 pm in Adams Hall, representatives of the campaign will explain and answer questions about what the organization is doing to reclaim our constitutional freedoms by passing a state constitutional amendment to protect majority rule.

Respect MO Voters (RMOV) is a cross-partisan, grassroots, volunteer-led campaign working to protect the citizen initiative process and defend voters' rights in Missouri. The group is collecting signatures on an initiative petition to be included on the November 2026 ballot. More info at respectMOvoters.org .

Contact organizers Faith Williams and Sue Lunneman at respectmovoters@eliotchapel.org or contact Faith directly (see directory ).

Open Questions

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 18:14:34 GMT

Open Questions

As you may have recently learned from Rev. Krista's communication , this year the Eliot Board of Trustees will be examining three "big" open questions that are designed to guide our efforts over the next few years. The most important part of this process is your input.

The Board's Open Questions Committee welcomes you to join us in discussions at our Fall Open Question Forum being held after services on Sunday September 21. We invite you to come share your thoughts about the first of this year’s questions: “How shall we center love in our care of one another?”

We want to hear your insights and suggestions about how we as a congregation can actualize this question and make it a part of our congregational and community life.

These Forum sessions will be held after each service on Sunday, September 21 at 11:00 am and again at 12:30 pm in Rooms 001 and 002. If you are unable to attend in person, we are also hosting a Zoom session on Tuesday, September 23, at 6:30 pm. Watch for Sunday's "Eliot on Zoom" email to connect to that meeting. If you are not able to attend any of these discussions, we still welcome your thoughts and ideas, so please send them to openquestion@eliotchapel.org .

We look forward to hearing from you!

Events and Meetings 12Sept25

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 06:16:20 GMT

Events & Meetings, September 14 – 20

Sunday, September 14

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

OWL Family Orientation – 11:00 am in the Senior High Room

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Geek Squad Support – 12:15 pm in the Library

Madrigal Auditions – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, September 15

A Course In Miracles Study Group – 1:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Tuesday, September 16

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Greeters Fall Meeting – 6:30 pm in Room 001

Earth-Based Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm via Zoom

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Wednesday, September 17

Front Office Volunteer Training – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

EUUC Board Meeting – 6:30 pm in Adams Hall

Thursday, September 18

Transitions Support Group – 7:00 pm in the Library

Friday, September 19

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried – All Day at Bergfried

Saturday, September 20

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried – All Day at Bergfried

Click the green links for more information!

Planning a meeting or event? Check the calendar and then start with our Meeting Space Reservation Form! Group leaders, have you set up an area for your group in Realm? You have a secure place to chat and share documents and photos. Contact Debby Lovell to set up your group.

July 2025 Board Bits

Thu, 11 Sep 2025 18:48:29 GMT

July 2025 Board Bits

The Board discussed the article “The Board’s Job in Times of Rapid Change” by Dan Hotchkiss. That text inspired us to restructure the way we do the work of the Board: moving all reports into the consent agenda and dedicating the majority of the meeting to planning, policy, and partnership. This model will eventually integrate the Rolling Roadmap process into Board meetings. As a reminder, ALL are welcome to attend Board meetings to see these changes as they unfold.

The Board began working with the concept of Open Questions. To learn about Open Questions, please read the Hotchkiss article “ How Boards Plan .”

Following the mandate of Eliot bylaws to select a Board Secretary during the first meeting of the fiscal year, the Board appointed Rebecca Taylor to that post.

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, September 14

Thu, 11 Sep 2025 17:24:05 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, September 14

The 2025-26 Religious Education and Youth Program begins this Sunday, September 14 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org.

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Sunday at a Glance: September 7, 2025

Sat, 06 Sep 2025 16:56:40 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 7, 2025

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children’s Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary
Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 am in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Silver Saturday II

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:46:50 GMT

Eliot Chapel Silver Saturday II

October 18 | 10:00 to 11:30 in Adams Hall

Donate your long unused and unpolished sterling silver flatware, pitchers, trays, etc. and we will get items appraised and sold to benefit Eliot Chapel. After your donation is sold, you will receive a receipt for your tax records. Note: donations will not count towards your annual pledge.

In addition to sterling, we can accept “coin” silver items, silver and gold coins or jewelry, dental gold and gold bars. Silver plate items have little monetary value, but if you bring them in we will recycle them for you.

If you can’t make it to Eliot that Saturday, we can arrange to pick up your items. Email silver@eliotchapel.org to make an appointment or to ask any questions.

Chalice Choir

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:39:43 GMT

Eliot's Chalice Choir

All children and youth are welcome.

Details of the fall schedule:

Rehearsal dates: September 28, October 5, October 12,

Rehearsal time: 9:00-9:30 am

Performance: October 19, 2025, Prelude for Worship

Other details:

Children need to be able to read the lyrics OR have the commitment of someone who can help them memorize the words to the songs.
Indicate interest to Nancy Spargo & Melinda Monroe at chalicechoir@eliotchapel.org by September 25.

Greeter Training

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:33:59 GMT

Greeter Team Training

Tuesday, September 16 | 6:30 pm | Room 001

All current members, substitutes, and prospective new greeters should attend. Come and learn all of the new or revised greeter procedures and ask any questions about the greeter role.

Light refreshments and desserts will be served. Please RSVP to Rev. Dee at assistant-minister@eliotchapel.org . Any current members who cannot attend, please inform Rev. Dee.

Events and Meetings 5Sept25

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 09:06:10 GMT

Events & Meetings, September 7 – 13

Sunday, September 7

Chalice Children – 9:00 am in the Chalice Children's Room

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:15 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Monday, September 8

Environmental Justice Team – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Tuesday, September 9

RUUMS – 9:30 am in Room 001

Women's Alliance – 9:45 am in Adams Hall

Vigil for Hope & Healing – 5:00 pm on the Front Lawn

Eliot Recorder Consort rehearsal – 7:00 pm in the Sanctuary

IJT Steering Team Meeting – 7:00 pm in Adams Hall

Wednesday, September 12

Creative Spirituality Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Survivors and Families Empowered – 7:00 pm in Room 005

Thursday, September 11

IntrovUUrts Covenant Group – 6:30 pm (offsite)

Humanist Covenant Group – 7:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Friday, September 12

Friday Freethinkers – 10:00 am in Room 001

Saturday, September 13

Adult OWL Class – 9:30 am in Room 006

Click the green links for more information!

Attitudinal Healing

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 08:48:01 GMT

New Attitudinal Healing Group Forming

Attitudinal Healing St. Louis. Love embracing, life changing!

Are you ready to begin the path to your transformation?

Attitudinal Healing , as practical spirituality, frees the mind from the pain of the past and the fear of the future so that anyone, regardless of circumstances, can embrace their life and relationships with joy. Integrating the practices of The Principles of Attitudinal Healing as identified in Gerald Jampolsky’s book Teach Only Love , we are a safe place where trained facilitators will help you shift thoughts of fear to love in a confidential and caring setting. Each facilitator is trained through Attitudinal Healing International and brings unique skills and life experiences to their facilitation. Your transformation will be embraced and strengthened as ordinary people participate in extraordinary support groups.

Our vision is to build a community where we are inspired to live a life of love-based thinking, choosing peace over conflict, compassion over indifference, and love over fear in all aspects of our daily lives.

At Eliot, Attitudinal Healing is offered two ways:

Monthly Saturday Gatherings

Attitudinal Healing St. Louis holds a Saturday monthly gathering from 10:00 am to Noon in Adams Hall. The date for each meeting is determined based on the availability of our facilitators. We select the date at least a month in advance and send an announcement to our email list as well as post the information through Eliot's communication channels. The Teach Only Love: The Twelve Principles of Attitudinal Healing book is used as a reference during the meetings, along with the 12 Principles, and group interaction guidelines.

8-Week Educational and Application Series

We offer an 8-week series of classes to a group of up to 10 participants, with the purpose of teaching and applying the 12 Principles of Attitudinal Healing from the book Teach Only Love: The Twelve Principles of Attitudinal Healing by Attitudinal Healing founder Gerald Jampolsky, MD. The principles give participants practical tools to help each person find their own answers, inner strength, and peace of mind. Studying, processing, sharing, and practicing these principles together helps everyone. We offer this popular series 2-3 times a year. We keep an ongoing list of interested participants and determine the dates and meeting times based on the potential participants’ preferences. If you are interested and would like to be added to our list to be notified the next time this series is offered, send us an email to the address listed below.

Attitudinal Healing was founded in 1975 by Dr. Gerald (Jerry) Jampolsky. Together we’ll explore its 12 Principles using the text Teach Only Love , focusing on healing relationships, discovering inner strength, and cultivating peace in everyday life.

The group is open to members and friends of Eliot Chapel. For more information, contact Corinne and Carole at attitudinalhealing@eli otc hapel.org .

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, September 7

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 04:18:12 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, September 7

Children and youth of all ages are welcome and encouraged to attend the Ingathering Water Service with their family at 9:45 am or 11:15 am. Religious Education (RE) gatherings for children and youth begin on September 14 during the 9:45 service.

The nursery is open for Eliot’s youngest UUs during each service on September 7. For preschool-aged children (generally ages 4-5), childcare and playtime is available this Sunday at 9:45 am for those who need freedom of movement.

Shared Plate: Nurses for Newborns

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 02:40:12 GMT

Shared Plate: Nurses for Newborns, September 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “NFN" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: August 31, 2025

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 19:48:54 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 31, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:45 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Questions and Answers

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 08:17:17 GMT

Ask the Minister Anything . . . And She Answers

Rev. Krista promised to answer the questions she couldn't get to on Sunday.

Marge Bergfeld: Will we ever have a pet blessing service?

Yes, this coming spring.

When did you first convert to UU? What drew you to it?

I first stepped into a UU church when I was 27, during my graduate studies. I was looking for a spiritual community where I could feel the close connections like I did in my childhood church with a theology that I could commit to and make my own. I became a member a few months later.

Steve Harvey: Can you suggest a definition of the UU denomination that is 3 sentences or less?

This is my elevator speak, borrowed from Rev. Cheryl Walker, a UU minister:

From our Unitarian heritage we proclaimed that God is one. From our Universalist heritage we proclaim that all are saved. As Unitarian Universalists we proclaim that we are all connected and that we are held by a love beyond our imagining.

Henry Schweinsberg: Is there an attempt to engage similar minded people whose faith of origin might have been Hindu or Islam or Indigeneous (vs. wasp - White Anglo Saxon Protestant).

Linda Carter: How can we become more diverse?

The best way to become a diverse congregation in terms of ethnic or religious background is not to try to get people to come to our church. It's to create a transformed church culture that is truly welcoming of diversity so that when people check us out, there is a clear path. Too often, people of color or from non-Christian backgrounds have to carve their own path into our congregations.

If we want to transform this congregation into a truly anti-racist congregation, that means each of us doing out work. I would recommend that members and friends register for these programs: " Witnessing Whiteness ," which begins soon, " Raising Anti-Racist Children " which begins in the winter, or " Love at the Center ," a Wellspring Program which is a members-only program for those who are firmly anchored in their UU faith. You can register for these programs at the links.

Another effective way is social justice engagement which brings us into relationship a diversity of people. When trust and friendship is built, that may create an opening for someone to consider our congregation. If you would like to be part of this important work, email socialjustice@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate: Action STL's Tornado Response

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 01:26:15 GMT

Shared Plate: Action STL's Tornado Response

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Action STL" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

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Sunday at a Glance: August 24, 2025

Sun, 24 Aug 2025 00:18:06 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 24, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Youth Group Kickoff – 10:00 am (offsite)

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Family Park Party – 11:30 am (offsite)

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:45 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Mindfulness Meditation

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 20:27:18 GMT

NEW! Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation

Introduction to Mindfulness Meditation offers weekly meditation sessions in the Vipassana tradition of Buddhism, including short talks on teachings relevant to the practice of mindfulness. Mindfulness meditation involves observing the breath, body sensations, and

mental processes as they arise and pass away, without getting carried away by them. The goal is to be more present to the breadth of our experience as it happens in the moment. By increasing our capacity to be mindful of the body, emotions, and the mind, our practice can lead to greater peace of mind and less suffering.

The class structure will consist of a brief introduction, a 15-minute guided meditation, a 15-minute free meditation, a 20-minute talk/Q&A, and will end with a 10-minute loving-kindness meditation.

This program is designed for anyone interested in learning and practicing mindfulness meditation; previous experience is not required. Come as you are available; registration is not required.

CONTACT: meditation@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Sundays at 12:30 pm in Room 006

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: August 17, 2025

Sun, 17 Aug 2025 06:59:53 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 17, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Pastoral Care Associates Meeting – 11:45 am in Room 001

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 12:00 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried

Wed, 13 Aug 2025 17:33:45 GMT

Autumn Women's Weekend at Bergfried

Autumn Women’s Weekend at Bergfried is an opportunity to enjoy a relaxed weekend of just being together. Join us on Friday-Sunday, September 19-21 for the whole weekend, one night, or just Saturday. Camp out or reserve a bed in the cottage or a bunkhouse. All are welcome: bring friends, mothers, daughters. Share in our early Saturday evening potluck. Enjoy hiking options, a birding workshop on Saturday afternoon, a nature craft, and campfire activities. We'll have Sunday morning worship. Come join us!

CONTACT: bergfriedwomen@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: September 19-21, 2025 at Bergfried

REGISTER BY EMAILING bergfriedwomen@eliotchapel.org

July 4th Weekend at Bergfried

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 15:18:59 GMT

July 4th Weekend at Bergfried

July 4th Weekend at Bergfried is great opportunity for camping, hiking, and fellowship around the shelter fire pit!

CONTACT: bergfriedinfo@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Annually during the July 4th weekend

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Men's Advance

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 14:50:26 GMT

Men's Advance

We welcome all Eliot members and friends who identify at the male end of the gender spectrum. Newcomers are especially encouraged to come out to enjoy hiking, camping, camaraderie, a Saturday night feast, and lots of super-secret men's stuff (which looks suspiciously like doing nothing). $10 is your contribution to the Saturday night feast (kids 12 and under $5). All other meals are on your own – bring good eats to share.

A highlight of the weekend is the traditional check-in around the fire pit after the Saturday night feast – starting after dark and running until 10:00 pm or so.

We also plan to use a wood splitter to split and stack firewood to provide a supply for campers this year. This very useful service task is actually a lot of fun as well!

Most choose to camp in tents or trailers; spaces in the cottage (with running water and electricity) are available by reservation, with priority given to those with medical needs or physical limitations. Eight beds are also available in the rustic bunkhouses. To sign up for the weekend, to reserve a cottage or bunkhouse space, or for further information, contact mensadvance@eliotchapel.org .

CONTACT: mensadvance@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: May 1-3, 2026 at Bergfried

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Eliot Life Quest

Sat, 09 Aug 2025 16:03:44 GMT

Eliot Life Quest

Eliot Life Quest brings a Vision Quest into the Eliot community. There are two core elements of Eliot’s Life Quest: Solitude, and Nature. A third element, fasting or some aspect of fasting, is added for those who are able to do so.

This spiritual offering will lead you through the preparation phase of a Life Quest, support your journey during your extended, solo fasting time on the land (3 days and nights), and help you start your path in consolidating what you have gained during this process. Those who participate will meet 4-6 times in the three months prior to the solo portion to understand the process, safety protocols, and to prepare physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Recommendations for activities that you do on your own between our meetings (reading, journaling, types of meditation, rewilding activities) will be given.

We will then meet on the land (Bergfried) for a total of five days. Three of those days and nights will be spent in solitude as close to the land as is available to you. After our time on the land, we will meet another two times to help consolidate the experience.

The dates and times of our meetings are not yet established but will begin in March 2026. The time frame for our extended time on the land is expected to be mid to late May.

CONTACT: ae-euc@eliotchapel.org

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Wisdom Legacy

Sat, 09 Aug 2025 15:49:56 GMT

NEW! Wisdom Legacy

Have you ever heard of a legacy letter, a spiritual will, an ethical will?

While it is called by many names, the end result is a collection of your spiritual wisdom.

It is how you made meaning in the messiness of life. This wisdom collection can be solely for self reflection, for someone you mentor, for your family or even for a friend. You can collect your wisdom stories only in memory or write them down. It is entirely up to you.

By sharing wisdom stories, we learn from others and refine our own wisdom. Before each group you will receive a series of questions to consider. The sessions will consider such questions as 1) spiritual lessons learned or unlearned from family; 2) your biggest challenge in life and how you handled it. 3) What wisdom do you have to share about love? about romantic love, about friendship? about keeping people in your life or cutting them out? 4) how did you find what really made you happy in life? Does it or does it not have anything to do with being a “good” person? 5) how do you want to be remembered? Is this even important in sharing spiritual wisdom? How would you sum up the most important bit of spiritual wisdom to share? The group will have a covenant of confidentiality.

CONTACT: assistant-minister@eliotchapel.org

 MEETS: February 5, 12, 19, 26, and March 5, 2026 from 6:30 to 7:45 via Zoom

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: August 10, 2025

Sat, 09 Aug 2025 15:24:23 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 10, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Adult OWL Informational Session – 2:00 via Zoom

Covenant Groups

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 16:57:47 GMT

Covenant Groups

Deep Listening is a central practice in participating in covenant groups. Each person takes a turn in a sacred space to share what is happening in their lives, often in relation to a theme. The themes often use Soul Matters Sharing Circle (a resource-sharing UU collaborative) as a resource.

Some groups use a specific focus for their group. For example, there is a Humanist Group and a Soul Writing group.

Groups do a service project for Eliot or the wider community once or twice a year.

Contact covenantgroups@eliotchapel.org to learn more about joining.

*Facilitators rotate

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

June 2025 Board Bits

Thu, 07 Aug 2025 21:00:49 GMT

June 2025 Board Bits

The new Board members, Steve Jarrett and Ann Lemon, attended the meeting. Welcome Steve and Ann!

Eliot has four new members (Bylaws, Article III, Part A): Andrea Barnes, Steven Barnes, Tom Phelps, and Laura Tyrey. Welcome all!

The Discernment Team made these recommendations: 1)Retain the property hitherto known as 222 Argonne and fold that parcel of land, under a different label, into the life of the church; 2)Enhance accessibility inside and outside of Eliot!!!--this is an issue of inclusivity; 3)Organize a broader operational plan to continue assessing and enhancing accessibility; 4)Establish a gathering space, especially for older children; 5) Put greeters in place outside the building as well as inside. ( 222 Arg onne Team Report June 2025.docx )

Rev. Krista’s Ministerial Report: Music and Adult Education teams are very strong.

Rev. Krista wishes to build Eliot’s emphasis on family ministries.

Eliot is still anticipating a surplus at the end of the fiscal year–June 30, 2025.

The Ministerial Discretionary Fund is in compliance with requirements for the fund.

The final version of the new policy book is ready; it is based on the Hotchkiss collaborative model and reflects our shift to a mission-based governance model. The Board unanimously approved adoption of the new policy book and its implementation by July 1, 2025. Stay tuned for more details and the link to view the new policies.

The Ministerial Evaluation Committee has completed collecting 2024-2025 feedback from evaluators chosen at the beginning of the church year. The committee is now compiling the data to share with the minister and request the minister's self-evaluation. The final step will be to present a summary to the Board at an upcoming meeting; thereafter, the minister and the Board will collaboratively establish new goals for the next 3 years. After those 3 years, the evaluation cycle will begin again.

The Rolling Roadmap process has, for the most part, been handed off to Matthew Hull, Chair Elect for 2025-26, who will lead the RR team next year.

Important question from Matthew: In general in your life, what lessons have you learned from experiences of grief, loss, or hardship?

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Invitation to Membership

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 22:58:38 GMT

NEW! Invitation to Membership

Invitation to Membership offers visitors and prospective members information on how to become involved in our congregation and the path to membership. This short meeting will be held in the Du Bois Library on the third Sunday of the month. In April, it will take place after the first service.

CONTACT: assistant-minister@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: on the third Sunday of the month, alternating between post-first service and post-second service.

NO REGISTRATION REQUIRED

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Authentic Selves

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 22:44:37 GMT

NEW! Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non-Binary People and their Families

Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non-Binary People and their Families invites people of all genders and orientations to explore concepts of gender, transgender history, identity formation, telling our stories, communal identities and more. The sessions are grounded in the Unitarian Universalist principle of justice, equity, and compassion in all relations and the belief that authenticity and acceptance of self are critical to human thriving.

Most news stories about transgender and non-binary people center the views of people who are cisgender—that is, who are not trans or non-binary—and who have no close relationships with transgender or non-binary people. This Adult Enrichment Program centers transgender and non-binary stories while offering an opportunity to deepen in your own story.

The 4 sessions use a covenant group model of deep sharing and deep listening. A fifth session is for parents and caregivers of transgender and non-binary children and any parents and caregivers who want more resources and understanding should a child come out as transgender or non-binary.

Our primary resource is Authentic Selves: Celebrating Trans and Non-Binary People and their Families, from Editor Peggy Gillespie. The book can be purchased at In Spirit, the UUA bookstore . If the cost of purchasing the book is prohibitive, please reach out directly to Rev. Krista ( ktaves@eliotchapel.org ) who will make arrangements for a copy. You are encouraged to read at least the first 5 stories before classes begin.

September 29/Session 1: We’ll introduce you to concepts of gender, transgender history, and life outside of the gender binary. It also guides us through the process of establishing a covenant that will be used throughout the curriculum.
October 6/Session 2: We’ll discuss how identity is formed and how we learn to tell our own stories of who we are.
October 20/Session 3: We’ll explore the diversity of families and experiences in life and love, and how we form communal identities as members of families and of friendship circles.
October 27/Session 4: We’ll explore why authenticity and acceptance of self are critical to human thriving, and what it feels like to stand with full authenticity in your body and mind.
November 3/Session 5: This special session is for parents and caregivers who are caring for and loving transgender and non-binary children and parents and caregivers who want to prepare themselves should one of their children come out as transgender or non-binary. All families are welcome. Registration Limit: 12.

CONTACT: ktaves@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: September 29, October 6, 20, 27 and November 3 from 6:30 – 8:15 pm in person or via Zoom

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Tornado Disaster Relief

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 18:05:30 GMT

Tornado Relief Volunteer Opportunities

Week of September 27 – October 3

SEE THIS WEEK'S GRID

Each week we are highlighting several volunteer opportunities for Eliot members and friends. Please make sure to reach out to the volunteer contact for each opportunity to confirm the needs, locations, and times. This is a fluid process and information quickly becomes outdated. We are actively seeking Team Leaders to help organize small groups or 5-10 people for volunteer projects. If you are willing to be a Team Leader or know of opportunities, please email Claire Wyneken or Paula Fulks (our contact info is in Realm). Thank you!

Sunday at a Glance: August 3, 2025

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 16:40:28 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 3, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:45 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Shared Plate: Crime Victim Center

Thu, 31 Jul 2025 21:07:44 GMT

Shared Plate: Crime Victim Center, August 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “CVC" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, August 3

Thu, 31 Jul 2025 20:39:05 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, August 3

Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Childcare and playtime is available in the nursery on Sundays in August for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement. The nursery will be open no later than 9:45 am and parents and caregivers may drop off children in the nursery prior to attending the service.

On select Sundays, supervised playtime on the meadow and 222 lot (or Room 001 if the weather is inclement) may be offered for children in kindergarten-6th grade . This is subject to having enough volunteers sign up in advance (if not, children should attend the service with their family).

Religious Education classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months.

For more information about summer outdoor play, including volunteer information, please contact the leadership team (Kalen Ponche, Deb Eldarrat, Cayla Suter, and Kathy Becker) at summerRE@eliotchapel.org .

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, July 27

Thu, 24 Jul 2025 00:31:46 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, July 27

Children in kindergarten and older are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am worship service with their family this Sunday, July 27. Supervised outdoor play for K-6 will resume August 3.

Childcare is available in the nursery on Sunday for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement. The nursery will be open for dropoff no later than 9:45 am. Parents and caregivers may drop children off in the nursery prior to attending the service.

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months.

Sunday at a Glance: July 27, 2025

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 17:35:20 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 27, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

OWL for Adults Information Session – 11:30 am in Room 001

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:45 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Wellspring: Love at the Center

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 03:13:43 GMT

Love at the Center: UU Values and Covenants is a transformational 8-session program from Wellspring. With love at the heart of each session, this engaging new program offers an in-depth exploration of our shared faith within the context of our personal identities and experiences, diverse communities, and the world.

Love at the Center provides a core foundation of spiritual deepening in the quality we have come to expect from UU Wellspring programs. It is suitable both for those new to Wellspring and also for those who have already taken the Wellspring Sources course. It is:

a spiritual exploration of UU Values and Covenants (with love at the center!)
a nurturing space to share personal identities and experiences
a small group ministry based in deep listening, spiritual practice, spiritual companionship/direction
a place to learn about UU theology
an opportunity for transformational self-awareness
offered in eight 2-hour sessions

Love at the Center is open to members of Eliot and those who have completed Starting Point .

CONTACT: wellspring@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Beginning October 21, f irst and third Tuesdays 9:15 – 11:30 am.

Sunday at a Glance: July 20, 2025

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 19:07:28 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 20, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

OWL for Adults Information Session – 11:30 am in Room 001

Pastoral Care Associates – 11:45 am in Room 006

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Volunteer Spotlight: Sue Bell

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 05:57:24 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Sue Bell

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, July 20

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 05:10:27 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, July 20

Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Childcare and playtime is available in the nursery on Sunday for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement. The nursery will be open for drop-off no later than 9:45 am. Parents and caregivers may drop children off in the nursery prior to attending the service.

Supervised playtime on the meadow and 222 lot (or Room 001 if the weather is inclement) will be offered for children in kindergarten-6th grade . This is subject to having enough volunteers sign up in advance (if not, children should attend the service with their family).

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months.

Sunday at a Glance: July 13, 2025

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 19:27:46 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 13, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, July 13

Thu, 10 Jul 2025 15:41:15 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, July 13

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Sunday at a Glance: July 6, 2025

Thu, 03 Jul 2025 20:16:03 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 6, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, July 6

Thu, 03 Jul 2025 05:08:38 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, July 6

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Childcare and playtime is available in the nursery on Sundays in June for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement. The nursery will be open for drop-off no later than 9:45 am. Parents and caregivers may drop children off in the nursery prior to attending the service.

May 2025 Board Bits

dlovell@eliotchapel.org (DEBBY LOVELL) — Wed, 02 Jul 2025 21:46:11 GMT

May 2025 Board Bits

The Board affirmed six new members: Ashley Jaworski, Nick Jaworski, Caitlin Koenig, Andrew Leighton Koenig, Scott Shepherd, and Marilyn Shepherd. Welcome!
The Board discussed and reviewed the 2024-25 Annual Meeting and celebrated the great turnout! The meeting’s votes awarded Emerita status to Rev. Barbara Gadon and adopted adding "Universalist" to Eliot's name, thus becoming Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel.
Board Chair Carole Glauser will write a letter of congratulations to Rev. Barbara Gadon to mark her receipt of the Emerita honor.
The Chair-elect, Jennifer Stauber, gave a preview of the Rolling Roadmap presentation that will be presented on 5/18 to the congregation. A Rolling Roadmap slide deck will be sent out before the presentation so that members can prepare questions. Eliot’s 25-26 Chair Elect, Matthew Hull, will lead the next iteration of the RR committee in the new church year starting in July. Thank you Jennifer, Matthew, and the entire Rolling Roadmap Committee (Rev. Krista Taves, Steve Mennerick, Ann Lemon, Ann Ruger, Jennifer Stauber, and Matthew Hull) for all your hard work launching this new method of strategic planning into practice!
The 222 Argonne Discernment Team will give a report of their progress to the Board at the June meeting.
The Board discussed whether or not to continue having a booth at the Kirkwood Greentree Festival in September. It's been difficult to find volunteer coordinators to lead the effort, despite having ample volunteers to set up/take down and work the booth shifts the past two years. They decided to go ahead and reserve a booth by the June 15 deadline with Jennifer Stauber and Carole Glauser agreeing to be the default co-coordinators if no others take the lead. If you are interested in collaborating with the Board to help coordinate the booth at the festival, please send a message to board@eliotchapel.org .
This month’s Thoughtful Question for the Board came from Board Member David Cox: How can I address injustice and oppression right now ? A lively discussion followed. How would you answer the question David posed?

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Shared Plate: St. Louis Area Diaper Bank

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 21:25:17 GMT

Shared Plate: St. Louis Area Diaper Bank, July 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Diaper" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: June 29, 2025

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 19:28:38 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 29, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Pride Parade – 12:00 pm downtown St. Louis

Covenant Group Facilitator Training – 11:00 in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

After service we're heading over to the St. Louis Pride Parade and joining the new Rainbow Alliance – an ecumenical group of LGBTQIA+ affirming churches, clergy, and allies – led by the Metropolitan Community Church of St. Louis. Families are welcome! The parade begins at noon so it's important to leave right after service to find parking and to join the contingent at their staging area. Check Eliot Chapel media on Sunday for the location of the staging area.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, June 29

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 04:16:51 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, June 29

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Children in kindergarten and older should attend the Pride Sunday worship service with their family today. Supervised outdoor play for K-6 will resume July 6, subject to volunteer availability.

Shared Plate: SBCLT

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 03:41:14 GMT

Shared Plate: South Baltimore Community Land Trust

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “SBCLT" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: June 22, 2025

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 02:18:12 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 22, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:45 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, June 22

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 01:35:48 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, June 22

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

April 2025 Board Bits

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 17:57:32 GMT

April 2025 Board Bits

We are continuing to reach out to members for the 2025-26 pledge campaign and are getting closer to our goal. Thank you to all who have submitted their pledges; your generosity makes everything we do at Eliot possible.

Eliot has added one new member this month: Lynn Malley. Welcome, Lynn! We are so glad to have you with us!

The listening/feedback sessions held by the 222 Argonne Discernment Team were well attended, and the discussions were lively. The Discernment Team, which reports to Rev. Krista and Brian Franklin, Director of Business Administration, is working on a building and land needs assessment to determine how well Eliot’s current facilities are serving us in living our mission. The team’s work is progressing smoothly.

The Board held a special Board session on Zoom on Wednesday, April 30, to discuss and officially approve the 2025-26 budget. Also via Zoom, on Wednesday, May 7, the Board made a presentation to the congregation about the 2025-2026 budget.

Eliot’s Social Justice Team is developing a Pink Haven response team to support Trans persons who are relocating for safety reasons or traveling to access health care, etc. To find out more about Pink Haven, please visit their website .

The Board has been preparing for the Annual Meeting, which will be held after the Sunday service on May 18 in the sanctuary. Lunch will be provided by the Board in Adams Hall immediately after the service, and at 11:45, the Annual Meeting will immediately follow lunch.

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Sunday at a Glance: June 15, 2025

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 20:21:40 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 15, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 1:00 pm in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, June 15

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 03:19:05 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, June 8

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Sunday at a Glance: June 8, 2025

Fri, 30 May 2025 16:25:49 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 8, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance:June 1, 2024

Fri, 30 May 2025 16:17:25 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 1, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am on the 222 Argonne Field

Summer Kick-off Picnic – 11:00 am on the 222 Argonne Field

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, June 8

Fri, 30 May 2025 04:52:41 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, June 8

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, June 1

Fri, 30 May 2025 04:46:36 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, June 1

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Shared Plate: Forward Through Ferguson

Fri, 30 May 2025 04:40:06 GMT

Shared Plate: Forward Through Ferguson , June 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Forward" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: May 25, 2024

Fri, 23 May 2025 17:37:58 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: May 25, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour & Congregational Lunch – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:45 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 25

Fri, 23 May 2025 15:14:23 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, May 25

Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months. Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Children in kindergarten and older should attend the worship service with their family today. Supervised outdoor play for K-6 will begin June 1 (subject to volunteer availability).

Eliot Name Change

Wed, 21 May 2025 21:17:20 GMT

Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel

Dear friends,

On Sunday, May 18, 2025 at our Annual Congregational Meeting, the members of this congregation voted to change the name of our congregation to Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel to acknowledge who we have become in the years between 1961, when the Unitarian and Universalist conferences merged to become the Unitarian Universalist Association, and today. Both Unitarianism and Universalism have grown beyond what they were 64 years ago, as any religion should, and between them has arisen one unified faith, Unitarian Universalism.

In 1961, Eliot Unitarian Chapel was a very young congregation focused on establishing itself in Kirkwood. Taking time to question a name was just not a priority. In the intervening years, there have consistently been those who wondered if it was time to change our name to reflect the evolution of our free living tradition and to affirm that both lineages now profoundly influence how we understand and practice Unitarian Universalism in this congregation. While our original roots are Unitarian, Universalism has also become part of our foundation and its lineage is also our lineage.

I realize that for some of you, this change is not a welcome one. You voted against the motion. Thank you for voting your conscience, and I recognize and empathize with what you might be feeling and how you will experience this congregation as we live into our amended name.

Over the coming months, we will see the new name reflected in all our communications and signage. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me , Debby Lovell (Communications Specialist) or Brian Franklin (Director of Business Administration) if you have any thoughts or questions.

yours in faith and love,

Rev. Krista

Sunday at a Glance: May 18, 2024

Fri, 16 May 2025 21:40:49 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: May 18, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour & Congregational Lunch – 11:00 am in Adams Hall

Annual Me eti ng – 11:45 am in the Sanctuary

Pastoral Care Associates – 12:45 pm in Room 001

On Tyranny Book Discussion – 1:00 pm in Room 004

Spiritual Perspectives & Practices Covenant Group – 4:00 pm in Room 006

Friends of Music Con cert – 4:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Summer Volunteers Needed

Fri, 16 May 2025 15:28:32 GMT

Summer Volunteers Roundup

Coordinators Needed for the Eliot Chapel Booth at the Greentree Festival

We have had a booth at the Greentree Festival for the past three years. It gives us community exposure and recognition as we provide literature, a friendly chat, and free stickers and candy to anyone who passes by. A church with a vibrant social justice emphasis, such as Eliot Chapel, may be just what someone is looking for in these tumultuous times. We really want to keep our profile out in the community and this is a well-attended festival that attracts people from all over the area.

We are in need of one or two coordinators to prepare for and run the event. It is a short-lived volunteer effort! Coordinators divide the work of getting the booth set up and decorated, recruiting volunteers to work the booth, making sure brochures are updated and printed, and purchasing giveaways. The Greentree Festival will take place September 12-14. Previous coordinators have great timelines and notes to share with any eager co-chairs or chair who want to take this on!

It is time to rent our booth, but we are not going to do so unless coordinators are signed on to lead this charge. Please express your interest to Mary Meihaus or write a message to volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org.

Summer Sunday Sexton/Custodian Volunteers Needed

Our custodian does not work on summer Sundays, so starting June 1, there are 14 Sundays we need a volunteer to take care of those duties. You would be needed from 9:30-noon and the duties are pretty basic. This is a great job for a family or a couple of our youth to partner up on. We have some Sundays covered already - join in and help make this a true Volunteer Village effort! The description of duties can be found in the sign-up link. SIGN UP

Fun Outdoor Summer Fellowship with our Eliot Children

Outdoor fellowship opportunity beginning in June: Kalen Ponche, Kathy Becker, Cayla Suter, and Debbie Eldarrat are working to arrange supervised outdoor play and fellowship for kindergarten - 6th grade MOST Sundays beginning in June on the back field and 222 lot during summer services. We’ll only be able to offer this on Sundays when AT LEAST two adults are signed up in advance. As of today, what is "most in need" is volunteers for the outdoor summer fellowship on June 15, June 22, and every Sunday of July. SIGN UP

Coffee Hour Volunteers

Hosting coffee hour is a simple task and a great way to meet and connect with others. Coffee Hour instructions are kept in a binder in the kitchen. SIGN UP

Join the Eliot Recycling Team

We have a summer dates available – let's fill up that calendar! This is an easy way to get involved in helping Eliot Chapel. SIGN UP for a week that works for you and plan to grab the recycling anytime after Sunday’s service to drop it off. SIGN UP

Join the Eliot Ride Team

Our team provides rides to the Eliot community for medical appointments and other non-recurring needs. Drivers can expect to be asked for their time several times a year. A current background check is required of all volunteers before they are put on our list of drivers. Email ineedaride@eliotchapel.org.

Designs for an Electronic Sign

Fri, 16 May 2025 04:46:06 GMT

Designs for an Electronic Sign at Eliot Chapel

We have exciting news to share! Eliot Chapel is planning to replace our current sign in the front of the chapel with an electronic sign over the summer. This installation is being funded by a generous gift from an Eliot congregant who wishes to remain anonymous.

There are many benefits to transitioning to an electronic sign:

The sign can be easily updated remotely (the current sign requires staff and volunteers to manually update it).
The sign will be more legible to passing vehicles and community members in the area.
Given the location of the sign at the busy intersection of Taylor and Argonne and across the street from the Kirkwood Farmers' Market, Eliot will be able to more effectively reach a wider audience with communications related to Sunday services, social justice initiatives, Eliot-sponsored concerts and events, and information about Unitarian Universalism. All of which could potentially increase our attendance on Sundays and our membership down the road.
We will be able to incorporate images onto the sign with our communications.
With our current sign we are only able to have one static communication displayed, and the electronic sign is dynamic, allowing us to rotate multiple communications on any given day.

Debby Lovell, Eliot’s Administrative/Communications Assistant, has created a couple of designs that Rev. Krista has approved:

Please note that our aim with the designs was to have the sign gracefully blend in with the existing landscape and to not overshadow the architecture of the Chapel in the background. We also want to emphasize that we do not intend to have rapidly flashing lights on the sign that would cause an annoying disturbance to the community. Finally, these signs are easily adjusted should the congregation vote on May 18 to change our name to Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel.

We would like to hear your feedback on what design we should move forward with! Please submit your vote via this online form or alternatively on Sunday, May 11 in Adams Hall where there will be a station set up for congregants to submit their vote. Only one vote per congregant will be counted. If a congregant submits more than one vote, the first vote submitted will be counted. The winning design will be announced within the next few weeks. In the meantime, if you have any additional feedback or questions, please feel free to reach out to Brian Franklin at admin@eliotchapel.org.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 18

Fri, 16 May 2025 04:29:17 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program for Sunday, May 18

This Sunday, May 18 is the annual Flower Communion worship service at 10:00 am. This long standing UU tradition invites everyone to bring a flower to share in the service. The service will be intergenerational with children encouraged to attend with their families.

The nursery will be open for childcare and playtime for nursery and preschool-aged children who need freedom of movement . All other children should attend the service with their family. Religious Education classes have concluded for 2024-25.

Looking ahead: Check out this note with details about anticipated summer plans on Sundays, including volunteer details and information. Volunteers are still needed for many of the dates, especially in June and July.

Summer nursery volunteer sign ups can be completed HERE .

Summer outdoor play (elementary) can be completed HERE .

March 2025 Board Bits

Wed, 14 May 2025 22:16:09 GMT

March 2025 Board Bits

Eliot recently welcomed several new members: Lily Chouteau-Scherr, Moses Gaither-Ganim, Deborah Hight, Juliene Rodriguez, and Heather Tisdel
Eliot’s financials are strong
We have had a robust start to this year’s pledge drive
The Board is moving forward with Eliot’s mission-based governance model, which emphasizes collaboration and cooperation
In May, Eliot will move to one Sunday service–at 10:00 a.m.
The Board is currently preparing for the Annual Meeting: May 18, 2025, at 11:45 a.m.
Rolling Roadmap copies are on the table outside the Church office. Please send any questions to rollingroadmap@eliotchapel.org

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Sunday at a Glance: May 11, 2024

Fri, 09 May 2025 06:52:09 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: May 11, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall after the service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

On Tyranny Book Discussion – 11:30 am in Room 004

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 11

Fri, 09 May 2025 06:30:27 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, May 11

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, May 4 during the 10:00 service. RE classes for 4th grade and younger will begin at 10:20 following the opening portion of the service. Youth activities for 5th & 6th graders and for 7th-12th grade youth have concluded for 2024-25. Youth in 5th grade and older should attend the service with their family.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement.

May 11 is the final Sunday of the 2024-25 RE program. The 2025-26 program will begin in September 2025. For information about future activities for specific ages and the 2025-26 program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Starting Point

Tue, 06 May 2025 23:03:34 GMT

An Introduction to the Unitarian Universalist Journey

Starting Point is a four-part series offers those considering Unitarian Universalism as a spiritual path the opportunity to experience UUism through a small group experience. You will learn about our faith tradition, explore your own spiritual journey, and connect with others who are also seeking a spiritual home or faith. Longtime members and friends seeking a small group experience are also welcome. All participants begin with session one, and all four sessions will be completed by a person seeking to proceed to membership. You may attend different sessions during the rounds throughout the year after completing session one. Sessions are regularly offered in the fall, winter, and spring.

Session 1: Your Journey – Sharing Our Stories and Spiritual Roadmaps

Session 2: The Unitarian Universalist Journey and the Journey of our Congregation

Session 3: Our Journey Together – The Three Paths of Unitarian Universalism, Part 1

Session 4: The Three Paths, Part 2 and Finding Your Journey Group

The Spring Session has reached capacity. Please sign up for our waiting list so we may contact you about any openings.

Spring 2026: April 12, 19, 26, May 3

June 27 One-Day Workshop Available

Starting Point is a four-session round of gatherings we use at Eliot Chapel to introduce newer guests and friends to our vibrant congregational life.

The sessions include a bit of Universalist and Unitarian theological histories, Eliot UU congregational life and history, and explorations of our own spiritual journey. Our usual format for Starting Point is spread over four successive Sundays, HOWEVER . . . .

Saturday, Jun 27, 2026, we are offering all four sessions of Starting Point in a one-day format, 9 am to as late as 4 pm. This one-day format is especially useful for those who cannot fit the four Sunday format into your schedule. Anyone is welcome to sign up by clicking the button below.

CONTACT: startingpoint@eliotchapel.org

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: May 4, 2024

Sat, 03 May 2025 21:07:59 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: May 4, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall after the service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Library

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 006

Greeter Meeting – 11:30 am in the Sanctuary

Older Adult OWL Information Session – 11:30 am in Room 001

On Tyranny Book Discussion – 11:30 am in Room 004

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Matt Venuti

Fri, 02 May 2025 09:06:11 GMT

Matt Venuti, Music and Sound Alchemy

Saturday, June 14 | 3:00 pm

Eliot Unitarian Chapel

100 S. Taylor, Kirkwood, Missouri

$20 advance

$25 at the door

Matt Venuti is an award-winning multi-instrumentalist/composer known for creating soul-stirring acoustic and electronic music with innovative instruments that he was among the very first to explore.

His original "Music and Sound Alchemy" events merge the essential elements of sound-bath immersion/journeys with an inspiring musicality. Matt’s decades of experience as a “sculptor” of music and sound have honed his intuitive receptivity for feeling energy and responding to it through his instruments. His audiences report a calming, relaxing and heart-opening experience. Click on the video for a preview.

Get Your Tickets Today!

Minister Emerita Discussions

Fri, 02 May 2025 07:19:29 GMT

Comments Shared at the Barbara Gadon for Minister Emerita Discussion Sessions

As we announced back in February, we petitioned the Eliot Board to have a congregational vote this May to have Barbara Gadon appointed Minister Emerita. We then publicized and conducted six separate discussion sessions regarding this proposal during coffee hours on February 16 and 23, and March 9. Many people just came to listen and learn more. Some had comments to share in support of the proposed appointment, others had comments in opposition. These are summarized below.

The comments in support focused on her passion for social justice, her handling of Michael Brown and the aftermath thereof, her sermons, her approachability, her leadership through a pandemic – especially given her vulnerable health condition, her compassion, her networking with other organizations in the community, her reestablishing ties with Eliot’s sister church in Transylvania, her making people feel at home at Eliot, and her launching of the adult enrichment and spiritual development program, which was piloted under her leadership and now fully implemented under Krista‘s.

The comments in opposition focused on her short tenure of just nine years,* declines in membership and in revenue during her tenure,** her handling of the acquisition of the property next door (222), issues with communication and transparency, her health condition perhaps getting in the way of what was best for Eliot, her handling of the COVID-19 lockdown and her reluctance to reopen in a timely fashion.

* It is worth noting that Barbara Gadon's tenure was much shorter than our previous Minister Emeritus, John Robinson, who served as lead minister at Eliot for 29 years, but her tenure was about twice the length of an average tenure in today’s UU world. There is currently nothing in Eliot's bylaws regarding minimum length of tenure for Minister Emeritus/Emerita candidates.

** It is also worth noting that almost all UU congregations across the country experienced similar declines in membership and revenues during those years.

Shared Plate: MCCB Transitions

Fri, 02 May 2025 06:11:06 GMT

Shared Plate: MCCB Transitions , May 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MCCB" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Annual Congregational Meeting 2025

Fri, 02 May 2025 06:00:54 GMT

Annual Congregational Meeting

Eliot Unitarian Chapel

May 18, 2025

Join the Board of Trustees this Sunday for Eliot Chapel’s annual meeting at 11:45 AM in the Sanctuary. Following the 10:00 AM service, sandwiches, chips, and drinks will be served in Adams Hall before the start of the meeting. Childcare will be available until 1:15 PM.

We aim to be as paperless as possible by having the meeting packet available electronically. View the meeting packet as a PDF or as a Word document . It will be projected on the screen in the sanctuary during the meeting. Please contact the front office if you require a hard copy of the packet.

The agenda for the annual meeting includes agreement of the consent agenda items which include the approval of new members to the Board of Trustees and the Nominating Committee, a presentation of the approved budget for the 25-26 year, and voting on two ballot measures.

The Nominating Committee is pleased to share the nominees as follows:

Board of Trustees

David Cox for a 1-year term extension

Steve Jarrett for a 3-year term

Ann Lemon treasurer for a 3-year term

Nominating Committee

Sue Bell for a 3-year term

Carole Glauser for a 2-year BOT-appointed term.

Erin Pohl for a 1-year term appointed by the Nominating Committee to replace a vacancy.

Voting on Two Ballot Measures— Emerita Title & Name Change*

Emerita Title

Shall Eliot Unitarian Chapel confer the honorary title of Minister Emerita to our recently retired lead minister—Reverend Barbara Gadon— who retired from active ministry after serving our congregation for nine years?

Name Change

Shall Eliot Unitarian Chapel approve adding "Universalist" to its name thus becoming Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel" to better reflect and include its Universalist heritage?

*A majority of the votes cast shall be sufficient to approve each measure.

How to Participate in the Annual Meeting

All members and friends are invited to attend, and all verified members can vote.
Plan to attend the Annual Meeting in person on Sunday, May 18.
Watch it via livestream on YouTube .
Attend via Zoom where, as confirmed member, you can cast your vote virtually. The link to join the Zoom meeting was sent to our members and will be included in our Eliot on Zoom email on Sunday. You must check in by 11:30, before the 11:45 start time of the meeting to be verified and to receive instructions on how to cast your vote.
Alternatively, you can appoint a proxy to cast a vote on your behalf.

Appointing a Proxy

A proxy form must be submitted to the Board Secretary, Rebecca Taylor, no later than noon on Thursday, May 15. Proxies may be submitted by the following methods.

1. Submit your proxy electronically. Fill out this form . Please use the email you have on record at Eliot Chapel for verification. You will receive an automated email confirmation after you click the submit button.

2. Alternatively, instead of the online form submission, you can download a proxy card here , print it and fill it out, and email a scan or photo of the completed form to secretary@eliotchapel.org . Hard copies of the form are available on the table by the front office.

3. Mail via the US Postal Service to:

ATTN: Board Secretary

Eliot Unitarian Chapel

100 South Taylor

Kirkwood, MO 63122

4. Hand deliver it to the Eliot Unitarian Chapel Front Office or to Rebecca Taylor.

Date and time of submission shall be determined by receipt by the Board Secretary.

Confirm Your Membership

Only members of record will be allowed to vote. The term “Member" is defined in our bylaws, a copy of which is available at eliotchapel.org . A list of members is posted in the hallway outside Adams Hall so that congregants may check to make sure they are listed as members.

Voting members were also sent the Digital Member List to verify their status is in good standing. Any discrepancies with the list of members should be raised with the Director of Business Administration at admin@eliotchapel.org no later than 72 hours before the meeting begins, Thursday, May 15 at noon.

**Read feedback from Minister Emerita Discussion Sessions .

Nominees

David Cox joined Eliot Chapel in 2006 after he and his family moved to the area. They had been longtime Unitarian Universalists prior to joining Eliot Chapel. David sang for many years with several choirs here. He was also elected to the board of trustees in 2015 where he served for more than one term.

David is an attorney in private practice focusing on immigration matters. He is on the Board of Governors at the Bar Association of Metropolitan Saint Louis where he is also the Chair of the Immigration Law Committee. David sings with the St Louis Symphony Chorus and the Bach Society of St Louis. His former spouse and youngest son live in the Metro East and his oldest son lives and works in Chicago.

Steve Jarrett is a longtime member of Eliot Chapel where he was married to Sue in Oct 2005. He is currently serving as a Greeter, on the Music Committee, and the Golf League. Steve has three lovely daughters and five grandchildren. The youngest daughter just finished University of Missouri and Purdue University with a Masters Degree in Animal Science.

Steve is a retired Federal Aviation Administration Technical Operations Manager with thirty-two years of government service. He worked for three years in the Washington, DC Headquarters on special RADAR projects. Steve lives with his wife Sue in Oakland, MO where he is a beekeeper, music enthusiast, and astronomy geek.

Ann Lemon has been an active member of Eliot since 2003. Her first service was when Rev. Bonnie announced the creation of covenant groups and Ann joined one of the original covenant groups led by Michael Hennon. She attended Women’s Weekend Spring of 2003, and was overwhelmed by the warm welcome of long time Eliot members. Ann has attended most WW, is the web mistress of the WW website, sung in the Eliot Choir, sung with Inner Voices, was a founding member of the Covenant Group Development Team, facilitated a covenant group for over 10 years, and has enthusiastically attended many Adult RE programs. This year, she has started facilitating Starting Point with Tim Gardner and loves the opportunity to meet new people and help them find their home at Eliot. Ann has one 18 year old daughter who participated in RE at Eliot and will be headed to University of Vermont in August. Ann is excited for the opportunity to be part of the Board as Treasurer!

Susan Bell has been attending Eliot for over five years and joined as a member in April 2022. She also enjoys being a greeter and making new attendees feel welcome at Eliot. She has been a UU for about 30 years and served as a Treasurer and Board member at Emerson Unitarian Universalist Chapel on two separate occasions. Susan was elected to the Eliot board in 2023. Although she has an accounting degree, her career has been in banking for over 30 years. She is a Certified Regulatory Compliance Manager and serves as a Compliance Analyst at Citi. She lives in Chesterfield with her husband Dave and their daughter, Sarah who is a Sophomore at the University of Missouri in Columbia. She enjoys walking their dogs, spending time with friends and family, reading, baking, book club, and is a member of West County Toastmasters.

Carole Glauser joined Eliot Chapel as a member in 2017 after attending Eliot’s “A Course in Miracles” meetings for 10+ years. Carole is a co-founder (along with Corinne Esneault and Julie Morreale) of Attitudinal Healing St. Louis, a nonprofit organization that facilitates classes, workshops, and support groups that inspire individuals to live a life of love-based thinking. (ahstlouis.org) She has participated in Eliot’s leadership development trainings since becoming a member. She served on Rev. Barbara’s Adult Spirituality Task Force developing and implementing adult spiritual education offerings. Carole enjoys participating in 2 covenant groups. She had the moving experience of traveling with the Eliot group who journeyed to Montgomery, Alabama to visit the Equal Justice Initiative’s Legacy Museum and Memorial in 2019. Carole currently serves on the Pastoral Care Team led by Rev. Krista. Carole was elected to the board in 2022.

Carole grew up in Springfield, Missouri where she earned a B.S. in Hospitality Business Management from Missouri State. She moved to the St. Louis area in 1990 and later earned a B.A. and M.A. in English from UMSL. She had a career in publishing before leaving the corporate world to freelance from home and manage her securities portfolio. She has also served 8 years on a local ACIM St. Louis Council Board. Her family has ties to Cox Hospital in Springfield where she serves on an advisory board that sponsors a cancer patient advocacy program.

A friend she met in a meditation community launched a movement called “Love on Every Billboard” with a goal of putting up billboards across the globe with one simple word—LOVE. She loved this idea and volunteered to be the St. Louis ambassador; and through creating press releases, a GoFundMe campaign, and appearing on several newscasts, she was able to run seven different LOVE billboard campaigns in 2019. Carole loves to travel domestically and abroad. She is an avid birdwatcher and has previously worked at Wild Bird Rehabilitation and served on their board of directors. She loves cooking and entertaining as well as all things crafty and nerdy science fiction stuff. She is a huge animal and nature lover and often hugs trees unabashedly.

Erin Pohl is honored to join the Eliot Chapel Nominating Committee and looks forward to supporting the congregation in shaping its future leadership. Erin has been attending Eliot since late 2022 with their partner Ro, and the two officially became members in 2023. Since then, Erin has become actively involved in the life of the church, including facilitating a Witnessing Whiteness book group in the fall of 2024. A native St. Louisan, Erin is deeply rooted in the community and brings both professional and personal passion to their service. By day, Erin works as the Director of Development at the Crime Victim Center in St. Louis, where they focus on advancing the organization’s mission to empower and support survivors of crime. Erin and Ro live in South City with their beloved dog Lizzy and their very opinionated cat, Perceval the Cat—also known as PT Cat.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 4

Thu, 01 May 2025 17:01:46 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, May 4

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, May 4 during the 10:00 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes for 6th grade and younger will begin at 10:20 following the opening portion of the service.

Youth activities for 7th-12th grade youth have concluded for 2024-25. Youth should attend the service with their family.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about the 2024-25 RE program and activities for specific ages, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Summer RE 2025

Thu, 01 May 2025 16:05:51 GMT

Summer: Nursery Care and Outdoor Fellowship

In May, Eliot will transition to the summer schedule with one service at 10:00 am. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer (May 25-August 31, 2025). The 2025-26 programs begin Sunday, September 7. Thanks to a team of volunteers, we can still offer nursery care to our kiddos five and younger, and outdoor play for our older kids. How can YOU help?

Nursery

During the summer months, Eliot parent and RE leader Brooke Kelly is working to arrange volunteers to keep the nursery open through the summer months so that playtime and freedom of movement is available for those five and younger during summer worship services. Eliot’s Safe Congregation Policy requires AT LEAST two adults (staff or volunteer) be present during all activities involving children and youth.

Eliot members and friends are encouraged to sign up for a Sunday (or two) via the Nursery SignUpGenius , especially if you plan to attend during the summer. You can read more about the nursery volunteer role via this position description .

Brooke can be reached at summernursery@eliotchapel.org if you have any questions.

Outdoor Fellowship

Beginning in June: In addition, Kalen Ponche, Kathy Becker, Cayla Suter, and Debbie Eldarrat are working to arrange supervised outdoor play and fellowship for kindergarten-6th grade MOST Sundays beginning in June on the back field and 222 lot during summer services. We’ll only be able to offer this on Sundays when AT LEAST two adults are signed up in advance.

Here’s the SignUpGenius for supervised outdoor play on the field (or Room 001 if weather is inclement) and the position description of the role with more information. The availability of this opportunity is contingent on advance volunteer signups. On weeks where supervised play IS NOT available, children should attend the worship service with their family.

Kalen, Cayla, Kathy, and Debbie can be reached at summerRE@eliotchapel.org if you have any questions.

Note that background checks are required for adults volunteering with children. An Eliot staff member will contact you if a new or updated check is needed.

HUGE thanks to Brooke, Kalen, Kathy, Debbie, and Cayla for their organizing efforts for Eliot children this summer.

Scott Stewart, Director of Religious Education

Anna Beck, Summer RE Staff Supervisor

February 2025 Board Bits

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 21:30:43 GMT

February 2025 Board Bits

Some Board members will be attending the upcoming second session of the Leading with Love workshop series offered by the Nominating and Leadership Committee. Those who attended the first session on Feb. 15 agreed that it was an informative, well-run workshop.
Eliot’s financials look good and attendance is up.
The Roadmap team has made great progress on this year’s Rolling Roadmap goals via constructive discussions on how to improve and focus next year's Roadmap. The decision was made to set aside Bergfried from Area of Focus 2 to focus on 222 Argonne.
Eliot has received an anonymous gift of $35,000 designated for purchasing a new high-resolution digital sign. Brian Franklin has been getting bids, and Debby Lovell has been working on potential designs. Two design options will be presented to the congregation for a vote – much as we did for the new carpet in Adams Hall.
The Board reviewed and began discussing the 25-26 draft budget prepared by Brian Franklin. The draft will be modified as needed based on the outcome of the March/April Stewardship Campaign. Final Board approval will occur at the April Board meeting.
The Winter Board retreat on March 8 will address final steps of the new governance policy document using the Hotchkiss model.
Matthew Hull was approved as the 25-26 chair elect; Matthew will be Chair of the Board of Trustees during the 26-27 church year. Thank you, Matthew!
Information sessions/discussions about honoring Barbara Gadon as minister emerita will be held March 9 in the Library during both coffee hours. Please stop by the Library with any questions you might have.

Rebecca Taylor, Board Secretary

Sunday at a Glance: April 27, 2024

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 03:00:11 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 27, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall following first service

Starting Point – 11:15 am in Room 006

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall following second service

Immigration Justice Book Read – 12:30 pm in Room 001

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 pm in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Women's Weekend Planning Meeting – 12:45 pm in the Library

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 27

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 00:17:56 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 27

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 27 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

The History of Eliot Chapel

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 18:08:13 GMT

Eliot Chapel's History

prepared by Amy Stark with a later addition by Rev. Krista Taves

Land Acknowledgement: Before we travel through our church’s history, it is important to know and acknowledge the ground beneath our feet as a way of honoring and expressing gratitude for the people on this land before us. We acknowledge that we are on the traditional lands of the Illini people, taken from them 26 years before Unitarians formed their first church in St. Louis. As you get to know Eliot, please also familiarize yourself with the culture and history of Missouri’s indigenous people, including but not limited to the tribes of the Illini Confederation, the Otoes, and the Missouria (also known as Niutachi [noo-TAH-chi]).

I: BEGINNINGS

William Greenleaf Eliot had just graduated from Harvard Divinity School at the age of 23 when he was persuaded to come to the frontier town of St. Louis to organize a Unitarian Church. Eliot founded the Church of the Messiah in 1835, the first Unitarian church west of the Mississippi. It's important to remember that the Church of the Messiah was Christian with the Unitarian Christian meaning – they did not see Jesus as God, but they were still Christian.

In the mid-1800s, some Unitarians began to question if you had to be Christian to be Unitarian. William Greenleaf Eliot was adamant that you could not be Unitarian if you were not Christian. Those who disagreed with him left and started a new church in 1868, called the Unity Church of St. Louis. This church was open to Christian and non-Christian alike. During the Depression, they came back together as the First Unitarian Church of St. Louis.

Unitarianism in the mid 1800’s created so many of the central institutions in our city. With members of Church of the Messiah congregation, Eliot founded Washington University in 1853; he was its first President and third Chancellor. Besides the University, Unitarians in St. Louis founded many other institutions, including the St. Louis Public Schools, the Art Museum, Mission Free School, South Side Day Nursery, Social Health Association, and the St. Louis Urban League. Despite being central to public institutions, Eliot did not publicly renounce slavery during his tenure.

In 1953, five couples who lived in west county and traveled to First Unitarian of St. Louis each Sunday for services, were asked by the First U. minister to form a family forum program in the suburbs. Due to the population boom and growth, First Church foresaw the need to serve many more Unitarians closer to their homes and perhaps the need for a second church. The demand was high for the forum, so they added church services too, relying on the First U. minister to do an early service with them and rush back to do First Church’s service after. Over the first few years, they met in homes, a dance studio, and the Kirkwood YMCA. In 1955, they adopted the name Eliot Chapel and called their first minister. While the success of Eliot’s start is a credit to those who put in the time and treasure, we must also acknowledge that our church followed the path of white flight out of the city, and we have been intentional in recent years to name this history.

1962 groundbreaking of the religious education wing

II: BECOMING A CHURCH

In 1961, Grace Episcopal Church sold its historic building to Eliot for $25,000, the value of the land. The Religious Education program was still being held at the YMCA down the street. The first priority for the new congregation was space for RE. The first addition, which added eight classrooms, was completed in 1963. After moving into the RE wing, the Eliot Chapel Nursery School was organized by the Women's Alliance in 1963. Eliot Chapel Nursery School is still in operation today inside our building. The 60s brought not just the new church, but a growing call for civil rights in our nation. Many Eliot members joined the movement, others felt less sure of their participation.

In 1969, Webster Kitchell was called as Eliot’s lead minister. His ministry moved us through the end of the turbulent '60s as major cultural shifts occurred and we found our way toward justice issues that concerned us.

One of those efforts came before abortion was legalized: Eliot Chapel became home to the Clergy Crisis Pregnancy Counseling Service, which provided counseling and, when requested, referrals for out-of-state abortions.

In 1967, a major renovation of the sanctuary was undertaken, and to further develop and expand the life of the church, John Robinson was called as the settled minister, in 1973.

The 1984 Bread Service; the 1977 Madrigal cast

Eliot continued to grow and change. We established many traditions, such as the Thanksgiving Bread service and our annual Elizabethan Madrigal Dinner. Robinson seemed to provide a nice balance between our Judeo-Christian traditions and roots and Humanist principles; however, we often did not see ourselves as part of the larger Unitarian Universalist Association and stayed insular in many ways.

In 1977, disaster struck. Fire gutted the religious education wing, the sanctuary was badly smoke damaged, and all the windows on the south side were cracked by the heat. Two days after the fire, the service was held on the steps of the church. The sanctuary was cleaned up for the next Sunday's service, which was Easter. While repairs were made, plans were also made to add to the building again. To quote James Durbin in a presentation made at the Annual Congregational Dinner one month after the fire, "Eliot Chapel is not brick and mortar; it is people and what they do." The spirit of Eliot was not deterred, and the church seemed to find a deeper sense of community.

"Eliot Chapel is not brick and mortar; it is people and what they do."

III: IDENTITY, TRADITIONS

In the 1980’s rituals and traditions started, grew, and changed. Eliot added an annual Seder dinner and flower communion Sunday. We began an intern minister program, adopted our sister church in Transylvania, started a scholarship fund, and helped establish a new Unitarian congregation– Emerson Unitarian Universalist Chapel.

Traditions begun – Seder Dinner and Flower Communion – and ties forged with our partner church in the last century remain strong.

Our members prepared food at a women's shelter and for AIDS patients and participated in work parties to do home repairs for those in need locally. Eliot Chapel hosted St. Louis’ first chapter of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).

Toward the end of the decade in 1986, the spire that exists was installed, especially designed to replace the traditional cross. The new design appears globe like and represents the four cardinal directions, spinning high above us like a beacon to our tradition and values.

In 1992, we expanded again, adding more classrooms and enlarging our kitchen and fellowship hall. With our added space, we were able to participate in the St. Louis Room at the Inn program, providing dinner and shelter to homeless families every Thursday night. We added more family activities and the arts and music continued to flourish at Eliot. There was a Bluegrass group, regular eclectic coffeehouse evenings, and an occasional pick-up orchestra.

In 1994, with our one service at capacity, we added a second service with its own choir and religious education classes. It seemed we would just keep growing and growing.

IV: WELCOMES, GROWTH PAINS, GOODBYES

In the fall of 1999, our lead minister John Robinson, who had been with us 27 years, announced his retirement. A few ministers carried us through until a search called Rev. Daniel O'Connell, as Lead Minister, and Bonnie Vegiard, as Program Minister, in April 2002. They continued to bring in more families and we were eventually around 500 members.

In 2003, Eliot became the first UUA certified Welcoming Congregation in the St. Louis area, moving us to inclusivity of bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people.

In March 2004, our Lead Minister conducted the first public gay wedding in the Midwest, and later filed the marriage at the county court house. Unfortunately, not all in the congregation wanted this and it was a period of understanding what true welcome could mean, though we were not there yet. There was tension among members as well in whether we should be turning out to the community and advocating in these ways.

In 2010, Revs. O’Connell and Vegiard left Eliot amidst turmoil and a period of church conflict. Trying to move from a pastoral size church to a large church left the congregation uncertain as to how to handle the demands of governance, while still caring for one another and serving the community. The division and unhealthy dynamics that developed left Eliot with some healing to do and reflections on creating a healthier covenant, as goodbyes were said to a significant ministry.

V: A NEW ERA, EMERGING JUSTICE, AND A PANDEMIC

After three years of interim ministry, much discernment about mistakes made, and imagining a new more justice-oriented future, Eliot called Rev. Barbara H. Gadon and formed a new covenant and vision for the church. Rev. Gadon accepted the call and began her role as Lead Minister in August 2013.

After the killing of Mike Brown, just one year after Barbara was called, our church had some soul searching to do to become more socially engaged in our community and to stand in partnership with the St. Louis community in decentering whiteness and creating justice. Our weekly Black Lives Matter vigils began, and we partnered with many organizations for voting rights, justice initiatives, and racial reconciliation.

In 2016, we purchased the house next door to Eliot with a new vision and blueprint for how to use our space. We dreamed of something new and thought about our budget as more of a moral document.

A second Eliot fire occurred in December 2019, partially closing us out of portions of our building, and creating many inconveniences. Just as we considered how to reopen these portions and clean the church, March of 2020 brought us the COVID-19 pandemic and things turned upside down once again.

As we know, life went online and so did Eliot. Staff, church members, and friends learned a whole new way to do church. Anxieties and isolation set in, even with the best efforts, but we entered the next phase of relearning what church and what Eliot could be. Rev. Krista Taves was added to the staff as our Minister for Congregational Life.

In Spring 2023, Rev Barbara announced her retirement effective in June at the end of the church year. We began the reflection process in the search for a new lead minister.

Our interim minister Rev. Doug Wadkins arrived at Eliot in August 2023 and, in addition to outstanding preaching, engaged with us in interim tasks, which include reconnecting with our history, celebrating our accomplishments, reconsidering our mission and vision, governance and staffing assessments, and much more. Rev. Doug’s service to us concluded as the Search Committee focused on calling the Rev. Krista Taves as our next settled minister.

At a Congregational Meeting held March 3, 2024, the vote to call Rev. Krista was 98%, an unusually high percentage for a minister known to a congregation. Rev. Krista, with many tears of joy throughout the sanctuary, accepted the Call. Her installation as Lead minister of Eliot Unitarian Chapel occurred on October 27, 2024.

We now look forward to a period of stable leadership, without worldwide pandemics, and welcome Rev. Krista’s challenge to become the congregation we can be.

How will your journey add to the History of Eliot Chapel?

History of the Building

Sunday at a Glance: April 20, 2024

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 19:13:21 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: April 20, 2025

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

First Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall following first service

Second Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall following second service

Pastoral Care Associates Meeting – 12:45 pm in Room 001

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:30 pm via Zoom

Name Change Cost FAQ

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 07:35:45 GMT

Name Change Cost FAQ

Question from congregant : It seems like it could be very expensive to change our name—new sign, stationery, business cards, etc. In this time of establishing a solid ground for Eliot’s finances, doesn’t the expense of a name change seem counterproductive?

Answer from Board of Trustees Chair, Carole Glauser: When the board considered whether or not we were open to putting the name change proposal to a vote from the congregation, considering the cost involved or any other adverse consequences was a serious discussion. Although it can be expensive for an organization to change its name and handle the logistics of updating everything to reflect the new name, that actually would not be the case in this scenario for Eliot.

1) We have had a generous restricted donation of $35,000 for the sole purpose of purchasing a new digital sign and implementing the software and other costs associated with installing it to replace the current outdated one. The steps needed to make this purchase are underway and won’t be finalized before we have a vote on the proposed name change. Thus, there is no adverse cost involved in changing our sign to reflect a new name.

2) We do most of our printing in-house and do not keep a very large stock of preprinted stationery, business cards, etc. on hand. Our address remains the same so all efforts by anyone to contact and reach us using the old or new name will still reach our address. We plan to use up the current stock and phase out through normal use. As replacement stock is needed, it will be printed using revised template reflecting new name. This would have a negligible impact on our financial health and budget.

3) We are fortunate to have a very capable communications expert, Debby Lovell, who can manage updating our current logo to reflect the addition of Universalist without any need to hire a graphic designer. She can do this gradually as her priorities and time allows so it doesn’t put a burden on her or unnecessarily use up her time and energy.

4) We can also take advantage of printing labels or stickers to cover up the old name in cases where using stickers would be appropriate. Example: any brochure stock we have that has been stamped or labeled with Eliot’s name and logo.

5) Our Director of Business Administration, Brian Franklin, believes there will be very little replacement costs involved in a name change if we use the phase-out approach. Of course, there may be a few scenarios that may rise up to incur some financial expenditures related to a name change, but they will be minimal and will not negatively impact on our budgeted money for programing, maintenance, or operations and will not be an undue financial burden to the budget or Eliot’s solid and still growing financial health and status.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 20

Thu, 17 Apr 2025 16:36:25 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Easter Sunday, April 20

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 20 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family.

Religious Education classes for 4th grade and younger will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

5th & 6th grade youth and 7th-12th grade youth should attend the Easter Sunday worship service with their family this week.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 13

Fri, 11 Apr 2025 18:03:02 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 13

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 13 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 6

dlovell@eliotchapel.org (DEBBY LOVELL) — Thu, 03 Apr 2025 11:29:07 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 6

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, April 6 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Shared Plate: Forest ReLeaf

dlovell@eliotchapel.org (DEBBY LOVELL) — Thu, 03 Apr 2025 11:23:54 GMT

Shared Plate: Forest Releaf, April 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MCU" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 30

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 07:19:36 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 30

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 30 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Shared Plate for UUA Disaster Relief Fund

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 07:03:04 GMT

Shared Plate: UUA Disaster Relief Fund, March 2025

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for ourgivingform. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Disaster" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Rolling Roadmap Report 1

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 22:48:43 GMT

2025 Spring Rolling Roadmap Report - Adult Enrichment

Last summer, the Board committed to a three-year strategic plan, “The Rolling Road Map,” that was developed by a committee (Rev. Krista Taves, Steve Mennerick, Kalen Ponche, and Carole Glauser) using recommendations from the Board, congregational input, and data obtained from our most recent interim minister. You can read the original plan here.

The reason we call it “The Rolling Road Map” is that it’s meant to be a living document that is continuously evolving. Each year, a new strategic planning committee will be selected to evaluate progress, gather data, and revise and roll out the plan for the next year. The 2024-25 Committee is led by Board-Chair Elect Jennifer Stauber and includes Rev Krista Taves, Matthew Hull, Ann Lemon, Steve Mennerick, and Ann Ruger.

We’ve been meeting once a month to assess progress, and we’re pleased to report that this first year has been a smashing success! Eliot has accomplished almost everything the plan laid out for it under Goal 1: “Assess, develop and increase awareness of and access to Adult Enrichment programs to facilitate greater connection and spiritual growth.”

You have probably noticed the plethora of new Adult Enrichment offerings that are available this year. You can now have lunch with the minister. You can learn about money as a spiritual practice. You can discuss Witnessing Whiteness or On Tyranny with fellow congregants. You can explore ethical eating. You can learn how to answer when your child asks if there’s a god. You can build friendships with immigrants.

And these offerings are in addition to all the ongoing Adult Enrichment opportunities.

How has all this been possible?

Because of the strong leadership of Rev. Krista.
Because of the wizardry of Communications Director Debby Lovell.
Because of a new evaluation process that is used in planning future programs.
Because of the new Adult Enrichment Team (Toni Saunders, chair, Lorraine Atwood, Cathy Converse, and Claire Wyneken) that’s overseeing all this.
And because of the amazing volunteers who have stepped up to lead.

Eliot is a generous congregation!

So what’s next as we think ahead to Year 2 of our Rolling Road Map? In the next three months, the committee will continue to monitor progress, seek congregational feedback, and then propose a new three-year plan for the Board’s consideration at its annual retreat.

One thing for sure will be a focus on our facilities, including our property at 222 Argonne. In fact, the Argonne Discernment Team has already set up two meetings, on March 30 and April 13, to get input from the congregation. Try to attend both if you can.

If you have any questions or comments about the Rolling Road Map, you can email the committee at rollingroadmap@eliotchapel.org . Or simply talk to a committee member:

Jennifer Stauber, Rev. Krista Taves, Mathew Hull, Ann Lemon, Steve Mennerick, and Ann Ruger.

Missouri UU Advocacy Day

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 15:12:55 GMT

Missouri UU Advocacy Day

Wednesday, April 23 | 10:00 am–3:00 pm

Join us to build power for the world we dream about

as Missouri Unitarian Universalists!

Together we will:

Build community with one another as UUs from all over the state

Hear from special guest UUs in state government

Visit with our legislators about our UU values

Gather at the UU Fellowship of Jefferson City, 1021 Northeast Dr.

Wear your favorite UU gear!

Snacks and lunch will be provided with a suggested donation.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 23

Fri, 21 Mar 2025 05:52:58 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 23

The 2024-25 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 23 during the 9:45 service.

Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 20 minutes of the worship service with their family. Religious Education classes for children in 4th grade and younger will begin at 10:05 following the opening portion of the service.

The 5th and 6th grade group and the youth group for 7th-12th grade are OFF this week for the spring break weekend.

Youth in 7th grade and older should attend the worship service with their family.

5th and 6th grade youth may attend the worship service OR join the younger elementary group.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Documentary and Rally

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 17:54:34 GMT

BORDERLAND | The Line Within Viewing and Virtual Rally

To continue our education series, Eliot's Immigration Justice Team is offering two new events at the end of March:

The documentary BORDERLAND| The Line Within, free for you to watch from your home March 29 - March 31. Sign up here .
A virtual National Immigrant Solidarity Rally on Monday, March 31 from 6:00 - 8:00 pm in Adams Hall.

To go beyond the anger and frustration about the inhumane treatment of immigrant communities and the brazen assault on our fundamental rights, people from across the country are gathering to share experiences, strategies, and resources to inspire solidarity and action. Attendees include the makers of the Borderland documentary, immigration rights leaders, students, and concerned community members - and you! After the rally we can share our thoughts for steps forward. If you can't join us in person you can register for the virtual National Immigrant Solidarity Rally, and connect directly from your home.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

January 2025 Board Bits

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 18:26:15 GMT

January 2025 Board Bits

The Board of Trustees officially approved new member Bella Franck. Welcome, Bella, we are glad you are here!
We are so pleased to report that membership and Sunday attendance are both up—especially RE attendance, yay!
Our finances for the first half of the fiscal year remain solid. Our next fundraising opportunity will be at our annual Trivia Night on April 25th. Save the date in your calendar!
We began discussing 25-26 budget needs with Director of Business Administration, Brian Franklin. Brian will work with Rev. Krista to begin drafting the budget for next year.
We set a date for our Winter Board Retreat of March 8th, 2025, where we will work on our new Mission-Based Governance policies document.
Our Annual Congregational Meeting is set for May 18th.
Our next Board meeting is Wednesday, Feb. 19th at 6:30 PM in Adams Hall. Members are always welcome to attend. Email chair@eliotchapel.org to let us know if you plan to come.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 16

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 02:20:52 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 16

The 2024-25 Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 16 during the 9:45 service.

The 5th and 6th grade group and the youth group for 7th-12th grade are OFF this week for the spring break weekend.

Youth in 7th grade and older should attend the worship service with their family.

5th and 6th grade youth may attend the worship service OR join the younger elementary group.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. It will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Volunteer Spotlight: Lorraine & Tom Atwood

Fri, 07 Mar 2025 01:58:34 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Lorraine & Tom Atwood

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 9

Fri, 07 Mar 2025 01:06:19 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 9

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 9 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 2

Fri, 28 Feb 2025 00:05:53 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 2

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, March 2 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 23

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 00:24:12 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 23

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 23 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

December 2024 Board Bits

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 18:27:58 GMT

December 2024 Board Bits

We are on track for pledges to date in the church year.
The Board is beginning its discussion of Dan Hotchkiss’ book Governance and Ministry . Read the update from the Board here.
The Board launched a very preliminary discussion of the pros and cons of AI.
The Rolling Roadmap committee has met and is making progress – Read about the Rolling Roadmap here
The 222 Argonne team is up and running.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 16

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 01:22:34 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 16

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 16 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes for children in 6th grade and younger will begin at 10:00 following the opening portion of the service.

The Youth Group for 7th-12th grade is OFF this week for the winter holiday weekend. Youth in 7th grade and older should attend the worship service with their family. Youth activities resume February 23.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Grinnell

Thu, 13 Feb 2025 21:10:30 GMT

Grinnell College Choir in Concert

Thursday, March 13 | 7:30 pm

Eliot Unitarian Chapel

100 S. Taylor, Kirkwood, Missouri

FREE admission with reservation

The Grinnell Singers, under the direction of Conductor John Rommereim, will soon

take to the road for their 2025 spring concert tour. The 50-member student choir from Grinnell College in Iowa will perform

the program, titled The Light is the Same, in six cities across the Midwest from March 9–14.

PROGRAM

Includes works by Esmail, Berko, Brahms, Zentner, Rommereim, Sviridov,

Rachmaninov, Biebl, Carrington, MacMillan, and Handel.

Advanced ticket reservations have now closed.

Tickets will be available at the door.

Volunteer Spotlight: Rebecca and Carolyn

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 18:19:52 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Carolyn and Rebecca

Carolyn:

These are Volunteer Teams in which Carolyn participates:

Chapel Needs/Interior & Exterior, Summer Sexton, Coffee Hour Coordination & organization of kitchen/supplies, Chapel Chancel, Greeter/Usher, Storage Room Shakedown, Flower Team Member, Bread Sunday Coordination, Flower Communion Coordination.

How long have you been attending Eliot Chapel?

“I have been attending Eliot since1986. I was married here and our 2 sons attended the R.E. Program, when Rev. Janet Pillman was the Associate Minister and she became my mentor.”

Why is it important for you to engage in volunteering at Eliot Chapel?

“I enjoy helping others, and greeting with a smile. I like decorating for the seasons and making sure we leave a good first impression to our visitors and guests. I receive spiritual guidance each Sunday that I attend service and get inspiration for the groundwork to take action within our community and beyond.”

Rebecca:

These are Volunteer Teams in which Rebecca participates:

Chapel Needs Exterior & Interior, Eliot Front Office Substitute, Event Host/Coordinator, Fun Team, Memorial Receptions, Storage Room Shakedown, Summer Sexton, Coffee Hour Coordinator, Recycle, Greeter Substitute, Flower Team Coordinator, Bread Sunday Coordination, Flower Communion Coordination, Adopt-a-Garden-Urn.

How long have you been attending Eliot Chapel?

“I joined Eliot Chapel in 1984. There were some years away when we moved to New York and when other things in life interfered with our attendance."

Why is it important for you to engage in volunteering at Eliot Chapel?

"In my opinion, volunteering is a way to make a pledge to Eliot Chapel. The different chores I do help to make Eliot a welcoming community. Volunteering provides another way for me to be a part of this community and make a deeper connection here. Volunteering is one way I meet people. Making coffee on Sunday or being a greeter allows me to talk with someone new each time. Volunteering has taught me new skills and volunteering is fun!"

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 2

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 05:31:05 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 2

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, February 2 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

governance style

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 22:34:07 GMT

A Shift In Governance Style Updates

Dear beloved members and sustaining friends,

The question of how we govern ourselves at Eliot Chapel has been actively discussed for many years. Fifteen years ago, during a difficult time in the life of our congregation, we shifted to Policy Governance under the leadership of Interim Ministers Rev. David Keyes and Rev. Maureen Killoran. The governance model we adopted is referred to as the Carver Model. This was an important shift because it gave clear responsibilities to the Board and the Lead Minister, which allowed each to be more effective. However, the Carver Model of policy governance has been set aside by most UU congregations because it is based on a not-for-profit model with a Board of Directors and an Executive Director with staff. Congregational Boards are different. Congregations belong to their members and are their spiritual home. Both the Board and the Lead Minister are elected by the congregation and are accountable to it. Rather than an Executive Director, our Lead Minister is our spiritual leader. Even the Lead Minister’s executive tasks are grounded in our theology and spiritual practice.

When Rev. Barbara Gadon retired in June 2022, Interim Minister Rev. Dr. Doug Wadkins encouraged the Board to shift away from the more rigid Carver Model towards a more collaborative model, often called the Hotchkiss Model after Dan Hotchkiss, who worked to adapt the Carver Model to congregational life. The division of authority and responsibilities remain the same, but there is a strong emphasis on collaboration and partnership which is more in harmony with our theology of covenantal mutual relationships built on love and trust. During this time, the Board made a commitment to move towards Mission-Based Governance.

Throughout the 23-24 church year, while Rev. Krista was our contracted Acting Lead Minister, the board began exploring what changes needed to be made to fully transition from the default Carver Model to the Mission-Based Model. As we have practiced working collaboratively, while honoring the division of authority and its boundaries, we have learned much as we lean deeper into this evolving model of governance. This year, with Rev. Krista beginning her settled ministry, the board has set the goal of fully establishing and adopting the new model.

The policies that the board has been operating under were written during and for the Carver Model reign. As we have been experimenting with living into the new model, it has become evident to us that operating from policies focused on the Carver Model has proven to be overly complicated and unsuitable for our goal of wholly implementing the Mission-Based Model. One of our final steps in realizing our goal is to undertake writing a Board Governance Policy document that is more compatible with the new model. The Board of Trustees has tasked a Governance Committee composed of Board Chair Carole Glauser, Members at Large David T. Cox and Matthew Hull, and Rev. Krista Taves to do this work. We have consulted directly with Dan Hotchkiss who has and will continue to provide valuable guidance and support.

We expect to share our new Mission-Based Governance document with you for feedback in early Spring with the goal of Board approval by June 30, 2025. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are at your service.

Yours in faith and love,

The Governance Team

Carole Glauser, Chair of the Board

Matthew Hull, Member at Large

David T. Cox, Member at Large

Rev. Krista Taves, Lead Minister

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 26

Fri, 24 Jan 2025 02:36:58 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, January 26

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program continues this Sunday, January 26 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 19

Fri, 17 Jan 2025 03:57:38 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, January 19

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, January 19 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

November 2024 Board Bits

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 19:20:16 GMT

November 2024 Board Bits

• Pizza Moon, a Board linkage event, was very successful, with about 70 attendees.

We had four festive fire pits on the green and put 222 Argonne to good use.
Ideas written on the white board by Pizza Moon attendees will be discussed at a future Board meeting.

• We have one new member this month: Samanda Rossi

• The Minister Evaluation Team (MET) has just about finished naming the congregant-volunteers needed to begin the process.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, January 12

Fri, 10 Jan 2025 00:58:57 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, January 12

The 2024-25 Religious Education (RE) and Youth Program resumes this Sunday, January 12 during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. RE classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 am following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 am for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Living Legends

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 19:43:34 GMT

The Red and Black Brass Band

Tornado Relief Fundraiser

Saturday, November 1, 2025 | 3:00 pm

Eliot UU Chapel

100 S. Taylor, Kirkwood, Missouri

$30 per adult ticket / Children have free admission

Tickets available online HERE

Eliot Chapel's Living Legends Series is proud to present The Red and Black Brass Band on Saturday, November 1 at 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary. A portion of the proceeds of the concert will go towards Action St. Louis' Tornado Response 2025 .

Based in Saint Louis, MO, The Red and Black Brass Band is a dynamic band, bringing a level of excitement to each performance. For every member, the sole purpose of this music is to celebrate and cultivate an energy that will transform any emotion into pure joy. Embracing the spirit of New Orleans music, the eight-piece ensemble strives to transform your experience into a party you may have never thought imaginable.

The Red and Black Brass Band was created in 2020 after Ben Kosberg and Dominque Burton took to the street to cheer up the neighborhood during quarantine. Drawing from a large online following, they established their group through a shared love for the unifying element of music. Always met locally with smiles and dancing feet, they aim to deliver the same atmosphere at your milestone occasion.

The Red and Black Brass Band is unique for their enchanting blend of powerful horns and smooth singing with various music genres, all of which come together over a signature New Orleans Second line beat. Each member brings their individual style and passion for music, infusing their setlist with a mix of jazz, funk, hip hop, pop, and more.

Tickets are available online until Thursday, October 30. Tickets will also be available at the door the day of the concert. We hope to see you there!

Friends of Music

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 19:14:41 GMT

Friends of Music Concerts

You are invited to enjoy free Sunday afternoon concerts featuring classical solo, chamber ensemble, and vocal music.

Friends of Music Concerts usually feature a variety of classical solo, chamber ensemble and vocal compositions from the 15th-21st centuries performed by professional and other accomplished musicians primarily from the Metropolitan Saint Louis area.

Friends of Music Concerts are co-sponsored by Eliot Unitarian Chapel.

Please see the Friends of Music website for up-to-date information about performances to come!

Chili, Soup, and Games Extravaganza

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 02:10:57 GMT

Let's Do Lunch!

Eliot's Chili, Soup, and Games Extravaganza

Sunday, January 12

Games begin in 001-003 following the first service | Lunch at the end of the second service in Adams Hall

Herald the New Year with culinary competition and games galore at Eliot's Chili, Soup, and Games Extravaganza, a unique FUN-draising event brought to you by the FUN team.

Five dollars per person grants an all-you-can-eat bowl and official voting ballot. Prizes will be awarded for best chili – both meat and vegetarian – and supreme soup. Mac and cheese and drinks will also be made available courtesy of the Fun Team.

The intergenerational fun kicks off with board and card games in the Eliot lower level following the first service (feel free to bring a personal favorite!) with dining officially commencing at the end of the second service.

The cost will be $5/bowl for adults and $2/bowl for children, 4 years and older. Children under 4 may eat free.

Leading with Love Leadership Retreat

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 22:25:54 GMT

Leading with Love

A Workshop Series for Current and Potential Future Team Leaders within the Eliot Congregation

There is a resurgence of energy and engagement at Eliot Chapel, with new groups forming, ongoing groups expanding, and various volunteer teams supporting the many facets of Eliot. To ensure these teams are equipped with all the tools they need to be as successful as possible, Reverend Krista, the Nominating Committee, and a few experienced leaders from the congregation have organized a series of workshops aimed to build and strengthen the lay leadership within the congregation. This work launches an investment in the current and future leadership of Eliot, leverages the wisdom, skill, and passions of members, and creates more ways for the people of Eliot Chapel to connect and develop meaningful relationships and roles.

These offerings will take place on the following Saturdays from 8:15 am – 12:30 pm:

February 15 - Team Formation and Leadership: Teams are groups of people, and all groups move through fairly predictable phases. Learn those phases, how you know where your team is in that process, and how the group evolves over time. Learn what the leader's role is and the skills needed for each phase of team development.

March 1 - Planning and Facilitation Tools for Leaders : Every team has projects and tasks. Learn a variety of skills and tools that will help you help your team be successful.

April 26 - Interpersonal Styles and Teaming: We all have an interpersonal style - some of it we see clearly, and some may be hidden from our view. How does a leader's interpersonal style interact with leading and/or facilitating their team?

A light breakfast and coffee will be provided. The workshops will wrap up with a potluck lunch during a discussion and discovery period. We invite everyone to bring a dish to share.

Please click the button to sign up for the session or sessions you wish to attend.

On Tyranny Book Study Group

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 21:26:07 GMT

On Tyranny Book Study Group

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 22

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 16:00:53 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, December 22

Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the 9:45 worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes for 4th grade and younger will begin at 10:00 following the opening portion of the service.

Youth in grades 7-12 should attend the service with their family this week. Youth activities will resume in January.

Kids in 5th & 6th grade should attend the service with their family OR may join the activities for younger children.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 15

Fri, 13 Dec 2024 19:27:57 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, December 15

Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the 9:45 worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes for 6th grade and younger will begin at 10:00 following the opening portion of the service.

Youth in grades 7-12 should attend the service with their family this week. Youth activities will resume in January.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Financial Tidbits from the Treasurer

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 17:13:00 GMT

A Mid Year Report

Eliot was blessed with an amazing surplus of $71,784 in our fiscal year ending June 30, 2024, highly unusual for a non-profit that usually wants to end the year with expenses equal to income. The Board thinks that some of that income was unique to the year where we cut expenses and received higher than typical contributions with the excitement of calling Rev. Taves as our settled minister. Some of you may be wondering what the Board plans to do with this extra cash. For starters, we are using approximately $20,000 to provide an Assistant Minister for this year, Rev. Dee Evans. We anticipate that her salary will be covered by the budget in future years. The carpet in Adams Hall was also replaced at an expense of $12,000. The remainder replenished our cash reserves, which had reached dangerously low levels in the past two years. Eliot spends an average of $2,174 per day based on our current budget. A general rule of thumb would be to maintain a cash balance of 90-120 days operating cash on hand to ensure that we can easily afford our payroll, keep our lights on, and provide coffee on Sunday morning. Our cash balance is now standing at 112 days of cash in reserves. This compares favorably to May 2022 when it had dipped as low as 44 days cash in reserves. This cash reserve will also be beneficial as we refinance our mortgage prior to its due date in April 2025. The extra cash demonstrates to a lender that we are a good credit risk and can manage our expenses. There are no immediate plans to spend this surplus and our members and friends will be the first to know if and how it is spent.

Our budget for the 2024-2025 church year was based on a successful pledge campaign. The intent is to operate each year within our current year income rather than to dip into reserves to meet current year expenses. The budget is also based on raising $20-25,000 during our Chalice Keepers drive as well as other fundraising such as Madrigal, Trivia Night, and other miscellaneous fundraising. The Chalice Keepers drive goal is less than prior years and we plan to reduce the amount of a year-end ask in future years. The Chalice Keepers generosity drive is an end of year request as you look with love on what Eliot has provided to you during the year. If you are at a place of abundance, we ask you to consider making a year-end gift to Eliot Chapel. If you are at a place in which your resources are scarce, please feel great about your place at Eliot and know that you are a valuable part of the Eliot community. The first 100 donors will be entered into a drawing for a $100 gift card to Balkan Treat Box, a Bosnian immigrant-owned restaurant in Webster Groves.

We have much to be proud of financially in the past year and we want to finish our current year on June 30, 2025 on solid ground.

Susan Bell, Treasurer

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 8

Wed, 04 Dec 2024 22:47:20 GMT

The Religious Education and Youth Program continues this Sunday, December 8

Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the 9:45 worship service with their family. Religious Education (RE) classes and youth gatherings will begin at 10:00 following the opening portion of the service.

The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

October 2024 Board Bits

Fri, 29 Nov 2024 18:04:56 GMT

October 2024 Board Bits

The Board covenant was approved. The covenant was “finalized” with the understanding that it is a living document which can be changed or discussed upon request.

The Board will be reviewing the Congregational Covenant via an ongoing element of the monthly Board meetings. At each meeting, the Board will read through and briefly discuss one element of the Congregational Covenant.

Rev. Krista gave a teach-in about the path for becoming a member of Eliot Chapel and how the board can support the process.

The first fall Board Linkage event – Pizza Moon – will be held on Friday, November 15, 2024 on the 222 property and under the full moon. The menu includes pizza and s’mores. Time: 5:00 to 7:00 pm.

The structuring of the minister’s evaluation process is moving forward under the leadership of Kathy Brunts and Bob Becker. Kathy and Bob will meet with Rev. Krista in the near future to discuss the proposed process.

Jennifer Stauber, Chair-Elect, is leading the Rolling Roadmap/Strategic Plan effort. Steve Mennerick has agreed to remain on the committee, and Ann Lemon will join the committee.

Greeters Gathering

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 20:22:23 GMT

Greeters Gathering

If you're interested in becoming a greeter or you're already active on the greeter team, mark your calendar for Sunday, January 5 at 12:45 pm. We'll get together in Room 001 to discuss how to sign up for a service, recent changes in procedure, and the upcoming schedule in the new year. Please come with any concerns and suggestions. We will also take this time to show our appreciation for all that the greeters do to create a welcoming presence during Eliot's services. There will be refreshments and we promise to keep the meeting to one hour. RSVP to greeter coordinators CJ Potts and Sue Lunnemann at greeterinfo@eliotchapel.org .

Volunteer Spotlight: Terry J.

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 20:06:12 GMT

December's Volunteer Spotlight: Terry Jones!

Terry has been at EUC for almost 10 years. She grew up in St. Louis, and moved to Georgia after college. “I belonged to the UU Fellowship of Athens, GA and was involved in the Social Justice program there. Beth Griffin got me involved in the Social Justice team at Eliot. I led the Environmental Justice team in Athens, and Eliot had no Environmental team, so I started one here.”

What does Terry gain from her volunteer work? “It's a great way to meet people and I've made lots of friends through volunteering at Eliot. Through the Social Justice program at Eliot I am able to make a difference in other people's lives, in the environment, and in politics. By working on the grounds at Eliot, I can get in my daily steps and strength training while also improving the environment

(otherwise known as removing non-native invasive plants and adding native plants that feed the birds and the bees.”

Why is it important for you to engage in volunteering at Eliot Chapel? “To me, volunteering for tasks at Eliot is as important as pledging money. At the previous congregations to which I belonged, those who could not afford to pledge monetarily could pledge volunteer hours, and everyone was expected to pledge at least some hours. Perhaps Eliot could add volunteer hours to the pledge cards in the future.”

December at Eliot Chapel

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 19:40:05 GMT

Your Presence Is a Gift! Join us for services throughout December!

Sunday, December 1 – 10:00 am only

“Esther's Choice? What Love Would Have Us Do” – Rev. Edith A. Love

Reverend Love will share from the story of Esther in the Hebrew scriptures, and tie that into how many among us might be wrestling with feelings of despair or fear in these recent times. Could there be wisdom from this story for us today? Join us on Sunday to find out.

Featured Musicians: Mel Priese, songleader; Tim Gardner, Megan Demsky, Melinda Monroe, vocals; Jenny Anderson, horn; Liz Sale, flute; David Nalesnik, piano.

About our guest speaker: Reverend Edith A. Love (she/her) is the pastor of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Tupelo, Mississippi. She lives in Memphis, Tennessee and offers pastoral care, grief support, and counseling to the wider LGBTQ+ community.

Sunday, December 8 – 9:45 am and 11:15 am

“Presence as a Gift” – Rev. Krista Taves

As we enter a season of generosity and abundance, remember, giving your time and attention may be the greatest gift of all.

Sunday, December 15 – 9:45 am and 11:15 am

“Presence as Resistance” – Rev. Krista Taves

There are many ways that we can resist the forces that would dehumanize us. Being present may be the most powerful resistance of all.

Friday, December 20 – 6:00 pm

“Family Pageant” – Rev. Krista Taves and Scott Stewart, Director of Religious Education

We are excited to share that the Christmas Pageant Service is coming on Friday evening, December 20 at 6:00 pm in the Sanctuary. We anticipate this service will run approximately 30 minutes. Following the service there will be a potluck dessert reception in Adams Hall.

The service is based on a no-rehearsal worship script used by other UU professionals and congregations. Children and youth wishing to wear a costume should arrive beginning at 5:30 and select their outfit in Adams Hall (costumes are definitely not required). There will be an opportunity for children and families to gather, in costume, on the chancel at the conclusion of the service for a photo opportunity.

Youth in 7th-12th grade are encouraged to participate with scripted speaking roles as well as a few select music roles. Please contact Scott for more information if you’re interested or would like more details about the roles.

No advance preparation is needed or required, though it’s helpful to have an idea of who plans to attend. Those planning to attend may RSVP here and are encouraged to bring a potluck dessert item to share (store-bought is fine).

Questions? Contact Scott Stewart by email at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday, December 22 – 9:45 am and 11:15 am

“Present to Winter” – Rev. Krista Taves

We will be celebrating the Winter Solstice and reflecting on claiming the light in shadowy times.

Tuesday, December 24 – 5:00, 6:30, and 8:00 pm

“Christmas Eve” – Rev. Krista Taves

A beautiful way to celebrate the season, we offer three services on Christmas Eve. The first two services will be more family-friendly while the final service will be more contemplative. All services end with candlelight and singing.

Sunday, December 29 – 10:00 am only

“ Holiday Brunch Potluck! ”

Let us come together with open hearts, open hands and a dish to share!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, December 1

Wed, 27 Nov 2024 17:24:15 GMT

There are no Religious Education classes or youth group activities on December 1.

Children aged four and older are encouraged to attend the service with their family at 10:00 am.

The nursery is open for childcare during the service for our youngest UUs who need freedom of movement.

Religious Education classes, Our Whole Lives (Kindergarten and 1st grade), and youth activities will resume on Sunday, December 8 . To learn more about this fall’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Bread Sunday Offering

Fri, 22 Nov 2024 17:24:05 GMT

Bread Service Collection

Once again this year, Eliot’s Bread Service collection will provide bread for the needy elderly in our partner village of Nyárádszentmárton, located in the Transylvanian area of Romania. This collection is a long tradition at Eliot Chapel and is of tremendous assistance to those who receive it. Our program provides a loaf of bread to every senior once a week for the entire year. Please give generously.

Online: Click here for our giving form . Make sure “Partner Church (Bread Sunday)” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Bread" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122 by the end of November.
By Text: Text "Eliot $( enter amount )" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Make sure “Partner Church (Bread Sunday)” is your chosen fund.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, November 24

Fri, 22 Nov 2024 16:36:45 GMT

There are no Religious Education classes or youth group activities on November 24.

Children aged four and older are encouraged to attend the Bread Service with their family at 9:45 or 11:15 am.

The nursery is open for childcare during each service for our youngest UUs who need freedom of movement.

The Eliot Chapel Madrigal

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 20:05:54 GMT

48th Annual Eliot Chapel Renaissance Madrigal and Christmas Rout

December 4, 5, and 6, 2025

A Warm Madrigal THANK YOU

Thank you to everyone who helped bring holiday spirit, laughter & beautiful music to 268 guests at the Forty-eighth Annual Eliot Chapel Madrigal!

To the Eliot Chapel Staff, especially Debby Lovell & Brian Franklin; and

To those who gave extra-generously of their time & talents: Lighting & Sound Master Ken Denson; Head Hostess Elitta DeArmond, Head Server Dick Gordon, Head Tablesetters Marsha & John Fleming; Webmaster Carolyn Burke; Playwright & Director Mark Rowley; Playwright & Player Jim Gottschalk; Not Ready-for-Reformation Players Julia Berger, Becky Coalson, Jeremy Patterson, Veronica Pikul, Kathryn Rouse, Katelyn Rowe & Todd Stark; Trumpeter Carl Serbell; the St. Louis Recorder Society including Liz Sale; the Greenleaf Singers; and

To the wonderful castle workers & volunteers, without whom there would not be a Madrigal: Jess, Wes, & Xander Patterson, Cindi Gille-Rowley, Jenny Anderson, Cheryl Barglof, Susan Bell, Sue Blandford, Mirjam Collegeman, Janis Cox, Corinne Esneault, Tim Gardner, Terry Jones, Melinda Monroe, Lynn Murphy, Ann Petlin, Pat Reed, Sarah Reutter, Annie Russell, Bill Selbert, Yvonne Serbell, Nancy Spargo & Claire Wyneken; and

To all who attended as guests, who invited guests, and anyone whose name has been inadvertently left off this list due to circumstances beyond my control!

Thank You All, Each & Every One!

Karen Gottschalk, for Madrigal 2025

For the Love of Democracy

Thu, 31 Oct 2024 18:27:15 GMT

For the Love of Democracy

We are less than a week away from the General Election. There is so much at stake. We are experiencing deliberate disinformation, stoking of chaos, and an increasing threat of violence regardless of the results of the election. Here in Missouri, we have Constitutional Amendment 3 on the ballot which would end Missouri’s abortion ban and put in place protections for women and all who can become pregnant.

It is important for us to come together to nourish ourselves and to anchor in our values and ask ourselves what we are called to be and to do. As a faith community, we have pledged to journey together in good times and in bad. None of us are alone. We have each other. In Unitarian Universalism the sacred/god/dess/spirit of life happens in our relationships. Whenever we gather our mere presence together creates holy ground.

This is just as true for those of you who have just discovered Unitarian Universalism and those of who have been UU for years. Our congregational covenant, that we read every Sunday, provides a pathway for who we want to be, together, on this holy ground. Our sacred covenant asks us to be mindful of each other, to listen to each other and hear each other, to be kinder to each other than we have to be.

Regardless of the election results, we all need places where we can renew our spirits, anchor afresh in our values, where we can be comforted and reassured that love remains the most powerful force there is. Love is always the answer even when we’re having a hard time offering it, receiving it, or feeling it. We will also be asking ourselves what next. What calls to us now. Where is our service needed? How shall we manifest the love that is at our center?

Rev. Dee and I have planned a special series, “For the Love of Democracy” – three worship services to hold us in our uncertainty, to comfort us, and send us forth to serve justice with love and compassion.

This Sunday, November 3, Rev. Dee will be leaning on Buddhism to help hold our fear and anxiety. She will draw on Unitarian Universalism to center us in love and care.

On Wednesday, November 6, I will be hosting an informal evening vigil at 6:30 pm where we can offer each other comfort for the results that have broken our hearts and gratitude for results that reflect our core values. If you have bells or drums, you are welcome to bring them.

On Sunday, November 10, we will shift from uncertainty to resilience. Given the results of this general election, what have we learned about our country and what have we learned about ourselves. How is our faith calling on us to respond now?

We are held together in an interdependent web that is so vast it is beyond our comprehension. Let us draw together, nourish and comfort each other, and turn towards what calls us now.

Yours in faith, hope and resilience,

Rev. Krista Taves

September 2024 Board Bits

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 21:05:24 GMT

September 2024 Board Bits

The Board is reviewing its expectations for the process/transparency observer, the Board member (designated on a rotating basis) who observes and evaluates the events of each Board meeting. David T. Cox is spearheading this review.
The Board has written a covenant to guide the interactions of its members. Rebecca Taylor suggested that the members bring forward one particular element of the Congregational Covenant: “We will be kinder to each other than we have to be.” The Board will discuss that suggestion at the October 15 meeting.
The Finance Committee of the Board will meet about every two months.
Good news! Eliot surpassed its pledge commitments for 23-24 by $11, 000.
The Board hopes to hold its first linkage event in November.

Linkage events exist to make sure that the Board has the opportunity to listen to congregants’ viewpoints. Linkage events also promote the joyous intermingling of various age groups. Bob Becker, Sue Bell, and Rebecca Taylor are the committee for the upcoming event.

Work on developing the minister evaluation process is going forward. Kathy Brunts and Bob Becker are the Board sub-committee for this work.
The Board will continue with restructuring its policy monitoring work.
The Board discussed the preliminary article in a sequence of New York Times pieces on the broad theme of the religious shift in America. The next article up for discussion will be “Christianity’s Got a Branding Problem.”

Installation Living Tradition Fund

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 18:37:27 GMT

The Living Tradition Fund

Our offering this Sunday will be dedicated to the Living Tradition Fund. The 1988 General Assembly established the Living Tradition Fund and requested that "Ordination and Installation Services held in member societies include an offering" to the fund. Over the years, that request has become a tradition among UUs.

The Living Tradition Fund provides three types of support for ministry:

need-based scholarships for theological students who are in Aspirant or Candidate Status in the UUA Credentialing Program;
new minister assistance to reduce the burden of high educational debt and repayment;
emergency assistance grants to ministers, religious professionals, other congregational staff, retired ministers and their loved ones.

The generosity of individuals, congregations and districts helps to strengthen and support our professional ministry by keeping this important resource available.

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Living Tradition" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122. Please put your check in the mail by November 1 so that we may forward gifts to the Living Tradition Fund.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Installation Celebration: Rev. Krista Taves

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 18:07:26 GMT

Love Is the Answer!

October 27, 2024 – 10:00 am

Eliot Unitarian Chapel

This coming Sunday is an important day in the life of our congregation. You voted to call me as your Lead Minister on March 3, 2024. You and I will be formalizing and celebrating the covenantal relationship between us on Sunday.

What is the deeper meaning of an Installation? Why is it so special?

In Unitarian Universalism, we do not see the Minister as someone who is higher than the people they serve. We don’t have a closer relationship with God or the spirit of life. We aren’t necessarily smarter than the people we serve. We aren’t even more righteous or better human beings than you are. What makes ministers special is that we have dedicated ourselves to Unitarian Universalism and dedicated our lives to serving this faith. Our calling is to inspire those we serve in living our core UU values and serving our world because we believe from the depths of our being that these core values, of which love is the center, are life-sustaining and life-saving in the largest sense of things. They are the path toward the world we imagine where everything and everyone is in right relationship and we can truly live into the fullness of who we are as individuals and as intertwined communities.

Those of us who choose parish ministry are specialists in congregational life. We have felt called to lead and support the members of our congregations in living the missions they have chosen. By mission, we mean the central purpose that a congregation has democratically decided is their reason for being.

At Eliot Chapel, the members democratically chose this as our mission: to love courageously, to grow spiritually, and to inspire compassionate action. My task as your spiritual leader is to guide, inspire, and strengthen you to live into this mission as individuals and as a community.

Our Installation Services are where we formally make promises to each other for how we will live into our mission-centered ministry. You will make promises to me, and I will make promises to you. In Unitarian Universalism, the theological explanation for this is “entering into covenant.” Covenants are sacred promises that we make to each other. Our faith is rooted not in any doctrine or dogma. It is rooted in our covenants. UU Minister Rev. Sue Phillips describes covenants as thriving “at the intersection of individual, community, and the Sacred.”

I am so excited about Sunday. I know many of you are as well. But remember, this isn’t my day. It’s our day. We are celebrating the beginning of our journey together.

If you have recently begun attending services or are considering visiting, I extend a special welcome. Everyone is welcome, not just those who are members of the congregation.

May the ministry we are entering together be filled with joy, hope, healing and always, love.

Yours in faith,

Rev. Krista Taves

Volunteer Spotlight: October

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 17:54:18 GMT

October's Volunteer Spotlight: Sara Fleming!

She exemplifies the UU Seven Principles in her life and actions. She sees no barriers or differences in her fellow congregants. She leads by example and moves forward with exuberance and joy. She shows all of us what true generosity and grit look like. She contacts people on a regular basis to see how it's going and asks what she can do to help. All of these characteristics positively impact Eliot Chapel. Sara comes up with lots of great ideas on how to solve problems, how technology can assist, and how to have a good time while helping out.

When asked why she enjoys volunteering at Eliot Chapel?

“I have been attending Eliot Chapel for about 20 years. It is important to me to volunteer at Eliot because I have gained so much from

Eliot over the years and Eliot does such great work in the community and beyond. I have grown in wonderful ways personally since first walking through those red doors because of the support and challenge and opportunities that Eliot has provided. If I can give back to our little community so that those opportunities can continue to be available for others, and so that the amazing people of our congregation can go out and do the important work that needs to be done, I am honored to do so. Plus, I just love hanging out with all of the eccentric, brilliant, compassionate people who attend services each week."

HOK2024

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 17:12:33 GMT

Hands on Kirkwood 2024

About 450 volunteers were mobilized by Hands on Kirkwood to provide over ten community service projects for our neighbors in the Kirkwood School District. One of the largest hauls of food was collected and stocked in the Kirk Care food pantry. Children and families helped, particularly with donation collecting and bag drop.

A big thank you to our ten Eliot volunteers who participated: Klara Weis, David Maguire, Megan Suiter, Yvonne Serbell, Donna Springer, Terry Jones, Barbara Harris, Claire Robertson, Liz Sale and Janet Solecki.

Please plan to join the fun next year on October 4, 2025!

August 2024 Board Bits

Fri, 04 Oct 2024 15:39:05 GMT

August 2024 Board Bits

Sue Bell reviewed the treasurer’s report – very good news: In the context of the 2023-2024 fiscal end-of-year financial report, Eliot has a $70,000 surplus.

The Rolling Roadmap (Strategic Plan) was unanimously approved and adopted. See complete details of the plan here. Jennifer Stauber, Board Chair-elect, will lead the Rolling Roadmap team.

The Board is implementing a new minister evaluation process. The Minister Evaluation Sub-Committee is being led by Kathy Brunts and Bob Becker.

For its annual intellectual study focus, the Board has chosen the topic of the ongoing religious shift in America. Each month the Board will read a New York Times article on the subject. At their September meeting, the Board will discuss the article “Lots of Americans are Losing Their Religion. Have you?”

Shared Plate Assisi House

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 17:27:53 GMT

Shared Plate: Assisi House

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Assisi House" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Ethical Eating

Wed, 25 Sep 2024 21:01:04 GMT

An Introduction to Ethical Eating for UUs

Monday, September 30 at 7:00 pm on Zoom and in person, in Adams Hall at Eliot Chapel

Join the Environmental Justice Team to learn about Ethical Eating, what it means for UUs, and how eating ethically has implications for our ecosystem, human hunger, social inequity, animal welfare and climate change.

We will be basing our discussion on the Congregational Resource Guide on Ethical Eating .

We began our discussion on September 9. You may want to watch the 2008 Ware Lecture on the UUA website.

For the zoom link, contact environmentjustice@eliotchapel.org .

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: September 22, 2024

Sat, 21 Sep 2024 23:16:12 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 22, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

RE and Youth Classes – 10:00 am

Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall, after first service

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall, after second service

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 12:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Madrigal Auditions - 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

SPARC Kickoff Picnic - 1:00 pm on the 222 Field

The People's Supper

Fri, 20 Sep 2024 15:45:23 GMT

Join the Movement to put LOVE AT THE CENTER and build community.

In what feels like an increasingly divisive world, we feel the pull toward practicing neighborliness — getting to know the people on our street, in our community, and in our organizations more deeply. So, we are supporting the launch of a People’s Supper campaign during the height of election season (between September 9 until mid-November) to help remind each other what community is really about: relationships and connection - not elections.

The People’s Supper uses shared meals to build trust and connection among people of different identities and perspectives. This work was born of a belief — to quote a popular adage — that “change moves at the speed of trust,” and that trust moves at the speed of relationships. Hosting a People's Supper is one way you can take action aligned with the enduring love that is at the center of Unitarian Universalism. If you choose to host, you will have access to training and support.

WHAT HAPPENS DURING A MEAL?

It starts with an invitation. Those of us who choose to host a dinner will reach out to people in their communities they don’t yet know well to invite them to a small dinner of 4-8 people in their home, at a local restaurant, or a neutral location like a faith community or community center.

Dinner is served. Dinner is simple. Maybe everyone chips in for a pizza, or you pick something simple to serve. Dinner (or brunch or lunch) is not the point - it is there as a mechanism for building relationships, so plan for a simple, easy meal.

Relationships are built. Hosts will have support and training. There is a toolkit with a script and introduction, ice-breaker questions, ground rules, and 3-4 discussion questions. The toolkit and training will also give hosts some tips for how to redirect conversation away from politics (if it comes up) and back to relationships and community.

After all the dinners, hosts will be invited to debrief the experience on November 24 in the early evening and we see if there are any natural next steps that arise from the process. Final details for this meeting are still in process.

HOW DO I SIGN UP OR LEARN MORE?

If you are interested in attending the training and hosting a dinner, please sign up to host here. The link will take you to a form that will collect some information about you, your location, and ask for the time and date of your dinner. We’ve found the best nights to host dinners are Thursday, Friday, Sunday or Monday, but choose a time that works for you. If you want to learn more and come to our training, let us know that too. If you and other Eliot Chapel hosts would like to host a group dinner in Adams Hall, just check the calendar and reserve the space.

Ready to host a dinner? Sign up through our partner organization, Metropolitan Community Church.

Questions? Please contact Claire Wyneken or Lisa Pavia-Higel at peoplessupper@eliotchapel.org .

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Transylvania, Here We Come!

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 19:21:28 GMT

Transylvania, Here We Come!

By the time you read this article, a group of Eliot members and friends will be on a flight bound for Cluj, Romania to visit our Unitarian Partner Church, Nayaradszentmarton in Transylvania. We will be welcomed by their ministers, Revs. Sandor and Zsuzsana Kiss, and many members of the village who are looking forward to our visit.

If you are new to Unitarian Universalism, our relationship with our Transylvanian siblings is a very strong one that has been tested by the winds of time. The Transylvanian Unitarians are the oldest Unitarian communities in the world, established in the late 1500s when King Sigismund of Transylvania declared an edict of tolerance for religious minorities. Our villages flourished and grew. But in 1948, Romania became part of the Soviet Eastern Bloc and we largely lost contact with them. This caused us and them much grief. We deeply missed each other.

When Romania became free in 1991, we quickly sought each other out to reestablish the connection. We learned that the Transylvania Unitarians struggled considerably during the Soviet era as a religious minority, and with the onset of democracy and the rise of Romanian nationalism, they also struggled as an ethnic minority. Transylvanian Unitarians are Hungarian. North American UU congregations began to partner with Transylvanian congregations to provide moral and financial support. We were partnered with Nayaradszentmarton. We are more than 30 years into this mutual relationship.

As internet connectivity allows, we’ll be posting pictures and anecdotes on the Eliot UUers Facebook page. I know that you’ll be with us in spirit and that we will hold you in our hearts as we share this precious time with our dear friends.

I will be back in the office Monday, October 7. Until then, be well and may blessings flow your way.

In faith and love,

Rev. Krista

EUC Staff Covenant

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 18:03:51 GMT

Eliot Unitarian Chapel Staff Covenant

As members of the core staff of Eliot Unitarian Chapel, we enter into this covenant to forge and maintain strong positive relationships among each other and with the congregation in support of its mission and vision. It is our goal to promote healthy behaviors and sustainable work practices in support of the congregation’s intent to create a caring community, inspire spiritual growth, and encourage lives of service, integrity, and joy. We ask for the congregation’s support in helping us to sustain this covenant.

We, the staff, make the following commitments to each other:

We agree to be respectful, forthright and direct in our communications with each other and Eliot Chapel, assuming good will and striving to be worthy of it.
We affirm the gifts each brings to the staff and will seek to support each other in fulfilling our varied responsibilities.
We promise to respect each other’s work schedules and the rhythms of our work life.
We will refrain from expressing criticism of each other outside of the staff unit. We will express our concerns and thoughts directly to each other.
We will respect the confidentiality of sensitive information shared between staff members and will share information learned in a staff context only with the permission of the individual who shared it. This includes email information.
We will express and maintain clear personal and professional boundaries, while respecting the boundaries of others. We will support each other in making space for our personal lives.
We will honor the covenant we have made with the larger Unitarian Universalist movement, especially as expressed through the guidelines of our various professional associations.
We covenant to share pertinent information regarding congregants within the staff team. Most information will be kept confidential within the staff team with exceptions for information that we discern must be taken to relevant parties.
If we have concerns with each other, we will address each other directly. If this does not resolve the issue, we will request the support of the Lead Minister, who supervises all staff.
In the event that we have reasonable concerns regarding suspected child abuse or abuse of a vulnerable adult, we will inform the Lead Minister. Appropriate steps will be taken in accordance with Missouri’s mandated reporter laws.
To maintain healthy relationships, we agree to hold to the following model in responding to complaints or concerns brought to us by a staff member or member of the congregation:
Ask the person to approach the staff member directly;
Offer to go with the person to speak to the staff member;
Or, the matter will be dropped.
We will endeavor to be constructive in our dealings with each other. We will look for opportunities to build a sense of teamwork and take time for having fun.

Adopted by the Staff, September 2024

Rev. Dee Evans (Assistant Minister), Brian Franklin (Business Manager), Debby Lovell (Administrative Assistant/Communications), Scott Stewart (Director of Religious Education), Rev. Krista Taves (Lead Minister)

“The Year to Save the Earth” – A Multimedia Experience by Jim Scott

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 09:10:42 GMT

“The Year to Save the Earth” – A Multimedia Experience by Jim Scott

Eliot Chapel's Living Legends series presents “The Year to Save the Earth” – A Multimedia Experience by Jim Scott. The concert will take place at Eliot Chapel on Saturday, October 12 from 3PM-4:30PM. Tickets are $20 adults / $5 students. Please note, tickets were available in advance until Thursday, October 10. Tickets will also be available the day of the concert at the door (cash, check, and credit card accepted). Proceeds benefit Eliot Chapel.

Mixing powerful songs and beautiful projected images, “The Year to Save the Earth” takes us from grieving to celebration and from protest to positive vision for the planet. Jim’s lyrical melodies and outspoken poetry celebrate what’s beautiful, amazing, and fragile. As well as some hard reality, the program’s message is one of optimism with many invitations to join in the singing. Facing the urgency of the environmental crisis, the songs challenge us to feel, to learn and to act.

Prolific composer guitarist Jim Scott was awarded an NEA grant to present this multimedia concert in Worcester MA with band and chorus. Jim brings warmth and humor with his jazz and world music influenced songs. He’s visited over 700 UU Churches in 4 decades of travels and his songs are in our hymnbooks (Gather the Spirit). Formerly a member of the Paul Winter Consort, Jim was composer of their celebrated Missa Gaia/Earth Mass and sang their anthem song Common Ground. He has toured the world, recorded nine CDs of original music, published a growing line of choral works, and created the Earth and Spirit Songbook, an anthology of over 100 songs of Earth by many contemporary composers.

Download a flyer here!

Sunday at a Glance: September 15, 2024

Wed, 11 Sep 2024 00:01:47 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 15, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

RE and Youth Classes – 10:00 am

Geek Squad Directory Fair - 10:15 am in the Garden Room and Library
Coff ee Hou r – 10:45 am in Adams Hall, after service

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall, after service

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Playground Guidelines

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 15:21:59 GMT

Playground Guidelines

On nice days, the Eliot Chapel Playground is open following the 9:45 service for children’s and family fellowship. The playground is funded and maintained by the Eliot Chapel Nursery School (ECNS) and designed primarily for children aged six (6) and younger . The playground space functions as an outdoor classroom for ECNS and is used extensively during the week for their educational activities.

Families wishing to use the playground are asked to review the updated Playground Guidelines , which are developed jointly by the RE and ECNS directors. Children/youth on the playground must be accompanied by a parent, caregiver, or designated adult at all times and may not play unsupervised .

Youth are asked to stay off the playground equipment since it’s designed for young children. This reduces the risk of injury to young children as well as potential damage.

Thank you to everyone for helping keep the playground safe and enjoyable for Eliot Chapel and ECNS children alike and in good condition for ECNS activities during the week.

Mr. Scott (Eliot Chapel RE)

Ms. Becky (ECNS)

Letter from Rev. Dee

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 15:12:19 GMT

Letter from Rev. Dee, September 2024

Dear Beloveds,

My first communication with you as your new part time Assistant Minister is one of contrasts. I am blessed to begin my first week at Eliot Unitarian Chapel. I will be working with the Welcome Team and the Pastoral Care Team.

Yet, one of our staff suffered an almost indescribable tragedy this past week. Although some of you may know this, others may not. Debby Lovell, our beloved Administrative/Communications Assistant, lost her husband in a tragic accident as he was hit by a car while riding his bicycle. We need to keep Debby and her daughter in our thoughts. We need to give her time and space to grieve.

We are also grieving with her and for her. Sometimes we just need to talk when tragedies seem to make no sense. Sometimes we just need to talk when life seems so unfair. Sometimes we just need to talk about things even when at the present moment there may be nothing we can do. As you know your Pastoral Care Team is available. As part of the Ministerial Staff and the Pastoral Care Team, I am also available. You can contact me at pastoralcare@eliotchapel.org , and provide the phone number you want to be called at, and you will be called.

We are in a community that cares. When we are called upon, we can extend that care to Debby and her family. And we can also take care of one another in this time of sorrow.

In Community,

Rev. Dee Evans, Assistant Minister

Sunday at a Glance: September 8, 2024

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 14:34:44 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: September 8, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 9:45 am in the Sanctuary

RE and Youth Classes – 10:00 am

IJT Fundraising Q&A - 10:00 am in the Library
Coffee Hour – 10:45 am in Adams Hall, after service

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Service – 11:15 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 12:15 pm in Adams Hall, after service

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Shared Plate for September 2024

Fri, 30 Aug 2024 00:27:59 GMT

Shared Plate: Ready Readers

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Readers" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Envision the Future

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 19:53:30 GMT

Eliot Chapel: The Strategic Plan

Considering a new sign for the front of the chapel, studying options for using the church-owned property at 222 Argonne Street, and promoting Adult Religious Education opportunities are among some of the goals included in a strategic plan presented to the congregation via zoom on August 14. See the entire plan here .

About 25 people attended the zoom meeting, which was hosted by members of the strategic plan committee including Rev. Krista Taves, Board President Carole Glauser and former board members Kalen Ponche-Ciszewski and Steve Mennerick.

The Board of Trustees is expected to discuss and finalize the three-year rolling strategic plan during its annual retreat scheduled for the weekend of August 16-18.

The strategic planning process started in December 2023 with a retreat led by Rev. David Pyle, Midwest Regional Lead for the Unitarian Universalist Association, who showed how the board could create a rolling, three-year strategic plan. This method of planning allows the board to tackle big areas such as improving communication through a series of specific achievable goals with benchmarks to be achieved over three years. Each year the strategic planning committee will review the plan to make changes and add new goals.

This new strategic plan is based on themes and priorities identified by the congregation in meetings with interim Rev. Doug Watkins in 2022-2023, as well as the search committee in 2023-24 church year. These priorities helped the team to decide which areas on which we should focus, Rev. Krista said.

Priority one is EXPLORING OUR FAITH:

There’s a clear desire to deepen our sense of community, our sense of faith, said Rev. Krista, along with a need to clarify ways that people can get involved at church. The first goal is to expand our adult enrichment offerings and improve communication on how people can get involved. Work is already underway on this goal. (See the new website page highlighting Adult Enrichment opportunities).

“In the interest of celebrating successes, that adult enrichment webpage is tremendous,” said Steve Mennerick. “Congrats to everyone who has been moving this plan forward while we are still building the plan.”

Priority two is PROMOTING FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP AND SUSTAINABILITY:

One of the ways the Board hopes to be good stewards of the church is to do an assessment of all of our property including the chapel, the property at 222 Argonne, which is currently a large grassy field, and Bergfried, a wooded property the church owns near Hermann, Mo.

“People want to know what we are going to do with 222 Argonne which we have had for eight years,” said Rev. Krista. “We have used it to open up our worship services… We need to spend time discerning what we can do with it.”

During the 2024-25 church year Brian Franklin, Business Manager, will bring together a team to help gather information about three options for this property: conducting a sale of the property, using the property as it is, or planning a capital campaign for development of the property. In the 2025-26 church year, year two of the plan, we would study all of the possibilities and make a decision. Year three, in 2026-27, we would put that plan into action.

Another goal in this category includes making improvements to the aesthetics of Eliot Chapel, including putting in a new sign for the front of the chapel. Business Manager Brian Franklin is primarily responsible for this goal and will work with volunteers to bring recommendations to Rev. Krista for a final decision, she said.

Under the direction of Brian Franklin, another team will consider the Bergfried property in terms of harmonizing the missions of Eliot Chapel and Bergfried, as well as exploring the revenue potential for the property.

Priority three is PROMOTING A SENSE OF COMMUNITY:

Goals for this area include making Adams Hall more welcoming by assessing how we use the space, making building improvements like putting in new carpet in Adams Hall (coming soon in Fall of 2024!), holding three intergenerational events this year and creating a team to build community online.

Priority four is FOSTER A CULTURE OF COMPASSIONATE COMMUNITY:

Goals in this category are centered on strengthening and broadening covenant groups and our pastoral care program.

Priority five is PROMOTING POSITIVE STAFF/MINISTER/CONGREGANT INTERACTIONS, RELATIONS, AND RESPONSIBILITIES:

In the first year, we will create a Human Relations committee of the Board of Trustees to make sure we are complying with various labor laws and ensuring fair compensation. In addition, we will implement a new method of evaluating the lead minister.

Some Questions and Answers

How will the committee report out on the progress of this plan?

The Board is responsible for monitoring the progress of the plan and will hear regular reports from Rev. Krista and Administrator Brian Franklin. In addition, there will be an annual end of year offering where we can share with you what we have accomplished and what remains to be done, Rev. Krista said.

Congregants are welcome to attend Board meetings in person on the third Wednesday of each month or can look for the minutes of the board meetings posted on the board webpage .

How can congregants get involved in these efforts? Who will make the final decisions about these changes?

The person in charge of each goal will assemble a team needed to help reach the goal. Brian Franklin is in charge of several of the goals and will report to Rev. Krista the recommendations that come out of those meetings. Rev. Krista will ultimately be the one to approve all of the decisions. The teams will have an opportunity to voice their thoughts during the process.

Rev. Krista is then accountable to the Board of Trustees for all decisions that are made.

How will people find out about these goals if they didn’t attend the meeting? Everyone should know we are addressing the 222 property, Bergfried and changing the sign out front. Can we give it a sexier name than Strategic Planning Committee? (The board decided at their recent retreat that the 3-year Rolling Strategic Plan will be nicknamed “Eliot’s Rolling Roadmap”.)

Under the direction of Communications Specialist Debby Lovell, with support from Mary Meihaus and Dotty Storer, we are building a communications team to help make sure everyone knows about plans.

Who will be in charge of this plan moving forward?

Current committee members Kalen Ponche and Steve Mennerick will roll off of the committee and the Board Chair-Elect Jennifer Stauber will create a new committee for the upcoming church year comprised of current board members and congregants.

July Board Bits

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 19:30:59 GMT

July 2024 Board Briefing

Eliot’s Board of Trustees held their first meeting of the new church year on Wednesday evening, July 17. (Board meetings for the 24-25 year will be held on the third Wednesday of the month at 6:30 pm in Adams Hall and are open to any visitors who wish to attend. Please notify chair@eliotchapel.org if you plan to visit a meeting.)

The board approved 1 new member for the month of June. Welcome, Cheryl Lockos! We had a total of 26 new members for the 2023-24 year!

Jennifer Stauber was selected and approved to be the 2024-25 Chair Elect, becoming Chair for the 25-26 church year.

Rebecca Taylor was selected and approved to be the 24-25 Secretary of the Board of Trustees.

Bob Becker was selected and approved to fill the role as the 2024-25 Ombudsperson.

We have exciting expectations for a strong financial finish to the year with a projected surplus! We anticipate to have final financial numbers for the 2023-24 year next month.

Last year board members, staff, and a few other lay leaders attended a three-year rolling strategic plan workshop led by David Pyle, the UUA Regional Lead for our MidAmerica Region (see photo, left). Afterwards, the board approved adopting the three-year rolling plan model for a strategic plan and formed a subcommittee consisting of Rev. Krista, Carole Glauser, Kalen Ponche, and Steve Mennerick. This subcommittee is ready to share the draft of this new strategic plan model that the board will begin implementing this next year. A Zoom meeting to introduce this plan to the congregation will be forthcoming. Keep an eye out for the email announcement containing details and a date for the meeting.

Our newly adopted Ministerial Evaluation Process that will be implemented this year is being led by Bob Becker and Kathy Brunts.

Last year, some updates to simplify and strengthen the way the board conducts monitoring of their policies was approved. Board member Steve Swift spent a chunk of time this past year reviewing the process and making recommendations. Now it’s time to begin the implementation of this new policy monitoring initiative. The board approved David T. Cox to lead this initiative.

Every year, the board engages in leadership education pursuits throughout the year. This year they will be reading and discussing a collection of articles (compiled by Chair Carole Glauser), which includes a 5-part series from the New York Times published last year, on the topics of the state of religion in the U.S., what is happening with the largest and fastest religious shift in America, and the “great dechurching” of America.

The board will hold its annual summer retreat on August 16-17 at Toddhall Retreat Center.

Kathy Brunts and Rebecca Taylor were selected to help with Rev. Krista’s installation worship service.

We look forward to seeing everyone at the official launch of the new church year, known as our Ingathering Sunday, on September 8!

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org .

Eliot at Greentree

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 18:11:43 GMT

Eliot Chapel at Kirkwood's Greentree Festival 2024

We are delighted to announce that Eliot Chapel is participating in Kirkwood’s 63rd year of the Greentree Festival this September! We will have a booth to promote Eliot’s vision and mission, activities and offerings, and liberal faith community. We need volunteers to sign up to help on the planning team, with set up and take down, and to work shifts manning the booth throughout the three-day festival. We want people to know we UUs do church a bit differently – in a good way – and they should come find out how!

The festival will be held from Friday, September 13 to Sunday, September 15 and attracts more than 50,000 visitors. It is a family-friendly festival featuring a parade, food vendors, live entertainment, arts & crafts booths, contests, and so much more.

Help us promote our Eliot community to the larger Kirkwood community and beyond! Sign up to help out here:

Shifts are available during these times:

Fri, Sep 13: 5 pm to 10 pm
Sat, Sep 14: 9 am to 7 pm
Sun, Sep 15: 10 am to 5 pm

If you have questions or are interested in helping to coordinate this event, please email volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org.

Sunday at a Glance: August 25, 2024

Thu, 22 Aug 2024 23:03:04 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 25, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Youth Group Kickoff (grades 7-12) – 10:00 am off-site
Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: August 18, 2024

Fri, 16 Aug 2024 01:51:51 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 18, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Strategic Planning Zoom

Fri, 09 Aug 2024 01:18:21 GMT

Strategic Planning Committee Unveiling of New Three-Year Rolling Plan

Wednesday, August 14 at 7:00 pm on Zoom

The Strategic Planning Committee (a subcommittee of the Board of Trustees) invites all Eliot members to attend a Zoom meeting to see an overview and discuss our newly adopted three-year rolling plan unveiling. Mark your calendar for Wednesday, August 14 at 7:00 pm, and join us for a short presentation and Q & A session. We welcome your comments and feedback! If you are unable to attend, please direct any feedback to chair@eliotchapel.org .

Background and Overview

The Eliot Board of Trustees has important fiduciary, congregational assessment, and goal setting responsibilities. The lead minister has the responsibility to operationalize the board’s vision and discernment. One way that the Board and lead minister can collaborate transparently on these responsibilities is through the development of a strategic plan.

Rev. David Pyle from the UUA worked with the Eliot Board in recent years to teach the Board one style of strategic planning that we have recently adopted and now share with the congregation. This style is a rolling three-year plan. It has several features that serve church life well.

Rev. Pyle emphasized starting small. He recommended three to four goals in certain areas of church life that seem important. This does not mean that other areas of church life aren’t important. Rather, making the difficult choice to emphasize a few areas early allows Eliot to get started on a formal process without becoming overwhelmed and frustrated with upkeep and oversight.

To help Eliot get started, the Board assembled a small committee composed of the Board’s Chair-elect (Carole Glauser), another Trustee (Kalen Ponche), Rev. Krista, and a Nominating Committee member (Steve Mennerick). This team was armed with the Board’s discernment of stated goals (Ends; listed at the top of the strategic planning draft), Rev. Doug Wadkins’ interim ministry data obtained through congregational interviews, and the Search Committee’s data obtained through surveys, focus groups, and other sources. From these inputs, the strategic planning committee decided on the goals that you see in the strategic planning draft.

Each section of the rolling three-year plan starts with an overarching area as a heading. There are five of these in our draft. The big goal is then broken into constituent pieces. Year one goals are listed on the left, along with responsible parties (staff, board, congregants, etc.) and the tasks to be completed. Year two goals are listed in the middle column. Year three tasks are listed on the right. Importantly, the plan is meant to balance accountability and flexibility. Year one goals should be quite detailed and achievable, representing ~90% of what needs to be done in that year. Year two goals are meant to be less complete, perhaps 70%-80% of what needs to be completed. Year three is meant to be more imprecise, perhaps ~50% complete. This graded completeness and precision allows any uncompleted work from one year to be shifted to the next at the end of the year. As year one completes, year two operational goals are more fully outlined, and year two becomes year one. As the planning team gets more comfortable with the process (and celebrates some early success!), additional emphasis areas are added to the plan.

The strategic plan is thus meant to be a living document that is collaboratively developed. The implementation is continuously evolving. The Board remains primarily responsible for setting the high-level goals, while the lead minister remains primarily responsible for operationalization through delegation to staff and congregants. Since spring when the draft started development, it has already proven useful for identifying priorities. Several of the goals have already been completed, despite the plan being in draft form!

The Strategic Planning Committee hopes that the four areas we chose to get started will resonate with you, remembering that they do not comprehensively represent congregational activity. Certainly a major theme from congregational surveys and focus groups is ‘community.’ This theme runs throughout the emphasis areas, and we hope the process of strategic planning itself, which we now share with the congregation, fosters a deeper sense of community at Eliot.

See Sunday's "Eliot on Zoom" email or check your inbox for a message with information to link to the Zoom meeting.

Sunday at a Glance: August 11, 2024

Fri, 09 Aug 2024 00:44:41 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 11, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Garden Room

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Pastoral Care Associates – 11:15 am in Room 001
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Parents as Spiritual Guides

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 02:42:52 GMT

Parents as Spiritual Guides

Imagine that your child is asking THE BIG QUESTIONS, like: "What's God like?"; "Am I going to heaven?"; "What does it mean to sin?”; or the big one, "What happens after we die?" This class invites you to :

- explore your own spiritual journey

- keep a journal of your own insights, affirmations and questions

- explore ways to provide spiritual experiences for children

- appreciate the important role of parents/guardians in children's spiritual development

- gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your own or others' children

- companion one another on the pilgrimage.

There will be a small amount of homework for each class. Attending all sessions is strongly encouraged. The class can be attended in person or online. Classes start Monday, January 6 from 7:00 to 8:30 pm, and continue on January 13 and 27 and February 3, 10, and 24.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

The Eliot Chapel Choir

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 02:15:41 GMT

The Eliot Chapel Choir

The Eliot Chapel Choir is a fun group of people who love singing. Our Choir Director, Nadia Maddex, brings warmth, enthusiasm, and years of singing experience to her direction of the choir. The Choir is also a social group that enjoys being together. We sing a diversity of musical selections.

The Choir rehearses three Wednesday evenings a month from 7 - 8:30 pm. The choir sings in the worship service two Sundays per month. There may be additional rehearsals for the Christmas Eve services. We expect members to make attendance at rehearsals a priority and to sing at both services (9:45 am and 11:15 am). Music along with a recording is sent out before rehearsal and members are encouraged to review the scores and listen to the recordings so that we can make the most out of our time together.

To join the choir, please email music2@eliotchapel.org and Nadia Maddex will connect with you.

CONTACT: music2@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Three Wednesday evenings a month from 7 - 8:30 pm

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

RUUMS

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 01:58:51 GMT

RUUMS (Retired UU Men Socializing )

Retired UU Men Socializing (RUUMS) is an opportunity for men of Eliot to get together to talk about whatever is on their minds—politics, church business, the weather, you name it. It is loosely organized in the spirit of Men’s Advance. If you are still a long way from retirement don't let that stop you; retirement in this context is a state of mind, so you will be welcome.

BYO coffee and snack. We look forward to seeing you there.

CONTACT: RUUMS@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Second Tuesday of each month from 9:30 – 11:00 in Room 001

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Women's Alliance

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 01:37:54 GMT

Women’s Alliance

Women’s Alliance provides Eliot Unitarian Chapel members and friends with the opportunity for friendship, intellectual stimulation, personal growth, and civic involvement. It seeks through a variety of programs to be of service to its members, friends and the community.

Women’s Alliance meets in Adams Hall on the first and third Tuesdays of the month, beginning with a social hour at 9:45 am and ending around 11:45 am. Following brief business meetings, the first Tuesday is devoted to the discussion of a book selected and led by members, and the third Tuesday is devoted to speakers or activities that meet the interests of members.

Additional activities include special outings scheduled for the fourth Tuesdays (of five or more months of the program year) and two annual potluck luncheons – a December holiday luncheon and a May spring luncheon. Eliot staff are guests at these luncheons.

Women’s Alliance is open to women who are interested in its programs and objectives. Annual membership dues are $40.00. Contact us at womensalliance@eliotchapel.org .

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: August 4, 2024

Fri, 02 Aug 2024 00:55:12 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: August 4, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Garden Room

Covenant Group Development Team – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:15 am in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Lunch with the Minister

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 20:21:21 GMT

Lunch with the Minister

Bring a lunch and spend an hour with Rev. Krista in Adams Hall on the second Wednesday of the month. Join us on March 12! Children are welcome to join! See you at noon! (12:00 – 1:00 pm)

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Witnessing Whiteness

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 18:47:27 GMT

Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group

Join Erin Pohl for the " Witnessing Whiteness Book Study Group" at Eliot Chapel, a transformative journey to explore racial awareness and antiracist action. This hybrid series meets every other Thursday evening from September 25 to December 18, blending online discussions with in-person sessions, and follows Shelly Tochluk's curriculum to foster deep community dialogue and personal growth. Meetings will be from 7:00 to 9:00 pm (the first meeting will be 6:30 – 9:00). The first and last meetings will be held in-person at Eliot while the other sessions will be on Zoom.

The book, Witnessing Whiteness , is best read as part of a group process because…

We learn more by talking about new ideas in community
Friends and colleagues can help us process challenging ideas and feelings

Engaging with the workshop/dialogue series helps people….

notice and interrupt internal, interpersonal, institutional and cultural racism
improve cross-race relationships and collaboration to support racial justice.

What does the workshop/dialogue series involve?

Integrated, comprehensive, guided experience. A 14-part, sequential process aligns with the reading of the Third Edition of Witnessing Whiteness: The Journey into Racial Awareness and Antiracist Action. (**This group will be in 7 parts, condensing the curriculum a bit to cover 2 chapters every other week, as opposed to covering one chapter per week)
Dialogue-based, experiential approach. Agendas allow groups of up to 15 people to explore how issues discussed in Witnessing Whiteness relate to personal lives and communities in 2-hour sessions.
Grassroots philosophy. Assumption that people can learn by doing, and groups need to organize themselves to develop skills and capacities that bring needed change to their communities, organizations, and institutions.
Accessible and sustainable. Dialogue session agendas with facilitator’s notes offer detailed instructions so groups can avoid hiring an expensive consultant.
Supportive intention. Guidelines support the creation of a welcoming, inviting space where people feel free to speak the truth of their experience without fear of shame or reprisal.

Materials needed to participate:

Witnessing Whiteness: The Journey Into Racial Awareness and Antiracist Action
Buy local: https://www.left-bank.com/book/9781475863123?ref=shellytochluk.com

Materials provided:

Virtual worksheets and workbook

Disclaimer: This workshop/book was crafted with the intention to provide community building opportunities for white affinity groups. This series, associated with the Third Edition, includes language and prompts that address white people directly. Although the materials are available for anyone to use, the agendas and handouts would require adjustment for use

in multi-racial contexts.

CONTACT: ae-euc@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Every other Thursday evening from September 25 to December 18 from 7:00 – 9:00 (first session is 6:30 – 9:00)

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Welcome Neighbor Dinner

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 18:09:31 GMT

Welcome Neighbor STL Supper Club at Eliot Chapel

Eliot Chapel invites you to Adams Hall for a Welcome Neighbor STL Supper Club – enjoy the food, make friends with neighbors old and new, and learn about the journeys of the chefs. 90% of the proceeds go directly to the chefs.

Sign up fast, these dinners typically sell out quickly! See the full menu and reserve your place at the table or a takeout meal by clicking the button below.

CONTACT: immigration@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: October 11, 2025

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Transitions Support Group

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 16:32:24 GMT

Transitions Support Group

The Transitions Support Group is for anyone who is experiencing a significant life transition, such as death of a loved one, transitioning relationships, children leaving home, having children, getting married, transitioning gender, changes in career/employment to name a few. This is a place to share your story and give and receive support for the journey we are on. The meetings are facilitated by Carl Serbell and Lou Salvin. Meetings are on the first and third Thursdays of the month, 7:00 to 8:30 pm in the Du Bois Library.

CONTACT: transitions@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: First and third Thursdays of each month from 7:00 – 8:30 pm in Room 006

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Caregivers Covenant Group

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 16:24:45 GMT

Caregivers Covenant Group

The Parents Covenant Group is reforming as a Caregivers Covenant Group! Eliot members who identify as caregivers are invited to join us every first Tuesday at 7:30 pm in the Susan Frederick Gray Room. We will use the monthly Soul Matters themes as a framework for our sessions. Contact covenantgroups@eliotchapel.org to learn more about joining.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Money as Spiritual Practice

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 22:01:33 GMT

Money as Spiritual Practice

An American-born Buddhist monk became famous giving many lectures and leading meditation retreats. He had a big following and, therefore, had a good income. Except for meeting his basic needs, he gave all his money away. Then he became very ill. With no way to support himself, he depended on the generosity of others during his prolonged illness. He felt deep guilt about this. This true story leads us to look at money in a new way.

This course is not about budgeting. It is about learning to decide what is on the altar of your heart. And, no, you won’t have to reveal what is on your altar. Knowing what is in our heart, we can approach the use of money as a spiritual practice. If we think of spiritual practice as a way of making meaning in the messiness of life, our use of money becomes a way of making meaning. It becomes an expression of what is on your altar. It becomes an expression of our UU value of generosity.

Remember the monk? Whether you are starting your career or retired from the working world, using money as a spiritual practice gives us the balance between caring for ourselves and caring for the needs of the world.

Rev. Dee Evans will offer this class on Zoom for any UU congregant who wants to join the discernment and discussion. Class will meet Thursday evenings from 6:30 to 7:45 pm, beginning January 16, 2025. Topics for the four sessions include:

Session I: What is spirituality, spiritual practice, and how do they relate to values?

Session II: What develops our attitudes and our actions regarding money?

Session III: How do we develop a spiritual practice and our use of money?

Session IV: What has changed in our thinking about money and course feedback?

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

A Course in Miracles

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 21:21:55 GMT

A Course in Miracles

A Course in Miracles presents a comprehensive spiritual teaching aimed at transforming our perceptions and helping us to awaken to the truth of who we are. It offers a unique perspective on forgiveness, perception, and the power of LOVE. It invites individuals to embark on self discovery and inner healing. ACIM provides a profound framework for those seeking spiritual wholeness, unconditional love and Universal Oneness.

This group meets every Monday evening at 7:00 pm on Zoom. Please email miracles@eliotchapel.org for more details.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Social Justice for the Rest of Us

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 21:15:34 GMT

Social Justice for the Rest of Us:

When You Want to Change the World, But Aren't a Protester

Based in part (and going beyond) the book Social Justice for the Sensitive Soul: How to Change the World in Quiet Ways by Dorcas Cheng-Tozun, this three-part class will examine a wide variety of ways to engage in social justice work that integrates your specific physical, mental, and emotional capacity; your personality; and your skills. The first two sessions will discuss what social justice can look like beyond protests and direct advocacy, and the final session will include recommendations for ways to volunteer in the local community based on your specific traits. This series is offered by Rev. Dr. Claudia Hall on Zoom.

Please check back for information about how and when to sign up.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

The Bible for Liberal Religious People

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 21:11:44 GMT

The Bible for Liberal Religious People

For too long UUs and others have ignored or downplayed the Bible, leaving it for the extreme right to use and abuse. With the rise of Christian Nationalism, this has become dangerous ignorance for us. Whether or not you use the Bible as sacred for your spiritual path, knowing what it really says, and how it has changed and evolved over time, can give you tools to combat rising Christian extremism.

This is 12-part series is offered by Rev. Dr. Claudia Hall on Zoom. Each of the topics is a mini-module so if you can't make them all, you can pick the topics you prefer and just attend those sessions.

In this class, students will learn the following:

The history and development of the Bible Canon itself, including the variety of texts that comprise what is considered Scripture by various Jewish and Christian sects, and the texts that were left out
The various ways these texts have been interpreted by Jewish and Christian leaders over the centuries, within various historical contexts.
The rise of Historical-Critical method and how that changed the way the Bible was interpreted and understood.
The impact of various sciences on biblical interpretation and the ongoing adaptations for progressive Judaism and Christianity based on these impacts.
How to exegete and interpret Biblical texts in context, with specific attention given to the ‘hot topics’ of women in ministry, LGBTQIA equality, and salvation.
How to use the Bible (with its flaws and problems) as part of our spiritual heritage as progressive religious people.

Please check back for information about how and when to sign up.

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Spiritual Book Club

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 21:01:51 GMT

Spiritual Book Club

Spiritual Book Club is a twice-monthly gathering of people who are interested in reading and sharing insights from books that offer a deep understanding of psychological and spiritual concepts.

The members of the Spiritual Book Club enjoy applying the ideas of the books they read to their personal lives. Some of the books enjoyed are: The Inner Work of Aging by Connie Zweig, A Year to Live by Steven Levine, and The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown.

This group is currently at capacity. If you are interested in starting another chapter, please contact the Adult Enrichment team and we’ll assist you in getting started.

CONTACT: ae-euc@eliotchapel.org

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

UU Crash Course

Sat, 27 Jul 2024 17:29:47 GMT

A UU Crash Course Series

Just enough information to make you dangerous!

This series offered by Rev. Krista Taves on Zoom only is open to all St. Louis area UUs! Take one class, two, three, or take them all!

Sessions on Mondays from 6:30 to 8:00 pm:

October 21: A Crash Course on American Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist History, 1800 – 1961

November 4: A Crash Course in Unitarian Universalist Theology

November 18: A Crash Course on Unitarian Universalism since 1945

December 2: A Crash Course on Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist Statements of Identity and Principles through the years

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Adult OWL

Fri, 26 Jul 2024 04:11:53 GMT

Our Whole Lives (OWL): Sexuality Education for Adults

OWL for Adults uses values, communication skills, and spirituality as starting points to explore sexuality issues for adults of all ages. The program sessions build understanding of healthy sexual relationships, affirm diversity, and help participants accept and affirm their own sexuality throughout their lives.

This program is comprehensive and progressive, addressing sexuality with candor, sensitivity, and respect for adults’ wisdom and life experience. Members of all UU congregations in the St. Louis region are welcome to register.

MEETS: The second Saturday of each month at 10:30 am from September 13 through May

LEADERS: Trina Marlowe, David T. Cox, and Bonnie Kwentus

CONTACT: eliot-adultowl@eliotchapel.org

Unitarian Universalism • Spiritual Growth • Stages of Life • Social Justice • Community Building

Sunday at a Glance: July 28, 2024

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 19:49:27 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 28, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: July 21, 2024

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 17:42:25 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 21, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Pastoral Care Associates – 11:15 am in the DuBois Library
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

June Board Bits

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 16:26:11 GMT

June 2024 Board Briefing

The Board of Trustees held their June meeting in Adams Hall on June 18 and bid farewell to current president Sara Fleming, along with board members Kalen Ponche, Steve Swift, and Chuck Schuder. These four board members served three years on the board from 2021-2022 church year until this year.

As of April 30, the church has welcomed 26 new members to our midst. Rev. Krista and the staff are making plans for the coming new year. Eliot will offer three Starting Point courses for new visitors and members. In addition, the Adult RE team is planning a variety of classes, covenant groups, affinity and interest groups that will go on a new web page for all Adult Enrichment opportunities. Some of the classes will include the UU Crash Course series, Build Your Own Theology, and So You Think You Can Preach.

This summer, Rev. Krista will be gone on vacation June 24-July 14 and July 29-Aug. 4. The church will be staffed during these times and emergency pastoral care will be provided by Rev. Dee Evans.

Financially, income has exceeded the expectations and Sue Bell expects the year to end on a surplus rather than the anticipated deficit.

The board also discussed everything the board has accomplished in the last three years and looked to the future.

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org .

Women's Alliance

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 00:02:04 GMT

Women's Alliance

This Tuesday, July 16, Women's Alliance will host Eliot member Gerry Mandel who will make a presentation about Charlie Chaplin. Coffee and refreshments will be served at 9:45 am with the presentation starting at 10:15 am. All are welcome!

Women’s Alliance provides the women of Eliot Chapel with an opportunity for fellowship, intellectual stimulation, involvement, and growth. The Alliance seeks to be of service to members, friends, the church, and the community. They meet on the first Tuesday of each month in Adams Hall for a book discussion. On the third Tuesday they host a speaker, and on the fourth Tuesday they typically go on a field trip. All women are welcome. Email womensalliance@eliotchapel.org .

Sunday at a Glance: July 14, 2024

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 19:05:04 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 14, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Garden Room

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Music rehearsal – 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: July 7, 2024

Wed, 03 Jul 2024 23:04:42 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: July 7, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Garden Room

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:15 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Shared Plate for July 2024

Mon, 01 Jul 2024 21:49:45 GMT

Shared Plate: St. Louis Area Diaper Bank

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Diaper Bank" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Sunday at a Glance: June 30, 2024

Fri, 28 Jun 2024 01:43:23 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 30, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:30 am in Adams Hall, after service

SJA Geek Training – 12:00 pm in Adams Hall

STL Pride Parade – 12:00 pm in downtown St. Louis
Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Pride Parade

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 20:56:16 GMT

STL Pride Parade

Break out your rainbow gear and join UUs from First Unitarian, Emerson UU, and Eliot Chapel

in the STL Pride Parade on Sunday, June 30.

Line up between 10:00 and 11:00 am. Our staging area is Gate 3, on Market Street between 8th and 9th Street ( map ). Welcoming Congregation members from First Unitarian will arrive at 10 AM for check in and set up. They'll have a large banner naming all four area congregations.

The Parade begins at 12:00 noon at 10th and Market downtown St. Louis and travels west on Market past Tucker to 15th Street. Your RSVP is helpful!

Make Room for RUUMS!

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 03:40:47 GMT

Make Room for RUUMS!

The reactivated RUUMS (Retired UU Men Socializing ) will meet on the second Tuesday of each month, starting July 9 in Room 001 at 9:00 am.

If you were a member of the old RUUMS, please come and tell us what it was like back when, but in any case come to the first meeting and help us figure out what sort of group it will be going forward: formal like a covenant group, anarchic like the Men's Advance, or something in-between?

If you are still a long way from retirement don't let that stop you; retirement in this context is a state of mind, so you will be welcome. Please email RUUMS@eliotchapel.org if you have comments.

A Summer Message from Rev. Krista

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 02:09:41 GMT

A Summer Message from Rev. Krista

Dear Beloveds,

I shifted into summer mode on Memorial Day Weekend by heading out to Bergfried, our 590 acre property just west of Hermann, MO, for the Annual Family Campout. We enjoyed nightly campfires, daily hikes and hangouts, worship and some great meals.

In early June I was on study leave. Did you know that Unitarian Universalism is one of the only faith traditions where ministers are given intentional time to reflect and study? I am so thankful to you for that time. I reflected on the past year, read some of the books I’ve wanted to, attended two online workshops and began planning worship and adult enrichment for the coming year. Be on the lookout for the rollout of all next year’s adult enrichment offerings on August 1st.

But mostly, I tended to my spirit. I slowed down, listened to my heart, walked, rested, slept, reconnected with friends, dove into a rom-com novel and binged season 3 of Bridgerton . I spent plenty of time in my gardens – planting, mulching, weeding, and setting up irrigation systems, one of my favorite things to play with! (How many hoses can you service with one faucet using 5 automatic water timers? The answer this year is 8, so far.) I love wildflower native gardening (which means only growing plants that are indigenous to this area). My partner is the master vegetable gardener, although my green and yellow wax beans are looking marvelous! We will soon be knee deep in zucchini and yellow squash.

Just because it’s summer doesn’t mean that Eliot Chapel shuts down. Most of the summer services are offered by folks who completed this spring’s preaching class. Having read every sermon, I know their messages will inspire, challenge, and nurture you. No worries if you missed the class. I will be offering So You Think You Can Preach every spring, dates to be announced in August. Please know that registering means committing to offer a summer worship service next year! ��

We also have volunteers who are providing nursery care in the summer months with activities for the older kids during worship. Every service still has a time for all ages. If you’re looking for some adult me-time, Eliot Chapel on Sunday mornings is the place to be. If you’re longing for some kid energy, be in touch with the front office to connect with the organizers.

There’s even a concert coming up on June 25 featuring Matt Venuti. His music is serene, magical and energizing. Here’s a video to get a feel for his music: https://vimeo.com/915197654?share=copy . All ages are welcome. Tickets are available here: https://www.eliotchapel.org/americosmos

Beginning June 23, I will be on vacation for 3 weeks. This includes a visit to Canada to spend much needed time with my parents, brother, and nephew. This will definitely include as much swimming as possible! I grew up one mile from Lake Erie. It would probably be more correct to say that I grew up IN Lake Erie.

During my vacation, both Brian Franklin, our Business Manager, and Debby Lovell, our Administrative/Communications Assistant, are available. Our Affiliate Minister Rev. Dee Evans will be on call for pastoral care emergencies. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to her even though she is less familiar. Rev. Dee is an exceptional person, a personal friend, and has a deep warm heart. You will be in very good hands. For non-emergency pastoral care needs, the Pastoral Care Associates are there for you. For any kind of pastoral care, emergency or not, simply email pastoralcare@eliotchapel.org and leave a message at the front office by calling 314-821-0911. Please know that during my vacation I am always informed should a member pass away. I do my best to reach out to the family regardless of where I am.

Wherever this summer takes you in your spirit and your body, I hope that you too will find time for rest, renewal and reconnection. I will be with you in spirit until I return on July 15.

Yours in faith and love,

Rev. Krista

June 20, 2024

Sunday at a Glance: June 23, 2024

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 01:12:44 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 23, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Positive Psychology Covenant Group – 11:30 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

Worship Team Meeting – 11:30 am in Room 006

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Sunday at a Glance: June 16, 2024

Fri, 14 Jun 2024 03:45:19 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 16, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Friends of Music Concert – 3:00 pm in the Sanctuary

Sunday at a Glance: June 9, 2024

Fri, 31 May 2024 16:13:42 GMT

Sunday at a Glance: June 9, 2024

Nursery – opens at 9:30 am

Worship Service – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Coffee Hour – 11:00 am in Adams Hall, after service

Geek Squad – 11:00 am in the Garden Room area of Adams Hall

Exploring Spirituality Covenant Group – 11:00 am in the Susan Frederick-Gray Room

All UU Picnic – 11:30 am in Tower Grove Park

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections – 1:00 pm via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Summer

Fri, 31 May 2024 01:49:10 GMT

RE classes and youth groups do not meet during the summer months.

Children are welcome and encouraged to attend the 10:00 am service with their family on summer Sundays.

Childcare and playtime is available in the nursery MOST Sundays for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement. The nursery opens at 9:30. Parents and caregivers may drop children off in the nursery prior to attending the service.

On select Sundays, supervised playtime in the meadow and on the 222 lawn (or Adams Hall if the weather is inclement) may be offered for children in kindergarten-6th grade. This is subject to having enough volunteers sign up in advance and is not guaranteed each week.

For more information about summer activities for children on Sunday, including what is available and when, please contact the Summer RE Team (Deb Eldarrat, Kalen Ponche, and Sara Fleming) at summerRE@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for June 2024

Fri, 31 May 2024 01:20:28 GMT

Shared Plate: Prison Performing Arts

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “PPA" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Journey to Summer

Fri, 24 May 2024 17:50:25 GMT

Leadership Celebration

Saturday, June 1 – 4:00 pm in Adams Hall

There are so many people who make things happen at Eliot Chapel. From our elected Board of Trustees to making sure the sound system works every Sunday to leading our covenant groups, we are nothing without our volunteer leaders.

Please join us on Saturday, June 1 to celebrate these folks. A wine and cheese reception begins at 4:00 pm in Adams Hall, sponsored by the Nominating Committee: Claire Wyneken, Steve Mennerick, Steve Harvey, Toni Saunders, and Ann Marie Hutson.

So You Think You Can Preach

Summer Sermon Series Launch

Sunday, June 2 – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Paul Markowitz – "We Are Them (Or They Are Us): Another Look At Pluralism"

A Taste of Transylvania

Sunday, June 2 – after 10:00 service in Adams Hall

Enjoy sampling Hungarian goulash and donuts and learn about our Partner Church experience.

LEARN MORE

So You Think You Can Preach

Sunday, June 9 – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Gammon Earhart – “Be Still, Say No, and Have Some Awe”

All UU Picnic

Sunday, June 9 – 11:30 am in Tower Grove Park at the Turkish Pavilion

Join with UUs from across the STL Metro area for a relaxing afternoon. We’ll have a potluck lunch

and games for all ages!

LEARN MORE

So You Think You Can Preach

Sunday, June 16 – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Lynn Murphy – “Honoring Father’s Day”

First Day of Summer!

Thursday, June 20

Ware Lecture in Adams Hall

Saturday, June 22 – at 6:00 pm in Adams Hall

We're gathering in Adams Hall this year to hear from Julia Watts Belser, the 2024 Ware Lecturer from the UUA General Assembly. Belser (she/her) is a rabbi, scholar, spiritual teacher and a longtime activist for disability and gender justice.

LEARN MORE

So You Think You Can Preach

Sunday, June 23 – 10:00 am in the Sanctuary

Ro Kelly (she/they) – “Breaking the Either/Or Binary: On Loving Both, Beyond, and In-Between”

AmeriCosmos featuring Matt Venuti

Tuesday, June 25 – in the Sanctuary at 7:00 pm

We invite you to an expansive and entertaining live experience . . . where the creative flow of evocative music, beautiful sounds and enchanting visuals inspires a sense of awe and a feeling of openness. Get your tickets to see this touring troubadour today!

LINK

GA Worship Service: " Weaving Our Lives"

Sunday, June 30 – 10:00 am in Adams Hall

We will view the recorded service from General Assembly.

STL Pride Parade

Sunday, June 30 – Downtown

Join with other UUs in the St. Louis area and march for Pride!

All UU Picnic

Fri, 24 May 2024 17:08:25 GMT

Join Metro Area UUs in Tower Grove Park!

Join with UUs from across the STL Metro area for a relaxing afternoon.

We’ll have a potluck lunch and games for all ages!

If your last name starts with A-F please bring a side dish, G-L a salad dish,

M-Q a main dish or casserole, and R-Z a dessert.

PLEASE LABEL INGREDIENTS FOR ALLERGENS

Cups, plates, silverware, ice and water provided.

If you have lawn games or chairs please bring them!

Helping Each Other

Fri, 17 May 2024 05:46:49 GMT

Join Volunteer Village! New Teams! Memorial Reception Team! RE Program Volunteers!

As the church year wraps up we are looking into the future and have created some new volunteer teams that are needed to make Eliot Chapel the best it can be! We are adding the following volunteer opportunities to our list of ways YOU can be involved at Eliot:

Congregation Safety and Security Team
Event Coordinators (non-staff paid positions!)
Communications Team
Summer Fellowship for our children during summer services
Worship AV/Livestream and Comcast Technicians

We are also looking to fill more volunteer slots for some of our existing teams as well.

Ask questions at volunteervillage@eliotchapel.org .

Help our families in times of bereavement. Join the Memorial Reception Team.

When one of our members passes away, we honor them with a Celebration of Life. Part of that involves the Memorial Reception Team, a dedicated group of people who have chosen hospitality as their ministry to this congregation. Could you be one of their new members? The time commitment is low and the sense of belonging is high. You would volunteer a couple of times a year. Duties include setting up the tables, slicing fruit and cheese for the trays, putting out cookies and crackers, making beverages – coffee, tea, etc. – and cleaning up afterward. Please respond to receptions@eliotchapel.org if you are willing to help offer this care to members and their loved ones.

It takes a village to produce our excellent RE program.

We have about 40 adult volunteers and about 90 registered children and youth in our program.

Teaching classes on Sunday is the main way volunteers help, but there are many other opportunities. Volunteers also teach OWL (our sexuality education program), chaperone events and outings, and lead children's choir.

Kalen Ponche, Deb Eldarrat, and Sara Fleming are organizing our summer childcare. Two to three volunteers are needed each Sunday this summer. Click for more information .

We are also recruiting for the fall. Contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org to volunteer.

Thank you to all who have volunteered in our RE program. It does indeed take a village. Thanks for being part of the village.

Dotty Storer and Mary Meihaus

Volunteer coordinators

Taste of Transylvania

Fri, 17 May 2024 04:40:24 GMT

You’re invited to

A Taste of Transylvania!!

Sunday, June 2, in Adams Hall immediately after the service

Enjoy samples of Hungarian goulash and donuts and learn about our Partner Church experience.

And get a taste of our 2016 Partner Church trip to Transylvania!

Weekly Vigil

Fri, 17 May 2024 02:55:42 GMT

Why We Still Stand in Weekly Vigil

Since the killing of Michael Brown in Ferguson early August of 2014, members of Eliot Unitarian Universalist Chapel and people from the greater community have stood in a weekly Vigil for Hope and Healing. Why in 2026 do we still stand in vigil? Has so little changed? Frankly, yes. Despite our important conversations and efforts these past several years, little has changed to deconstruct the systemic racism that grips our metropolitan area.

CONTACT: blm@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: Every Tuesday at 4:00 (5:00 during Daylight Savings Time) on the front lawn at Eliot

Backpack Giveaway

Fri, 10 May 2024 06:14:02 GMT

We're Collecting Backpacks Now!

Please donate new backpacks and school supplies for the Meacham Park Neighborhood Improvement Association’s Back to School Rally on August 3. Donating now gives them preparation time so please place donations in the box in Adams Hall through Sunday, June 30.

Thank you for your generosity !

Memorial Day Weekend at Bergfried

Fri, 10 May 2024 05:39:02 GMT

Memorial Day Weekend at Bergfried

Car and Tent Camping, or come for any part of the weekend
Two Bunkhouses for Sheltered Mattress Accommodation
Full Service Cottage Beds
Guided Hikes
Gasconade and Missouri River Overlooks
Historic Cemeteries
Cypress Swamp
Sustainable Forestry Demonstrations
Traditional Bonfire
Singing and Storytelling around the Shelter Fire Pit
Fun maintenance tasks – power washing the cottage, trail clearing

CONTACT: bergfriedinfo@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: May 22-24, 2026

Volunteer Spotlight: Reception Team

Fri, 10 May 2024 05:34:47 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Reception Team

Summer Plans for Children and Families

Fri, 10 May 2024 05:00:35 GMT

Get Involved with Summer Plans!

Traditionally, Eliot Religious Education closes down for a few months during the summer and children attend service with their caregivers. This year, a group of parents have come together to try to offer an alternative: supervised free play for kids entering grades K-6 on the back field and the 222 property (i.e. the fields at the rear of the building by the back parking lot) while parents and caregivers attend service. The kids can play group games, color at the picnic tables, and run around. But we need your help. We will need 2-3 volunteers per week to lead this beginning in June. Here's a link to sign up for supervised outdoor play .

In addition, we are hoping to offer childcare in the nursery during the month of July when we traditionally have not had staff available to provide this service, AND to provide an additional volunteer for support in the nursery during June and August . Here's a sign up sheet to help in the nursery .

Please note that background checks are required for those working with children. Scott Stewart is available through May 19 to assist with this process.

We'd love to make this a reality for the community and make Eliot a place where it's easy to bring your family all year round. Please contact us at summerRE@eliotchapel.org if you have any questions.

Thanks,

Kalen Ponche, Debbie Eldarrat, & Sara Fleming

summerRE@eliotchapel.org

A Magical Musical Experience at Eliot Chapel

Fri, 10 May 2024 04:09:56 GMT

Matt Venuti's AmeriCosmos - Tuesday, June 25 at Eliot Chapel!

Eliot Chapel invites you to an expansive and entertaining live experience...where the creative flow of evocative music, beautiful sounds and enchanting visuals inspires a sense of awe and a feeling of openness.

Troubadour musician, Matt Venuti, will perform his AmeriCosmos in our Sanctuary on Tuesday, June 25 at 7:00 pm. Come celebrate our interconnectedness with nature, with others and with love itself.

Tickets are $20 and can be purchased in advance here . Tickets will also be available at the door for $25.

Aging in Place

Fri, 10 May 2024 01:27:37 GMT

Save the Date: Aging in Place

As we age, many of us hope to stay in our homes as long as possible. We welcome Ryan Whittington, Director of Seniors Home Care, a local family operation whose mission is to support seniors and their families in achieving the goal of aging in their homes.

Plan to join us on Wednesday, September 18 from 1:00 to 2:30 pm.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 12

Fri, 10 May 2024 00:38:20 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, May 12.

Youth activities for 6th-12th grade have concluded for 2023-24. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the service with their family.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Volunteer Spotlight: Greeters and Welcome Team

Fri, 03 May 2024 06:46:11 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Greeters and Welcome Team

We are so grateful for the dedication of our Greeters : Annie Russell, Nancy Shepard, Barbara Harris, Penny Shafer, Rebecca Schuder, Sue Blandford, Sarah Reutter, Jan Chamberlin, Doris Yohe, Sue & Steve Jarrett, Allison Weber, Pat Reed, Janet Solecki, Cindy Haynes, Peter Wilson, Madelyn Harris, Carolyn Burke, Teri Nicely, Lanette & Steve Tanaka, Bob & Mary Meihaus, Sue Lunnemann, Sue Myers, Armetta Smitely, Elitta DeArmond, Susan Hayman, David Cox, and Susan Bell, and Welcome Team Members : Ann Lemon, Tanya Hull, Lynn Murphy, Yvonne Serbell, Mary Nestojko, Kathy Brunts, Nancy Spargo, Sue Lunneman, Tim Gardner, David Demsky, and Toni Saunders.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, May 5

Fri, 03 May 2024 02:05:01 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, May 5.

Religious Education (RE) for children and youth in 5th grade and younger is held this Sunday during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. RE classes will begin for 5th grade and younger following the Child Dedication and Bridging ceremonies which are a part of this week's service.

There are no youth group activities for 6th-12th grade youth this Sunday. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the service with their family.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for May 2024

Wed, 01 May 2024 22:01:14 GMT

Shared Plate: East Side Heart & Home Family Center

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “Family Center" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

April Board Bits

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 17:34:51 GMT

April 2024

The Board of Trustees met tonight in Adams Hall for our April 2024 meeting. We chatted about the budget for 2024-25 church year. We are in good shape as we finish up our stewardship drive. Members have pledged $619,000 for the new year and there are 69 pledging units whom have not yet pledged. Volunteers will be following up with those members in the days to come.

Save the date of May 8 at 6:30 pm for a budget presentation from Treasurer Sue Bell on Zoom.

The board approved a new finance committee that will assist the treasurer with budgeting, financial policies, and financial decision making. The members will serve rolling four-year terms and will include former treasurers and other members of the congregation. Current members include Gary Gray, David B. Cox, and Tanya Hull.

The board also approved a new ministerial evaluation process that moves away from surveying the congregation as a main evaluation tool to a more holistic method that includes strategic feedback from congregants.

We are working on a plan to update our policies and the way we evaluate whether we have followed those policies. The hope is that the new method will make it simpler and more straightforward process for the board.

Also, make plans to attend the May 19 annual meeting! More information to come about how to arrange for a proxy vote, but we will also have the opportunity for virtual voting via zoom.

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org .

Volunteer Spotlight: Signature Gatherers

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 04:24:16 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight:

Signature Gatherers for the Missouri Right to Reproductive Freedom Amendment

Wrapping Up the Pledge Drive

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 04:13:08 GMT

Final numbers for the 24-25 fiscal year

The pledge drive is wrapping up its final numbers for the fiscal year 7/1/2024-6/30/2025. Some of you may think that since you made a payment earlier this year that you have made a pledge. But a pledge is a commitment on what you plan to give to Eliot for the next year. We need to know what we can expect to receive to plan an operating budget. As of Friday, April 26, we have collected $654,263 in pledges towards our goal of $650,000 from 265 pledging units! Thank you so much!

If you'd still like to pledge, we ask that you go online at eliotchapel.org/forward to fill out a pledge form or fill out a paper pledge card and return it to the front office. For this last week, you can even call Brian Franklin (314-821-0911, ext. 102) or Susan Bell (see directory ) and provide a verbal pledge. With your help, we are blowing the roof off the steeple!

Important events:

Finance Committee Meeting – May 1, 2024 via Zoom

Board of Trustees Meeting - May 2, 2024 via Zoom

Presentation of the Budget to the Congregation - May 8, 2024 via Zoom

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 28

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 00:56:50 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, April 28.

Religious Education (RE) for children and youth is held this Sunday during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. RE classes and youth activities will begin at 10:00.

Note: The 6th & 7th grade and 8th-12th grade groups are on a field trip to the Islamic Foundation this Sunday.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Annual Congregational Meeting

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 16:54:20 GMT

Annual Meeting: Sunday, May 19, 2024

Eliot Chapel's annual meeting of members will be held at 1:00 pm on Sunday, May 19. Join the Board of Trustees following the second service at 12:15 pm for sandwiches, chips, and drinks in Adams Hall before the start of the meeting. Childcare will be available until 2:00 pm.

This year the Board is aiming for a paperless meeting. Materials will be available on our website and emailed a few days before the meeting. The information will be projected on a screen in the sanctuary during the meeting.

The agenda for the annual meeting includes a budget presentation and approval of the consent agenda. The consent agenda is the only item on which members will be voting this year. The items on the consent agenda include approving meeting minutes from last year's annual meeting, minor changes to the bylaws, and new members to the Board of Trustees.

New Board Members

The Nominating Committee is pleased to share that Kathy Brunts, Jennifer Stauber, and Matthew Hull have been nominated for three-year terms on the board. David T. Cox has been nominated for a one-year term.

Click to learn more about these candidates.

Proposed Bylaw Changes

The proposed bylaw changes include one clarification that members must complete current membership requirements before joining Eliot Chapel. One change will update the pronouns used in the bylaws from his or her to their. The second proposed change will allow people to resign their membership by providing written notice to Eliot Chapel (instead of the secretary of the Board of Trustees specifically). The third proposed change will offer clarity that the Board of Trustees can hold congregational meetings virtually. Read here for the proposed bylaw changes in their entirety.

How to Participate in the Annual Meeting

Plan to attend the Annual Meeting in person on May 19, watch it via the livestream or, if you are a member planning to vote, you can participate virtually via Zoom. Alternatively, you can appoint a proxy to cast a vote on your behalf.

Appointing a Proxy

Submit your proxy form to the Board Secretary no later than noon on Thursday, May 16 . Proxies may be submitted by:

email of a scan or photo to board@eliotchapel.org;
mail via the US Postal Service (see address below, ATTN: Board Secretary); or
hand delivery to the Eliot Unitarian Chapel Front Office.

Date and time of submission shall be determined by receipt by the Board Secretary.

Only members of record will be allowed to vote. The term “Member" is defined in our bylaws, a copy of which is available at eliotchapel.org. A list of members will be posted in the hallway outside Adams Hall so that congregants can check to make sure they are listed as members. Any discrepancies with the list of members should be raised with the Director of Business Administration at admin@eliotchapel.org no later than 72 hours before the meeting begins.

Related events

Finance Committee Meeting – May 1, 2024 via Zoom

Board of Trustees Meeting - May 2, 2024 via Zoom

Presentation of the Budget to the Congregation - May 8, 2024 via Zoom

Download Meeting Packet Here

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 21

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 01:58:21 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, April 21.

Note: The 8th-12th grade youth group is meeting OFFSITE from 11:00-12:30 at Aloha Mini Golf & Shave Ice, located at 13502 Big Bend Road, Valley Park, MO, 63122.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

New Members to the Board of Trustees

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 15:55:43 GMT

New Members to the Board of Trustees

The 2024 Eliot Unitarian Chapel Annual Congregational Meeting will be held Sunday, May 19, 2024. The agenda for the annual meeting will include the approval of new members to the Board of Trustees. The Nominating Committee is pleased to share the new Board nominees as follows:

Kathy Brunts – 3 year term,
Jennifer Stauber – 3 year term,
Matthew Hull – 3 year term, and
David Cox – 1 year term.

Seder Dinner

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 03:53:32 GMT

Seder Dinner

On Monday, April 22, we'll be hosting a Seder dinner to honor the tradition of Passover which begins that evening. Doors to Adams Hall will open at 6:00 pm and the dinner begins at 6:30. All are welcome to come.

The main ritual of Passover is the seder, a festive meal that involves the re-telling of the Exodus through stories and song and the consumption of ritual foods, including matzah and maror (bitter herbs). The seder’s rituals and other readings are outlined in the Haggadah. We will have a copy of the Haggadah for everyone so all can participate.

A signup sheet is on the bulletin board outside Adams Hall. Please let us know what item you'll be bringing whether main dish, side dish, or dessert to share. Food will need to be kosher in honor of this Jewish tradition: NO pork or pork products, shellfish, or leavening in bread or dessert.

Volunteers are also needed to help set up beforehand and clean up afterwards. If you can volunteer, please contact Gail Rock or Lynn Murphy through sederdinner@eliotchapel.org .

Clean Up Day

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 02:36:05 GMT

Eliot Chapel Clean-Up Day: Saturday, May 11

Please save the date and join the Building and Grounds team for the family-friendly Eliot Chapel Clean Up Day on Saturday, May 11 from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm. A potluck lunch will be served, and we ask everyone attending to bring something to share. Desserts and beverages will be provided by Eliot Chapel.

We will gather to complete many jobs that the Staff and Building and Grounds Team have noticed need tending. You will select from a variety of jobs when you arrive – ones that suit your interest, ability, and skill level. Indoor jobs might include deep cleaning, organizing, painting, or fixing something that is broken. Outdoor jobs could be cleaning out a garden area or planting and pruning. Plan to come and help out even if you cannot stay the entire time – we need all the help that is offered!

If you plan to attend, we kindly ask that you let us know via this RSVP form . While it's not required to RSVP, doing so will give the organizers an idea of how many people to expect for planning purposes.

If you have any questions about this event, feel free to reach out to Brian Franklin at admin@eliotchapel.org . Thank you for your generous support in keeping Eliot Chapel looking GREAT!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 14

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 00:52:01 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, April 14.

Religious Education (RE) for children and youth is held this Sunday during the 10:00 service (note the adjusted timing this Sunday). Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. RE classes and youth activities will begin at 10:15.

Note: The 6th & 7th grade and 8th-12th grade groups are on a field trip to the Hindu Temple this Sunday.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:30 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Volunteer Spotlight: Geek Squad

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 03:17:58 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Geek Squad

Mary Meihaus & Dotty Storer

The Volunteer Village Coordinators

Light of Love Tie-Dye T-Shirt

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 02:28:46 GMT

Introducing the Light of Love Tie-Dye T-Shirt

The Eliot tie-dye T-shirts were so popular this fall (raising over $2000 for Eliot!), and Bob has gotten so many requests from members who missed out the first time, he is opening up the production line one last time! As before, 100% of the cost goes to Eliot Chapel! Order them before October 26, and you can get them during coffee hours in November. They make great stocking stuffers! And they were even taken to Transylvania as gifts for our partner-church host families!

$20 each (long-sleeve = $25)

Since supplies were donated, 100% of the cost goes to Eliot Chapel!

Youth sizes: XS, S, M, L, XL

Adult sizes: S, M, L, XL, XXL, 3XL

Order today and pick them up at a later Eliot Chapel coffee hour.

Please make your order by Saturday, October 26!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, April 7

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 20:25:33 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, April 7.

Note: The 6th & 7th grade and 8th-12th grade groups will meet together during the 9:45 service for an introduction to Hinduism.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for April

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 20:17:55 GMT

Shared Plate: EarthDance

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “EarthDance" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

March Board Bits

Sat, 30 Mar 2024 17:21:36 GMT

March 2024

The Board of Trustees met for their monthly meeting on Tuesday, March 19. We started by celebrating the March 3 vote and Reverend Krista becoming our new Settled minister!

We approved 6 new members since the last meeting.

Sue presented the Treasurer’s report, and the January financials looked really great. She also announced that the pledge drive is off to a strong start. Sue is working on putting together a Finance team/committee. The Board will work on a job description for that group before the next meeting.

Carole gave an update on how the three-year rolling plan is progressing. She was able to meet with Krista and the staff last week to get their input. The goal is to have this plan ready to go for the new church year, and everything seems to be well on its way.

The Board continues to fine tune the new minister evaluation process and anticipates completing those documents at either the next meeting or the following one.

Finally, the Board began discussing preparations for the Annual Congregational Meeting. Mark your calendars for May 19! Communications to come!

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org .

Trivia Auction and Raffle Payments

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 15:56:16 GMT

Eclipse Party

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 06:09:16 GMT

Eclipse Party!

Where: Carbondale Unitarian Fellowship 105 N Parrish Ln, Carbondale, IL 62901

When: April 8, 2024, 11:00 am

Who: Anyone interested in watching the eclipse and doing fun science experiments

What: Eclipse party and BYO picnic lunch.

Science experiments and activities will be sponsored by Metro East UU Congregation. We have some eclipse glasses but if you have your own, please bring them. We would also encourage you to bring your church name tag to connect with other UUs. Bring your own food and beverages, and lawn games to share! We will get there, set up and do some science, watch the eclipse, then hang out and wait for traffic to thin while learning more about the natural world. Depending on traffic, we might go somewhere in Carbondale for dinner. This is an all ages event.

Contact: Alex Hoeft at alex.j.hoeft@gmail.com or just show up!

Volunteer Spotlight: Front Office

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 04:20:06 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Front Office Team

Mary Meihaus & Dotty Storer

The Volunteer Village Coordinators

Forward Together 4

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 03:43:33 GMT

As of Friday, March 29, we have received 178 pledges with a total commitment of $536,321.68.

Our goals for the current year are to have a balanced budget and ensure our staff is paid fairly. To reach this goal, if you are able to increase your pledge, we ask that you consider an increase of 5-10%. If you are not in a position to do so, please remember that we value your financial commitment no matter the size. We're endeavoring to have 100% participation by our current 260 pledging units.

We will be celebrating the culmination of our Stewardship Campaign at 5:00 pm on April 6 with sandwiches, pizza and ice cream before enjoying Eliot’s own talent in the Talent Showcase from 6:00 – 7:30. Please be sure to RSVP to the meal by March 31 for planning purposes.

If you have pledged, we thank you for your contribution. If you need to pledge, please do so now !

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 31

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 02:19:31 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, March 31.

There are no youth group activities for 6th-12th grade youth this Sunday. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the Easter service with their family.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Special Easter Offering

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 02:06:41 GMT

Easter Sunday's offertory is dedicated to Humanitarian Relief in Gaza.

If you wish to donate online, here is the page on their website dedicated to Palestinian relief which also includes a QR code to make a one time donation to the Palestinian emergency fund.

You can give through Eliot in one of three ways:

Online: Click here to access the fund .
By Mail: Please write “IRUSA” in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122 to arrive by April 5.
By Text: Text "Eliot $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Choose "Easter 2024 Offering – Islamic Relief USA" from the dropdown menu and complete your donation.

January Board Bits

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 16:59:09 GMT

January 2024

The Board of Trustees met January 16, 2024 in Adams Hall. We celebrated the news from the search team: they recommend Rev. Krista Taves be our called minister! The members of the church will consider this recommendation at a special meeting on March 3.

Only people who are members in good standing are able to participate in the vote. All members should plan to check the membership rolls (on the bulletin board outside Adams Hall) to make sure they are in good standing as soon as possible. The deadline to fix membership is February 12 – please contact Brian Franklin, Director of Administration, to make arrangements at admin@eliotchapel.org . The pathway to becoming a member includes meeting with a minister and signing the membership book. Members in good standing have made a financial contribution of record in the past 12 months or received a waiver in case of financial hardship from the Lead Minister.

Treasurer Sue Bell offered an update to the Board on attendance. The number of people attending in the sanctuary has grown to an average of 134 people a week as of November 2023 compared to 111 people a week in November 2022. Attendance at Religious Education for children is also growing. We are projecting to end the year with a planned deficit of $45,000.

The Nominating Committee planned to host a wine-and-cheese and leadership night at Eliot to discuss church governance. Eliot is moving to a "Mission-Based governance" model which will offer us more partnership in decision making between the Board of Trustees and the lead minister.

Rev. Krista reported to us that inactive members are returning and rejoining the church.

Some upcoming church events everyone should note include:

March 3 Pledge drive kick-off and special vote to call Rev. Krista Taves
April 6 Eliot Talent Show: 5-6pm dinner, 6-7:30 talent extravaganza
April 27 Eliot Trivia Night

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org .

Coffee Hour Volunteers Needed

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 05:12:17 GMT

Coffee Hour Is Community!

Coffee Hour is an important tradition of fellowship at Eliot Chapel, taking place in Adams Hall immediately after each worship service on Sunday. It's a time to catch up with fellow members and friends and to greet newcomers. Please join us!

We keep this tradition of hospitality alive by taking turns hosting. This is a simple task and a great way to serve and connect.

Covenant Groups, Women's Weekend committee members, Bergfried committee, Social Justice committee, Choir (you can do this on Sundays you don't sing), or any group within Eliot can host Coffee Hour.

Ask two members from your group to help you and sign up. When you sign up, include the name of your group in the sign up and we will include that in the Order of Service and a sign will be put up next on the coffee counter announcing who is serving coffee. If you are not on a committee, you can sign up too. Would your family like to volunteer?

There are detailed instructions for everyone to follow. This is a great way to meet people and share what your group does for Eliot!

Volunteer Spotlight: Rebecca Schuder

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 03:59:47 GMT

Volunteer Spotlight: Rebecca Schuder

Rebecca also organizes the Flower Team and makes sure we have beautiful arrangements for our weekly worship service. She does all of this with a smile on her face and joy in her heart. When you see this charming lady 'around and about' Eliot, please tell her "thank you." And when you need to know where anything is located, from a candle holder to a pencil sharpener, Rebecca will know where to find it!

Mary Meihaus & Dotty Storer

The Volunteer Village Coordinators

Forward Together 3

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 01:57:56 GMT

As of Friday, March 22, we have received 149 pledges with a total commitment of $468,996.

Our goals for the current year is to have a balanced budget and ensure our staff is paid fairly. To reach this goal, if you are able to increase your pledge, we ask that you consider an increase of 5-10%. If you are not in a position to do so, please remember that we value your financial commitment no matter the size. We're endeavoring to have 100% participation by our current 260 pledging units.

We will be celebrating the culmination of our Stewardship Campaign at 5:00 pm on April 6 with a light meal before enjoying Eliot’s own talent in the Talent Showcase from 6:00 – 7:30. Please be sure to RSVP to the meal for planning purposes.

If you have pledged, we thank you for your contribution. If you need to pledge, do so now so that you don‘t miss out on the drawing! Thank you.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 24

Thu, 21 Mar 2024 23:53:34 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, March 24.

There are no youth group activities for 6th-12th grade youth this Sunday. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the worship service with their family.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Forward Together 2

Fri, 15 Mar 2024 00:56:28 GMT

Forward Together Stewardship Campaign

It’s not too late to submit your pledge to be entered into the drawing on March 25 for a $300 gift card to the St. Louis Cardinals! It's easy to fill out your pledge form online ! We are striving for 100% participation of all our pledging units.

If you have pledged, we thank you for your contribution. If you need to pledge, do so now so that you don‘t miss out on the drawing! Thank you.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 17

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 23:30:19 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, March 17.

There are no youth group activities for 6th-12th grade youth this Sunday. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the worship service with their family.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s RE program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Eliot Chapel COVID Policy: Effective March 8, 2024

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 21:35:25 GMT

Eliot Chapel COVID Policy: Effective March 8, 2024

Dear Friends,

Although we are still in a COVID pandemic, COVID has become a milder illness worldwide. There are fewer deaths and hospitalizations. Most people have some degree of immunity resulting from vaccination, recovering from COVID or both.

To date we have based our COVID policy on the CDC recommendations. We followed these measures because we care deeply for each other and want to protect each other. But these recommendations have now changed and we are adjusting our policy accordingly.

Effective March 8, 2024, Eliot Chapel recommends that all who come to this beloved community stay up to date on their COVID vaccines. Vaccinations help not only the person being vaccinated, but also decrease the spread of illness thereby protecting others, especially the most vulnerable. However, given increased immunity levels and increasingly milder variants of COVID, it is reasonable to end the requirement of vaccination to be present in our facility.

We continue to expect those with a respiratory infection, including the cold, flu, RSV, COVID and others, to refrain from coming into our facility. Please follow CDC guidelines about when to stay home and when to mask. We encourage and respect mask wearing for those who wish to do so, to protect themselves or others.

We understand that this change in policy will be welcome to some and concerning to others. If you wish to speak to someone regarding our amended policy, feel free to reach out to any one of us.

Sincerely and with love,

Rev. Krista Taves, Lead Minister

Sara Fleming, Board Chair

Steven Swift, Board Member

Kathy Brunts, Member

Brian Franklin, Director of Congregational Administration

Community Connections

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 04:00:30 GMT

Rockwoods Hike

Sue Blandford & Annie Russell

Date/Time:

Saturday, April 6

9:30 am

Location:

Rockwoods Reservation

Description:

Meet at the parking lot by the Visitor Center at Rockwood Reservation at 9:30 am on Saturday, April 6, 2024. This is a Family Friendly hike with two options: Rock Quarry Trail (2.1 miles, moderate) or continue to Trail Among the Trees (both hikes=3.8 miles, moderate).

Limit:

20 attendees

HyperTile Party!

Bob Becker

Date/Time:

Friday, April 12

6:00-8:00 pm

Location:

Kirkwood

Description:

Family Friendly Make and Take! Explore the world of hyperbolic geometry while building a variety of awesome structures with HyperTiles – a construction toy like no other! Light dinner too.

Limit:

24 attendees

Forward Together

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 03:14:53 GMT

Forward Together Stewardship Campaign

The Pledge Drive formally kicked off on March 3 and we already have received 75 pledges totaling $239,876 as of Friday, March 8. If you haven’t made your pledge yet, fill out your pledge form online . It’s easy and if you fill out your pledge by midnight on March 24, you will be entered into a drawing for a $300 St. Louis Cardinals gift card! Take your family to a game and enjoy brats and Cracker Jack! The Geek Squad is available after the second service on Sunday, March 10 should you need help with the form.

Our go als for the current year is to have a balanced budget, and ensure our staff is paid fairly. To reach this goal, if you are able to increase your pledge, we ask that you consider an increase of 5-10%. If you are not in a position to do so, please remember that we value your financial commitment no matter the size. We are striving for 100% participation by our current 260 pledging units.

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 02:04:54 GMT

Coffee, Conversation, and Connections

If you join us digitally or in person, you'll find Coffee, Conversation, and Connections on Zoom at 1:30 pm every Sunday! You are invited to join us online for conversation after the services. We'll take a few minutes to say hello and let people settle in, then we'll go around the room to check in and welcome newcomers. Look for "Eliot on Zoom" in your email on Sunday morning; it will include a link to join us for Coffee, Conversation, and Connections. If you're not on our mailing list, sign up here . We look forward to seeing you!

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 10

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 22:00:38 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, March 10.

Religious Education (RE) for children and youth in 7th grade and younger is held during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. RE classes will begin at 10:00.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Youth Group activities for youth in grades 8-12 will be held during the 11:15 service from January 7-March 10. Youth should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service before gathering as a group at 11:30.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s Religious Education (RE) program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Ministerial Vote on Sunday!

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 19:46:22 GMT

Ministerial Vote on Sunday, March 3

What an exciting time to be a part of Eliot Chapel! On Sunday, our congregation will gather at 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary to vote on the recommendation from the Eliot Chapel Ministerial Search Committee to call Reverend Krista Taves as our new settled Lead Minister. We want to let you know all of the ways you can participate in this communal process.

Participate in the Ministerial Vote:

IN-PERSON

In-person voting will take place in the Sanctuary on March 3 at 12:45 pm.

Following the second service, sandwiches and drinks will be served in Adams Hall. At 12:30, people may begin re-entering the Sanctuary, after checking in at the Board table located in the hallway between Adams Hall and the Sanctuary. Members will be given a piece of paper that will serve as their ballot.

(Non-members may attend the meeting but cannot cast a vote.)

Childcare for those kindergarten-aged and younger will be provided in the Nursery until 1:30 pm.

ONLINE

Online voting will take place on Zoom on March 3.

Click the button below to join the Zoom call. Zoom voting will be “anonymous” to the extent that only two board members will be tallying the votes as they are cast in a chat that only the hosts can see.

If there are multiple members in a household on a signal Zoom call, each may cast a vote in the chat.

We ask that:

Only members of Eliot attend the online meeting
Everyone be logged in by 12:30 to go through a check-in process
Ensure your displayed Zoom name matches the membership roster. Here's info from Zoom about changing your display name .

Once all in-person and online members have cast their votes, the ballots will be tallied by the Board of Trustees. Once Reverend Krista has been informed of the results, the outcome will be announced to the Congregation.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, March 3

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 04:25:52 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, March 3.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Shared Plate for March

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 01:15:07 GMT

Shared Plate: Circle of Concern

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “CoC" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Women's Weekend

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 04:40:47 GMT

Women's Weekend

The long tradition continues - Eliot Chapel sponsors a time to retreat, relax, and find community among other women.

Please join us on May 15-17, 2026 at Toddhall Retreat Center. Toddhall is located in Columbia, IL approximately 20 miles from Kirkwood, MO.

Women`s Weekend features a wonderful variety of workshops, Opening and Closing Circle, a Scholarship Silent Auction, a BYOB Wine Tasting, massage, icebreaker and board games, great food, bonfire and songs, and time for relaxation and socializing.

This retreat is open to all UU women and friends. We extend an invitation to women from Emerson UU Chapel, First Unitarian Church of St Louis, Metro East Unitarian Universalist Congregation, Abraham Lincoln UU Congregation of Springfield, IL, Carbondale Unitarian Fellowship, and UU Church of Columbia, MO.

There are options to stay one night, two nights, or Saturday during the day only.

Learn more at eliotwomensweekend.com .

CONTACT: womensweekend@eliotchapel.org

MEETS: May 15-17, 2026 at Toddhall Retreat Center in Columbia, IL

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 25

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 01:52:00 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, February 25.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

Live Life in Color!

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 17:27:49 GMT

Trivia Night!

We know you're planning your trivia strategy! Get your tickets here ! And could you contribute to the event by donating goods or services we could auction? Ideas include baked goods-a-month, event tickets, private lessons, garden help, hosting a meal, handmade items, or whatever you specialize in! Please send an email to trivia@eliotchapel.org and let us know if you can help.

The Men's Advance

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 04:44:56 GMT

The Men's Advance at Bergfried

The Men’s Advance, May 3-5, 2024, welcomes all Eliot members and friends who identify at the male end of the gender spectrum. Newcomers are especially encouraged to come out starting Friday to enjoy hiking, camping, camaraderie, a Saturday night feast, and lots of super-secret men's stuff (which looks suspiciously like doing nothing). We'll be on the land through Sunday!

Ten dollars buys your ticket to the feast (kids 12 and under $5) Saturday night. All other meals are on your own.

Most choose to camp in tents or trailers; spaces in the cottage (with running water and electricity) are available by reservation with priority given to those with medical needs or physical limitations. Eight beds are also available in the rustic bunkhouses.

To sign up for the weekend, to reserve a cottage or bunkhouse space, or for any information contact mensadvance@eliotchapel.org.

Spring also promises great weather for individuals and families to visit and enjoy nature on their own. The Bergfried cottage, with air conditioning, electricity, full kitchen and bath, and running water, is available for rental ($35/night for members). Contact bergfriedreservations@eliotchapel.org whenever you are planning a trip on your own or to reserve the cottage.

Meet a Heroine.

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 04:35:53 GMT

Meet a Heroine. Meet a Powerful Financier. Meet an Undocumented Immigrant.

Many books tell moving stories of the horrors of entering the United States without documentation, and we grow in love and understanding when we read them. But that’s only half of the story. To fully empathize with our newly arrived neighbors, we need to see their lives after arrival, wearing the unseen badge of “undocumented.”

The Eliot Immigration Justice Team invites you to join us in an All Read of My (Underground) American Dream: My True Story as an Undocumented Immigrant Who Became a Wall Street Executive by Julissa Arce. This brave memoir reveals the physical, financial, and emotional costs of Arce’s stunning secret, which she kept from even her closest friends, while climbing to the most glittering version of the American Dream. She was an honors student, vice president of Goldman-Sachs with a six-figure salary – and undocumented. Join us to discuss the book on Wednesday, March 6 at 7:00 pm or Sunday, March 10 at 1:00 pm in Room 006. Sign up this Sunday in Adams Hall during Coffee Hour or email immigration@eliotchapel.org using the subject line “All Read 2024.”

Eliot's Got Talent

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 03:51:43 GMT

Eliot Talent Show

Come one, come all! Have we got a show for you!! Please join us at 5:00 pm on Saturday, April 6 for a celebratory meal hosted by the Pledge Drive Team, followed by a fun showcase of Eliot talent in the Sanctuary. Please RSVP at talentshow@eliotchapel.org by March 31.

This family-friendly event will mark the culmination of our Stewardship Campaign and all Eliot members and friends are welcome. Come join us as we gather in Adams Hall from 5:00 to 6:00 pm to share a light dinner before proceeding to the Sanctuary for our talent extravaganza, which will run from 6:00 to 7:30 pm.

— Eliot FUN Team

Ministerial Vote: March 3, 2024

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 03:01:43 GMT

Ministerial Vote: March 3, 2024

What an exciting time to be a part of Eliot Chapel! A ministerial vote is a historical moment in any congregation. We want to let you know all of the ways you can participate in this communal process.

Three Ways to Participate in the Ministerial Vote:

IN-PERSON

In-person voting will take place in the Sanctuary on March 3 at 12:45 pm.

(Non-members may attend the meeting but cannot cast a vote.)

Childcare will be provided in the Nursery until 1:30 pm.

ONLINE

Online voting will take place on Zoom on March 3.

A Zoom link will be sent out the week before the meeting. Zoom voting will be “anonymous” to the extent that only two board members will be tallying the votes as they are cast in a chat that only the hosts can see.

If there are multiple members in a household on a signal Zoom call, each may cast a vote in the chat.

We ask that:

Only members of Eliot attend the online meeting
Everyone be logged in by 12:30 to go through a check-in process
Ensure your displayed Zoom name matches the membership roster

BY PROXY

If you cannot attend the meeting in person or via Zoom, you may designate another member of Eliot to vote on your behalf. To do so, please fill out the Proxy Appointment Form and submit it to the Board Secretary no later than February 29 .

The form can be found here .
Copies will also be printed and available in Adams Hall.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 18

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 19:59:49 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, February 18.

Religious Education (RE) for children and youth in 5th grade and younger is held during the 9:45 service. Children and youth aged four and older should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service with their family. The nursery opens at 9:30 for children aged three and younger and those who need freedom of movement. RE classes will begin at 10:00 for 5th grade and younger.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

The 6th & 7th grade group and the 8th-12th grade youth group are OFF this Sunday, February 18. Youth in 6th grade and older should attend the service with their family.

Specific plans for each age group are shared with registered families via email each week. To learn more about this year’s Religious Education program, please contact Scott Stewart at scott@eliotchapel.org .

Shared Plate for February

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 19:15:42 GMT

Shared Plate: Metropolitan Congregations United

Let us be good neighbors. Let us be a generous people. You can give in one of three ways:

Online: Click here for our giving form. Make sure “Shared Plate” is your chosen fund.
By Mail: Please write “MCU" in the memo line of your check and mail it to Eliot Unitarian Chapel, 100 South Taylor Ave., Kirkwood, MO 63122.
By Text: Text "Eliot SharedPlate $(enter amount)" to 73256. A link in the reply text will take you to our secure database webpage where you can complete your transaction. Please note, "SharedPlate" must be entered as one word to reach that preferred option.

Religious Education & Youth Group: Sunday, February 11

Fri, 09 Feb 2024 02:37:36 GMT

The 2023-24 Religious Education and Youth Program continues Sunday, February 11.

The nursery will remain open during the 11:15 service for children aged five and younger who need freedom of movement.

6th & 7th grade youth are on a field trip this Sunday to St. John's Church. Participating youth should gather in Adams Hall at 10:00 am.

Youth Group activities for youth in grades 8-12 will be held during the 11:15 service from January 7 to March 10. Youth should attend the first 15 minutes of the worship service before gathering as a group at 11:30.

Sunday, January 14, 2024

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 20:26:37 GMT

“Martin Luther King – How Leaders Love Us into Liberation” – Rev. Krista Taves

MLK embodied a unique style of leadership that worked in his time. What kind of leaders do we yearn for today?

Featured musicians: Melinda Monroe, vocals & guitar; David Nalesnik, piano.

Order of Service

Sunday, February 4, 2024

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 20:02:59 GMT

“Our Justice Journeys”

Rev. Krista Taves, Matthew Husky, Ro Kelly, and Yvonne Serbell

Everyone has a justice journey, meaning that we all have markers in our lives when we became aware of injustice, began to ask questions about injustice, an injustice changed something inside us, and we did something about it. Three members of our congregation will share their justice journeys.

Featured musicians: Eliot Chapel Chalice Choir; Melinda Monroe, guitar; Eliot Chapel Choir; David Nalesnik, piano.

Order of Service

The Right to Read

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 22:39:43 GMT

A Film in the Racial Justice Series

The Right to Read

A film in the Racial Justice Series presented by Eliot Unitarian Chapel and Women’s Voices Raised for Social Justice

Friday, March 29 at 7:00 pm in Adams Hall at Eliot Chapel

The Right to Read shares stories of an activist, a teacher and two American families who fight to provide our youngest generation with the most foundational indicator of life-long success: the ability to read. When a child doesn’t learn to read, their chances of incarceration, homelessness, and high school dropout increase. This powerful film tackles the fundamental social justice issue of why children aren’t learning to read once they get to school and what we can do about it.

Following the film there will be a discussion about the literacy landscape of St. Louis and a Q&A with Lisa Greening. For ten years, Greening was the executive director of Ready Readers, a St. Louis nonprofit dedicated to preparing preschool-age children from low-income communities to become readers. In 2020, Greening started the St. Louis Chapter of Turn the Page STL, the National Campaign for Grade Level Reading developed to improve third grade reading proficiency, and in 2022 Turn the Page STL won the Pacesetter Community Award from the National Campaign for its collective impact work in the St. Louis community.

Stand Up for Reproductive Rights

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 22:24:01 GMT

End Missouri’s Cruel Total Abortion Ban

Eliot Chapel is joining Missourians for Constitutional Freedom to end Missouri’s cruel total abortion ban and take back our rights! The deadline to submit signatures is May 5. At least 171,592 valid signatures are needed, including at least 8% of voters in six of the eight congressional districts. In order to accomplish this task, we need your help to collect signatures.

Sign up in Adams Hall after the service on Sunday, January 28, or email the Social Justice in Action at socialjustice@eliotchapel.org to volunteer with us!

This is about who makes personal decisions for yourself and your family — you or the government. We should trust patients and their doctors to decide what's right for their unique situation, not politicians.

Special Ministerial Vote March 3!

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 22:05:57 GMT

Check Your Membership

Stop by the bulletin board outside Adams Hall to check for your name on the membership rolls. Only registered members are able to vote on whether to call Rev. Krista Taves as our settled minister. The vote will be held at 12:45 pm on Sunday, March 3 in Eliot's Sanctuary. You can participate in the vote in person, by proxy, or by registering in advance to attend via Zoom. Details will be forthcoming about how to vote by proxy or online.

If you would like to become a member, please reach out to Rev. Krista or the Welcome Team at welcome@eliotchapel.org before February 5 to begin the joining process.

Conversations with Rev. Krista

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 21:50:01 GMT

Opportunities to Meet with Rev. Krista

When the Search Committee announced the recommendation of Rev. Krista Taves as our new settled Lead Minister, we told you what the next step would be: many opportunities for you to meet with Rev. Krista for questions and conversation before the vote to extend a call at the congregational meeting on March 3.

You can now find the full schedule of meetings and events on our website. Please plan to attend at least one! We're offering some targeted meetings for groups within the church who might have common questions as well as general meetings for all. Some events require an RSVP. You can sign up on SignUpGenius. Contact the Search Committee at searchteam@eliotchapel.org if you have questions or trouble signing up.

We look forward to seeing you at one of these events!

St. Louis Area UU Classes Offered This Spring

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 21:49:58 GMT

Classes Open to All Congregations

Three classes which are open to all the congregations have been announced by local UU ministers.

So You Think You Can Preach!

Offered by Rev. Krista Taves

Monday, April 1, 8, 29, & May 6 6:30 - 8:30 pm | at Eliot and online

If you've ever wondered what it would be like to stand at the pulpit offering a message, this is your chance. You will learn basic worship theory, sermon writing strategies, and how to craft a thematically unified worship service. You will end the series with a service ready to offer your congregation! You must attend all 4 sessions. Class Limit of 14. Register here.

Create Your Own Theology

Offered by Rev. Claudia Hall, Minister of the Metro East Unitarian Universalist Congregation

Monday, March 18 and 25 | 6-7:30 pm | on Zoom

Using material from "A House for Hope: The Promise of Progressive Religion for the Twenty-first Century" by Revs. John Buehrens and Rebecca Parker, this class will help you walk through what you believe, why you believe it, and how all the parts of your beliefs come together to create a system of values and meaning for your life.

Email Rev. Claudia at dr.claudia.hall@gmail.com for the Zoom link.

Love @ The Center

Offered by Rev. Kim Mason, First Unitarian Church of St. Louis

Wednesday, February 7 & 21, March 6 & 20 | 6:30-8:00 pm | online and in-person

Article II of the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) Bylaws, Principles and Purposes, is the foundation for all the work of our UUA and its member congregations and covenanted communities. Most remember Article II as our 7 Principles and 6 Sources, which articulate our denominational agreements and name our spiritual and religious foundations. UUA Bylaws require that we revise Article II on a regular schedule. The 2023 proposed revision of Article II is a radical re-visioning that invites us into dialogue with one another about the values of our shared faith community.

We are in a one year discernment period, after which delegates to General Assembly 2024 will vote to accept or reject the proposed Article II revision. Want to learn more? Interested in being a 2024 GA delegate? Wrestling with how this will shape the future of our faith communities? Join Rev. Kim for a four-session small group exploration of the proposed Article II.

This four-session program engages you in the Purposes, Values and Covenant, Inspiration, Inclusion and Freedom of belief of the proposed Article II which will be voted on at General Assembly 2024. Sessions are 90-minutes, every other Wednesday, February 7 & 21, March 6 & 20, online AND in-person, 6:30-8:00 pm. This is a covenant-based program that requires participants attend all four sessions. The Zoom link for the sessions will be emailed the week before Session 1.

Projection Screen Installation in Sanctuary

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 20:56:13 GMT

Exciting News!

We have exciting news to share: plans are underway to install a retractable projection screen above the chancel in the Sanctuary. The primary aim behind this installation is to encourage a more interactive experience during services, including:

A platform for off-site guest speakers
Participation with our online congregants
Scrolling announcements and hymn lyrics
Multicast worship services with other congregations

The team working on the installation is Chris Ciszewski, Ken Denson, Jim Lyon, Carl Serbell, and Brian Franklin. One of the foremost objectives of the team is to install the projection screen in a way that will have minimal impact on the aesthetic of the space in the Sanctuary (see images above of screen down and retracted). The team recently consulted with Rev. Scott Sammler-Michael from the UU congregation located in Montclair, New Jersey. Rev. Scott has extensive experience in AV system installations in churches.

The goal is to have the installation completed by early April to coincide with a multicast worship service featuring all UU congregations in the greater St. Louis area. If you have any questions or feedback, please feel free to contact Brian at admin@eliotchapel.org. Stay tuned for further updates from the team!

December Board Bits

Sun, 31 Dec 2023 19:17:58 GMT

December 2023

The Board of Trustees met for our December meeting in Adams Hall on December 19, 2023. The Search Team updated us on the team's progress. The members will offer an update to the congregation in mid-January.

The Board will host its annual meeting on Sunday, May 19 at 1:00 pm. One change under consideration will be a change to the bylaws to allow for online voting.

The Board held a strategic planning workshop in early December. A subcommittee led by Board President-Elect Carole Glauser will lead the charge to create a three-year rolling plan.

The Board is forming a personnel committee to ensure the church is following labor laws and is in right-relationship with the staff. The Minister will rely on the committee when the church is in search for new staff members. The Board is also forming a finance committee who will assist the treasurer with overseeing church finances.

The Board will host a winter retreat on February 3 to dig deeper on many of these issues we are tackling this year, including looking at our governance model and any changes that might be needed.

The Board's end-of-year fundraising ask raised more than $26,030 with more anticipated to come in.

November Board Bits

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 19:10:46 GMT

November 2023

The Board of Trustees met on November 21, 2023 in Adams Hall.

The Board recently participated in the Downtown Kirkwood annual Halloween Walk ( see photo above ) by handing out candy and informational fliers from a booth outside of the Kirkwood Farmers’ Market.

The Board also has initiated an annual fundraiser request for donations at the end of the year to fulfill our budget needs for this fiscal year. The deadline to contribute is December 17. The first 100 people to contribute $100 or more will receive an ornament designed and printed by artist member Ahmed Eldarratt.

The Board of Trustees plans to hold a strategic planning workshop with David Pyle, Regional Lead for the Unitarian Universalist Association, which will give us a kick-start to creating a rolling 3-year strategic plan.

The Board is working to make changes to the way we evaluate our lead minister. In the past, the minister’s annual evaluation was based on how well the church met our stated goals as evaluated by congregation members in an annual survey. Now we will move to a new process that provide a more specific evaluation process in many areas that are important to our church.

The church has hired Brian Franklin as our new Congregational Administrator and he brings with him a wealth of experience and fresh perspectives.

October Board Bits

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 15:50:16 GMT

The Board of Trustees met October 17 for a board meeting.

Among the items we discussed were:

The evaluation process for our lead minister: in the past, we have conducted an annual survey to get feedback from the congregation about how well the church is meeting our end statements and the responses were used as part of the evaluation process for the minister. The current board is interested in considering other ways to evaluate a minister. Board president Sara Fleming consulted with the Unitarian Universalist Association and learned of a plan called "Fulfilling the Call" which includes an evaluation rubric. Board members will evaluate this document and begin rethinking our relationship between our end statements and how we evaluate our minister.
The board received an update on staffing. As a reminder, staffing this year is being done jointly between the Board of Trustees and Rev. Krista because this is an interim year. Typically, the lead minister would handle all staffing. We now have a candidate who is going to start on a contract basis for an interim period to help with bookkeeping and administration tasks until we find the right person for the full-time position. We have had a steady flow of applicants and interviews for the congregational administrator position.
Adam had his final Sunday with us as music director. We are searching for a choir director and the hiring team is actively interviewing for this position. In the meantime, the music team is leading worship music.
The board has scheduled a workshop with the UUA in December to work on a strategic plan for Eliot Chapel.
Join the Board outside of the produce stand in Kirkwood from 5:00-7:00 pm Thursday, October 26 at the Downtown Kirkwood Halloween Walk. We will be handing out candy to trick-or-treaters.

As always you can join us for board meetings. They are held on the third Tuesday of the month in Adam's Hall. The next one will be Nov. 21.

Question or concern? Email us at board@eliotchapel.org

Eliot Chapel handed out candy to trick-or-treaters at the Downtown Kirkwood Halloween Walk.

September Board Bits

Sat, 30 Sep 2023 15:37:15 GMT

The Eliot Chapel Board of Trustees met Monday, September 25 in Adams Hall for our September meeting.

The Board finalized a new Board Handbook and voted to require all board members to be background checked. We are working to schedule a strategic planning workshop with a representative of the Unitarian Universalist Association later this year. We hope to create a rolling 3-year strategic plan for Eliot.

Rev. Krista updated us on some of the staff transitions as well.

A team of board members and Rev. Krista are interviewing candidates for the new Congregational Administrator and choir director roles.

Currently, an executive team comprising Sara Fleming, Carole Glauser, Susan Bell, Gary Gray, Mary Meihaus, Debby Lovell and Rev. Krista is regularly meeting to manage finance and operations while the church is searching for the new Congregational Administrator.

A newly-formed music team is working to fill the special music when the choir is not singing and to arrange for song leaders for non-choir Sundays. Long-term this group will look closely at the musical choices we make both consciously and unconsciously.

A front office team is in place to staff the office from 10am to 3pm Monday through Friday to answer the phones and help manage the office.